Guys are often envious of other guys who have a bigger penis, but the truth is that we girls are happy with an average-sized penis that won’t break us from the inside.
When a guy pulls his pants down and we are faced with his giant member, that look of disbelief on our faces isn’t necessarily admiration, it is actually disbelief – disbelief that it will fit, without a lot of ripping, stretching and general agony.
Luckily we underestimate the capacity of our vaginas and the potential stretch it has. Remember ladies, it was designed to let a baby out, and a baby is a lot bigger than any guy’s penis. Of course nobody wants to associate sex with the pain of giving birth, do they?
Sex with a well-endowed man doesn’t have to be a painful or even an uncomfortable experience though.
So let’s look at some facts first…
- The average vagina is about 3-4 inches in length
- During something called “Vaginal Tenting” it has the capacity to reach 5-6 inches or more (Read more about Vaginal tenting below).
- Inside, the walls of your vagina are pleated so that it can expand to accommodate tampons, penises, dildos, babies, and whatever else women are pulling in and out!
- Your vagina may seem smaller at certain times of the month due to your cervix lowering.
- Your cervix won’t like being prodded by an extra long penis! This is why deep penetration can cause pain or make sex feel uncomfortable in certain positions.
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Did you know that during sexual arousal a process occurs whereby muscle tension in your vagina pulls your uterus up when you are really turned on, allowing your vagina to expand like a wonderfully roomy tent.
Imagine it being like an umbrella and opening up! When this happens even more room is created, which is why it is so important for your man to pay attention to foreplay, especially if he has an unusually large penis.
Benefits of Extended Foreplay:
- Vaginal tenting, allowing more space for him to thrust.
- Increased and continuous natural lubrication, making penetration easier and smoother for both of you.
- Relaxed muscles and increased sensitivity around your vagina, making the whole sexual experience more pleasurable for you.
Remember that foreplay is essentially about getting into the right frame of mind, and turning you both on so that intercourse feels natural, and your focus is entirely on the sensations you are both experiencing. A really good orgasm is based on equal proportions of physical and mental stimulation.
When you are dealing with an abnormally large penis it is even more important for your whole body and mind to be in a state of relaxation. The thought of his larger-than-life penis has probably already caused some tension in your body that will go against you both during sex.
Your aim should be to get your vagina into a relaxed state of openness, so that it invites him in rather than resists him.
Warning: Some women make the mistake of thinking that alcohol will help them relax, and while this may be true, it also numbs the senses making it more difficult for you to become physically aroused.
You may feel turned on in your head, but your body won’t agree. Alcohol dehydrates you, and your natural lubrication levels will be lowered – a major problem when you have to accommodate a large penis!
Using Lubrication When Having Sex With A Big Penis
Don’t just rely on your natural lubrication if you know your partner is well-endowed. Use everything at your disposal to give yourselves the opportunity to enjoy sex together. There are plenty of lubes to choose from and have some fun with, before and during sex.
Go for a water-based lubricant as it will be least likely to interfere and cause infections. You can play around with flavoured lubricants and enjoy oral sex from your man beforehand. If he can bring you to have an orgasm or two before penetration your vagina is more likely to be receptive to his large penis and your muscles will be suitably relaxed too.
You are more likely to achieve an orgasm through penetration too if you have already had one or two prior to intercourse, because everything will be tingling nicely down there, ready to tip you over the edge again!
Make sure that his penis is lavishly lubed up before you start, and don’t forget to keep topping it up because lubricants dry out qui, and go slow. Any man who knows his penis is a big one should know to take it easy. No sudden thrusts to catch you unawares.
He should aim to build up the intensity of each thrust naturally so that you are prepared for each one and can enjoy yourself without being startled by any sudden pain, which will totally work against everything you have done to relax your vagina.
If he is particularly long, then you may want to avoid certain sex positions that allow deep penetration. If you feel a sharp sudden pain, or if you are feeling uncomfortable, it is probably because he is penetrating too deep and hitting the top of your vagina where your cervix is, which will be painful.
If he keeps going, and you grin and bear it, you will experience a bruised feeling for a few days in your lower abdomen, and in severe cases you may even experience bleeding.
Sex Positions To Avoid With An Extra-Large Penis
- Doggy-style is a no-no because it nearly always gives the guy an urge to thrust and go crazy… which is definitely going to hurt you if he has a long penis.
- Anything with your legs up over your head that allows deep penetration will hurt.
- Any position where he has all the control – unless you trust him immensely and he is super-patient and gentle.
The Best Sex Positions For An Extra-Large Penis
- You on top is good because you will be able to control the depth of your thrusts, the pace, and well everything. Just don’t let him grab your hips and start banging you up and down on top of him! You can do this one lying in bed, or sitting on a chair too, which adds to the variety.
- Missionary can be good, especially if you close your legs to prevent him from thrusting too deeply. Also he can see your face and see if you are in pain!
- Side-by-side is great because neither of you can thrust too deeply.
- Spooning can be good too because unless he positions himself, he won’t get the angle to thrust too deeply.
Play around with different angles until you discover what is enjoyable.
A Quick Word On Oral Sex
Oral sex doesn’t just have to be about fitting his entire penis down your throat. There are plenty of ways to give a satisfying blow job that work well with a big penis. Here are some tips to keep in mind…
- Remember that a great blow job is about the whole experience! So show enthusiasm, not fear. Lavish all of your attention on his penis – remember he’s probably very proud of it!
- Do your research and find out what the most sensitive parts of his penis are. We have some great articles that tell you exactly what guys like and exactly how to stimulate each part of his penis.
- Use your hands as well as your tongue, lips and mouth to stimulate his entire penis without having to fit all of it down your throat.
- Don’t forget to stimulate his mind too – a sexy blow job is about being creative, being a bit naughty, and loving every minute of it!
- Dig around in your goody-draw to see which vibrating toys you can use to assist you…