In Bed

15 Tips to Make Him Rock Hard and Want You More

Foreplay has never been this hot! Find out how to turn him on, and make him desire you instantly with these awesome sex tips.

It doesn’t take much to turn a man on, and that is why these tips are short and simple! Sex doesn’t have to be complicated; all you have to do is use your common sense and a little bit of imagination…

Tease Him!

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The first stage of foreplay is all about giving a guy something to want. Make him want to chase you! Become his number one object of desire…

#1 Show Some Sun-kissed Flesh…

…and make him think of summer! Summer is the season of hot sex, so take advantage of shimmery lotions and show off your sexy shoulders! Not confident about your body? Here's how you can sizzle away any unwanted pounds quickly.

#2 Smell Like Citrus…

…and make him want to have a taste! There is nothing sexier to a guy than a girl who smells so good he could devour her right on the spot! Citrus perfumes, creams and body lotions are definitely the way to go, if you want to attract your man. Alternatively, anything that smells fresh and clean will do the trick!

#3 Be Silky Smooth…

… and make him want to touch you! A smooth leg is an invitation to stroke, kiss and basically get intimate with you, so get the wax, razors and silky mitts out ladies and give him something gorgeous to feel.

Draw Him In!

Now he’s seen, smelt or felt something he wants, it’s time to let him know you want him too – and that means it’s time to start flirting! Don’t worry, you don’t need any qualifications to know how to seduce a man; you’ve already got everything you need…

#4 Catch His Eye…

… by flicking your luscious hair over to one side to reveal your sexy neck. The feminine movement of your hair will get his visual attention, and the sight of your exposed skin will lure him in.

Tip: If you wear earrings, a small glint of crystal will make sure his eyes are drawn to where you want them! Tuck your hair coyly behind your ear and stroke your collar bone.

#5 Establish A Connection…

…by maintaining intimate eye contact. Try to hold the glance for as long as possible; be daring! Guys love girls who have plenty of confidence – especially when she spots something or someone she wants!

#6 Confirm The Attraction…

…by giving him a flirtatious smile! A girl who smiles is open, honest and approachable. A smile is an invitation for communication!

Get Physical!

woman seduces a man on the leather couch

Nothing will excite him more than the physical contact he gets during the flirtation stage; it feels forbidden, like secret moments are being stolen from the everyday environment. Take advantage of any close proximity to let him know you want him too!

#7 Touch Him…

…but only fleetingly during conversation, so that he has space to wonder if you did it on purpose, and ponder whether or not you want him to reciprocate! Half the fun is in the imagining.

#8 Keep Him Guessing…

…because men get off on the chase! So retain some of your mystery and don’t give him everything you’ve got – just yet!

#9 Leave Him With A Sure Sign…

…like a kiss on the corner of the mouth, and a sly knowing glance as you say goodbye! Confirm his hopes and you won’t have to do much more of the work, believe me. The ball will be in his court, and he will be ready to play!

Don’t Give In Just Yet Though!

You know he wants you, and he knows you want him, but the game is not up yet! If you want him to really want you, then you have to prolong the chase for just the right amount of time. You have to make him work for what he wants, so that when he finally gets you, he will feel completely satisfied…

#10 Play Hard To Get…

…by making sure you are not readily available. You already know he wants you, and you have let him know that you want him, so playing a bit of hard to get won’t put him off. It will just let him know that you want him to work a little bit harder because you know you’re worth it!

#11 Remind Him You Have Choices…

…so that when you choose him he will feel all the more special! Show him that other guys desire you too, and that you enjoy the attention. It will spark his competitive masculine nature, and he will work harder to keep your interest.

#12 Reward Him…

…with special attention. Do it in front of the other guys, and he will feel like he is winning. Laugh louder at his jokes, accept his offers to buy you drinks, listen to him intently when he speaks and comment on what he says with thoughtful and engaged responses. He will appreciate your focus and you will reinforce the connection between you.

Show Him He’s Scored The Jackpot!

Young beautiful blond woman looking in the mirror on the bed

Make him feel like he is the luckiest guy on the planet and stroke his ego at the same time by giving him something really exciting to discover when he wins you over completely…

#13 Layer It Up…

…I’m talking about your clothes. Think carefully about what you wear on that essential final date, before you both officially get intimate! Wearing sexy layers so that you can slowly reveal yourself throughout the night, giving him a little bit more, every time you peel off an item of clothing, will build the sexual anticipation. Think – jacket, silk scarf, cardigan, a strappy dress that keeps slipping off the shoulder. And then of course there is underwear… give him something exciting to unwrap himself, when the time comes!

#14 Be Confident…

…but not slutty! Never offer yourself on a plate, at least certainly not at this stage. He has to work for what he wants every step of the way if you want him to truly appreciate you. If you can always hold a little bit back, you will leave him always wanting more. Tease him and make him think you want him to have you, but always pull back a little, and he will want to ravish you!

#15 And Finally…

…submit to your own desires, and don’t hold back! You will know instinctively when the time comes to be uninhibited and let your desire and passion lead the way. A girl who knows how to let go and enjoy herself in the end, ranks top of any guy’s list of sexy women. When you think he has earned it, show him the sexy beast beneath!

All you have to remember about men are these three things:

  • They are attracted to femininity and self-confidence.
  • They will appreciate something more when they have had to work hard to get it.
  • Their weak point is their male ego, but you can always use it to your advantage!

#16: And Now Start The Real Teasing

But don't make him wait for ever. In the end, he has to “catch” you or get caught by you. And now that you've built up his anticipation completely and are done with mental foreplay, comes your physical foreplay. The kind that makes him want to take you to his cave and do kinky things to you. Now, the sexiest way to get him super hard with total desire is to tease him with your swirling tongue. Let him feel how bad you want him, deep inside you. Worship him. Slowly, sensually, and with total desire. He'll think he died and went to heaven.

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Scarlett Robinson

I am inspired by the ways people interact. Human behaviour and emotions are wonderfully complex, and I want to dig deeper and understand more. This is why I explore intimate relationships in my writing. (I’m also ever so slightly kinky.)

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