If you are looking for an easy way to turn your man on in the bedroom, dig out your highest pair of sexy stilettos and wear them while having sex! Why do men love high heels in the bedroom? Let’s find out…
For some reason wearing stilettos during sex is guaranteed to turn most men on. I’m not just saying this, I have asked many men, and researched through many online forums, and the verdict is that every single man has expressed an enthusiastic (drooling) response to the mention of high heels in bed.
Personally I quite like it if my man wears his trilby to bed, so maybe it’s an attraction to formal-wear juxtaposed with a raunchy intent.
I have come up with a list of 10 reasons as to why men love high heels in the bedroom to explain this phenomena, along with lots of handy tips for you sexy girls who want to give it a go!
1. The Fantasy
Whether you are half naked in the bedroom or suited up in the office, women in the highest heels get the most attention from guys. It may not always be the kind of attention we want, but it’s a fact. Men are turned on by a woman in heels.
Why? Because it reminds him of his secret fantasies – Shagging his boss, being whipped into submission by a hot dominatrix, a close-encounter with a high-class hooker. High heels connote erotic sex. It makes sense to wear them in the bedroom every once in a while!
2. Body Enhancing
When you wear your heels suddenly you are taller, you stand up straight with an air of confidence, your legs look longer, your chest is perkier and your bum sticks out and swings when you walk.
Heels naturally mold your body into the right shape to sexually attract a man, and the higher the better!
High heels also make you appear slimmer because of the way you have to hold your body, and they draw your man’s attention to the entire length of your body when it is looking it’s best.
3. High Heels and Stockings
They go together! Why?
Because your man’s eyes will be directed from the sexy heels, up your curvy shins to your sexy thighs… and what’s hidden between your thighs? The “X” spot you want him to pay attention to! Think of it like a trail… leading your man to the treasure/pleasure zone…
4. The Fine Line Between Pleasure and Pain
When a guy is turned on, it doesn’t hurt when you graze his back or thighs with your stiletto, it drives him wild! Why?
Because it contains connotations of S&M, so your guy’s brain is instantly programmed to be turned on by your stilettos as instruments of sexy pleasure/punishment when you tease and dig that heel into his muscles.
5. Feeling Sexy Equals Confidence
If you know you look good, then you will naturally exude confidence which essentially is what’s really turning him on!
High heels make you feel dressed up and feminine, they compliment your day-wear and evening outfits, so why wouldn’t they compliment your bedroom outfits? If you feel sexy, you are confident, which means he will see you as a sexy confident women.
Who wouldn’t want to take that sexy woman to bed?
6. The Visual Turn On Vs. Practicality
There is just something so sexy for both you and your partner to see a flash of your high heels during sex – whether your legs are waving about in the air above his head, or wrapped around his waist while he’s thrusting you up against the wall!
It’s that little bit of raunch you need to spice up the sex and make it seem a little bit more risque than usual.
Of course, wearing heels during the actual act of sex isn’t always practical. For example, if you are quite active during sex, changing positions regularly and moving about in bed, then your heels are just going to hinder you and possibly even poke someone’s eye out!
But if you wear heels you can easily kick off when you need to, then there’s no issue; just remember to kick them off to the side before you get acrobatic…
7. High Heels Can Make You Look a Bit Slutty
Yes, wearing high heels in bed may make you feel like a tarty little whore, but if you’re into it and so is he then who cares? Some older women may have their hang ups about wearing heels and feeling like they look a bit slutty, but if it turns you both on, then I say go for it.
Sex is all about having fun and connecting with your partner, and besides it’s just between you and a man you trust so there’s no need to feel insecure. It’s time to experiment!
8. Red Heels and Long Red Nails
Guys love this sort of thing because it’s sensual and erotic, especially watching and feeling your red nails and heels rake his chest or legs.
It provokes all sorts of erotic fantasies that adds spark to your sexual session. Red is exciting, and bringing it into the bedroom at some point is a must.
9. Half-Dressed Sex Is a Turn On
Having sex with your partner and not necessarily removing all of your clothes is hot because it gives an exciting feeling of unplanned and spontaneous sex!
Opening your blouse to reveal your bra and allowing one nipple out but not actually taking any clothing off is sexy because it feels rough and raunchy. Hitching your skirt up and pulling your knickers to one side is sexy because your guy will want to look down, and he will see that you still have your high heels on too, which will turn him on.
10. High Heels and Mirrors
Wearing high heels in the bedroom is all about appealing to your man’s visual appreciation, so why not step it up a notch and introduce a full length mirror?
Then not only will your guy get the pleasure of having sex with you in heels, but he will also get the voyeuristic pleasure of watching you have sex in your heels in the mirror, which will give both of you a whole new level of enjoyment.
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