Can you orgasm from anal sex? Yes, you can. Find out why, and learn how to have more pleasure during sex through anal stimulation.
First let us get one thing straightened out, anal sex and anal stimulation are two entirely different things. It is certainly possible to achieve an orgasm through anal sex. But, it isn’t easy or very likely if you don’t have much experience because anal sex is a lot more complicated than vaginal sex.
Preparation is Everything
In order to achieve any pleasure through anal sex a couple must get their preparation and technique right otherwise it will only be uncomfortable and cause pain. Anal stimulation on the other hand is only as intrusive as you want it to be, and there is less likely to be any risk of pain involved. The pleasure anal stimulation can bring to sex can be very inviting!
The anal opening has a wonderful collection of nerve endings that makes it feel very good to be touched and massaged down there when you are already feeling aroused. The more aroused you are the more relaxed your muscles will be. The easier it will be for your partner to insert his fingers, a toy, or his penis.
However, the anus is not like the vagina which is self-lubricating, and rectum tissues are very thin and will easily tear causing discomfort and increase risks of infection, so it is essential to use plenty of lubrication in and around the anus and anything you want to use to play with.
The best lubricants to use are water-based lubricants designed especially for sexual play. If you use something like petroleum jelly you will find that the jelly is too thick and sticky and will gather on the inner walls of your rectum, which could cause upsets for you later.
Are you eager to try something new?
If you and your partner want to experiment with anal play and you are hoping to achieve an anal orgasm you need to be able to relax into the right state of mind for it. Many women are wary of trying it because of all the negative social connotations.
Women find it undesirable because of the hygiene implications, and it’s general taboo associations. Other women find these taboos make anal sex seem even more enticing though. Are you one of these women? Are you attracted to the kinky connotations and eager to try something new?
If so then great because it means you will have less worried thoughts going through your head and causing all of your muscles to tense up. Insecurities and anal sex don’t work well together, you must be totally relaxed and completely trust your partner.
You must also be one hundred and ten per cent aroused before you start!
Orgasms are much more powerful
Anal play is an excellent way to intensify the pleasure you get from ordinary vaginal intercourse and clitoral stimulation. In fact there are many women who agree that the orgasms they have when they introduced a little anal play are much more powerful!
This is because the pelvic nerve connects the clitoris, the vagina, the bladder and the rectum, so that when you stimulate more than one area you can produce more intense pleasure. Have you ever wondered why squeezing your butt cheeks before or during an orgasm can intensify it? It’s all connected by various nerves.
Try it: Use a vibrator to stimulate your anus hole the next time you masturbate. See what it does to your orgasm. Or guide your partners moist thumb to massage your anus while you are having sex and see how excited you get!
The thrill of doing something a little bit naughty is sure to get your heart beating that little bit faster…
5 More Ways to Achieve Orgasm Using Anal Stimulation
Rimming
Your partner can use his tongue or a moist finger to ‘rim’ the entrance to your rectum. It can be a big turn on during an intimate kissing session, because it is a naughty little secret between just the two of you. If he goes down on you and during oral sex, moves even further down to stimulate your anus with his tongue it can be a naughty surprise. Be prepared by always making sure sure you are super clean, that way you can enjoy yourself without feeling self-conscious. Get him to play with your clit at the same time!
Butt Plugs
These are like shorter dildos, often in the shape of an elongated diamond for easy insertion. They work differently than dildos, though. They are designed to stay ‘plugged’ in place rather than moved in and out. The pleasure comes from your sphincter muscles on the inside of your anus that naturally clench tightly to prevent anything from entering your rectum. If you are wearing a butt plug during sexual intercourse or foreplay, then these muscles with naturally contract with the movement of your body causing all the nerve endings in your anal vicinity to react and give you extra pleasure to help build up an intense orgasm. Your guy can wear one too!
Vibrators
Some butt plugs come with built-in vibration settings which can lead you into a wonderful new realm of pleasure. Alternatively you can use an ordinary vibrator or vibrating dildo to stimulate your anal opening during sex or foreplay. You can even get special vibrators that are designed to be worn on your partner’s thumb. You can choose to use them either on your clitoris or your anus! Just make sure you choose one end and stick to it!
Lubrication
Using plenty of water-based or even flavoured lube can make anal play even more fun and pleasurable. You will find in easier to slip your fingers in and out and feel those inner sphincter muscles contracting and relaxing, and you can even build yourself up to having full-on anal sex with your partner.
Other Anal Sex Toys
There are a variety of different kinds of sex toys you can experiment with to produce different sensations in and around your anal area. Try Anal beads, anal chains, different shaped butt plugs and probes – just to name a few! Ann Summers also do a ‘Booty bath Douche’ if you want to try anal play or anal sex but are self conscious of any unpleasant accidental mess.
Ways to Enjoy Awesome Anal Sex With Your Guy
If you’re going to enjoy anal sex as part of your sexual relationship, then you may as well explore all of the possibilities! We have put together a list of sexy ideas for you and your guy to try out, to help you get the most out of your anal play. Enjoy…
An exciting way to increase the tension is to combine the taboo experience of anal sex with something risqué. Like, making out in public or just before you have company over. Have your partner sneakily rub your anus through your underwear while placing his hand up the back of your skirt. It will be worth it.
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