How Tell If You Are A Good Match In Bed

Jack,

Can you give me any suggestions to find out if I am sexually “compatible” with someone without taking the risk of having sex to find out.  I don’t want to have sex multiple times with multiple partners in order to discover our compatibility.

–    L.C.

/// Got this question from a reader. Thought it might be useful for others, too.

Here’s my reply:

Hey L.C.,

Decades ago there was this belief that being sexually compatible meant that his penis fit just right into her vulva – like a foot being the right size for the glass slipper.

I’m glad we’ve all wised up on that.

Just like you will never find the “perfect” partner, you will never find a “perfect” sexual match. The reason is that you both will change over the years. Each of your hormone levels will rise and fall. Your bodies will alter over time. Your sexual needs and desires will change with the decades.

So you should not be looking for someone who wants to have sex the exact number of times a week as you do or has all the same “fetishes” or fantasies. That changes. And could evolve.

What you should look for is someone who has the same views and general sexual desires as you. And you don’t need to boink someone to find that out.

But you will need to ask the right questions. You’ll need to know about their past sexual experiences, how they view sex inside a committed relationship and yes, knowing how often they desire “release” and some of their fantasies would be quite telling.

A great resource I often recommend is 500 Intimate Questions for Couples. I guarantee that if you and your partner honestly answer the questions you’ll know with 99% certainty whether you are compatible or not.

You can get these 500 questions here >>

(and just a few will already reveal a lot about your compatibility).

It’s really easy…

Just use this resource anytime when you begin a new relationship. You’ll get a whole new perspective about this guy.

Your Relationship Coach,

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