You’ve been stood up and you feel angry and hurt, and above all you feel humiliated. But there can be many reasons for his not showing up. Listed below are just a few examples.
If he doesn’t show up, you shouldn’t worry, get mad or blame him right away. Perhaps something has happened to him on his way to pick you up or while going to the place where you were supposed to meet. A car accident or a family misfortune could be plausible explanations, as well as justifiable excuses. Wait until he calls. If he doesn’t do it within a day, erase him from your life.
In this case you really have every right to get mad and blame him. If he has a plausible excuse, give him one more chance. If it happens again, dump him.
He didn’t have enough courage to tell you he doesn’t want to see you any more, so he just didn’t show up for your date.
If this is not the first time that he hasn’t shown up for a date, then perhaps he has started seeing someone else. And even if he has always managed to offer justifiable excuses, you should however start being suspicious. This is a good warning sign that there is another person in his life. So, don’t accept his explanations, but face him and find out what’s going on. What he is doing is selfish, disrespectful and disloyal.
Well, in case it is your first date, there may also be various explanations for his not showing up.
1. He might have decided that he is not that interested in you and that he doesn’t really wish to see you.
2. He had a girlfriend and he suddenly felt guilty. Well, he should’ve called and explained. This is called inconsiderate behavior.
Well, these are just some of the many possible explanations for why a guy doesn’t show up for a date. Whatever the reason may be, remember to preserve your self-respect and don’t ever allow anyone to play with your feelings. You should expect the same from the others.
Jessica is a translator who has lived for many years in Asia and South America. She now lives and works in Europe, while preparing her new journeys. She enjoys traveling, meeting new people, exploring different cultures and foods, and being in love.
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