Do you have those six qualities that help to define a person? Those six life skills that make others look at you and wonder: how does she do it? Are they natural qualities or can you develop, cultivate and make them your own?
Take a look at the top six things that seem to offer inspiration to others and ask yourself if you tick those boxes, too.
Some people just have a knack for appearing to be cool, calm and collected in virtually everything that they do. They seem to look serenely at life and love, always striving to achieve their aims while still helping others to achieve theirs. They appear to see the good in everyone they come into contact with, yet they don’t make rash decisions that will hurt or harm others.
These women always look amazing and—whatever they wear, wherever they go—they always seem to look sexy and confident in their own skin. For most of us mere mortals, we are left agog on the side lines wondering: how does she do it?
When you break it right down, it seems simple: six fairly ordinary traits, all great on their own. But, if you put them together, you could become just as inspiring and be your very own superwoman!
1. Positivity: A positive perspective on life is a healthy one.
Some people can’t help but see everything from a positive perspective. Whatever is thrown at them, they seem to handle themselves in an I-can-do-this-and-won’t-let-it-get-me-down upbeat sort of manner.
Sometimes, even in the face of horrible adversity, these people can care about others and realize that there is always someone worse off. It can be so humbling to witness, so being positive about yourself and your life is something that you can definitely work at.
2. Sexiness: It is something that can be developed.
Some people, men and women, seem to have sexiness in spades—but it’s always hard to pin down exactly what makes them that way. Of course, low cut dresses, short skirts or tight pants might have a part to play, but clothes alone can’t make you sexy if you’re not.
It’s mostly about having the confidence to walk tall and look people straight in the eye. If you feel good about yourself, chances are you will feel confident about your appearance. If you can look at people during a conversation, chances are you are confident about what you are going to say.
3. Imagination and Empathy: They’re a marvellous combination.
Are you able to freeze a moment in your mind’s eye? Can you put yourself in someone else’s shoes and attempt to see it their way? Imagination and empathy are valuable and inspiring and are really worth practicing, particularly if you feel that there is a chance that you fall short in these skills.
If you are reading a good book at the moment, try to imagine how a heroine might feel about something that has happened in the story and then try to imagine how you would feel if you were the heroine. Developing these skills may help you to decide on various actions that you intend to take.
4. Goodness: Decency or just plain nice?
It’s that word ‘nice’ that tends to sit well with people who just generally seem to be filled with goodness.
Although, on the surface, it would be easy to say that there are not many really good people around, there are in fact many genuine people who try to help others whenever they can; giving up their time to care for people who need it, which is surely an admirable quality to try to develop.
I have always believed in angels and still think that everyone has something good in them—it’s just harder to find in some people than others, but it’s always worth spending the time to look.
5. Love: Open your heart to a great capacity.
The ability to love the things and people around you is a marvellous thing and some people seem to have a very large capacity for love. It’s probably about trying to find reasons to love: love your mother—she bore you; love your father—he‘s good to you; love your friend—she’s there for you; love your fellow man and woman—they probably need your love too. It feels good to love.
6. Tenacity: Just keep going.
“If you don’t give up and don’t give in, you may just be ok“—this is a terrific line from a Mike and the Mechanics song.
So much has been written about tenacity and never giving up on your dreams and, invariably, each quote or tome has the same message: never give up because you will make it in the end. Having a tenacious spirit is a gift that will help you to maintain positivity in life.
There you have it: six superwoman qualities that we can all cultivate and develop. Which ones do you need to work on? Please share your thoughts in the comments section. We’d love to hear from you!
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