You’re into horoscope and astrology? Well then, this one’s for you! If the guy you’ve got your eyes on is a Virgo, he’s probably going to share certain characteristics of that Zodiac sign. It wouldn’t hurt to try and approach him according to what that says about him.
Here’s some general info about Virgos that might give you an idea of what they’re all about:
- their ruling planet is Mercury
- their element is earth
- basic trait: I analyze!
- strengths: perfectionist, realistic, sincere, reliable, practical, patient
- weaknesses: critical, pushes himself too much, restless
If you’re on the prowl for a Virgo man, the first thing you need to know is that a mushy, emotion packed, outburst of affection is NOT going to get you anywhere when it comes to this guy.
A Virgo is, first and foremost, very realistic, and it’s usually very difficult for them to relax, and get carried away in a big fairy tale that you might want. Too generous displays of emotion, and getting showered in affection, are only going to scare him off, and make him even more distant.
Virgos are perfectionists in general, so a Virgo man is going to notice everything! He’s known to over analyze stuff when it comes to his appearance, his looks and everything else – if he notices a little thread hanging off his shirt it’s going to drive him nuts.
While he’s striving for perfection in everything he does, he’s also going to want someone he can’t find a flaw in.
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He’s going to go for a girl who is super slick, who obviously takes good care of herself, and he’ll look at every single detail.
The thing about Virgos, and romance that can get in your way, is the fact that they just don’t seem to mind being single at all – they simply do not chase girls. Combine that with the fact that you are chasing him, and openly showing your affection, might not do much help, since he’s not that sentimental. You see how it can’t get a bit complicated?
But don’t despair. It’s not all bad. In fact, it’s not bad at all. You see, even though he’s not the one to fall in love at first sight, and throw big romantic gestures at you all the time, once you get his heart, you’ll be rewarded with a partner who’ll make you feel loved and appreciated.
He’ll be sincere, dependable, patient, loving. All the things you might think aren’t in him, because he doesn’t show his emotions, will be so much more profound once he decides to form a relationship with you.
How to get there? Play it smart! Yes, he’s kind of into looks, and cleanliness, and stuff, but in the end, the most important thing you’ll need to have to seduce a Virgo man, is a good brain in your head! He’ll go for someone who can hold a conversation, who has a sense of humor to match his, someone who has etiquette, manners, poise.
Don’t worry – you show him that you’re ‘clean’ inside and out, and you’ll be in his heart in no time – and as I’ve already said, being in his heart is going to be amazing!