It’s Never Too Late to Inject Sexual Anticipation into a Relationship
Rediscovering the sexual anticipation in a relationship when you have been sleeping with your partner for months, or even years can seem like an impossible thing to do because you know each so well that everything has become predictable.
But it is precisely because you know each other so well and already have that important intimacy factor established that injecting some sexual anticipation can be even more exciting than if you didn’t know each other that well, because you are venturing back into unknown territory with someone you think you know inside out. And there is always something new to discover.
#1 Make “Touch” More Exciting
It is when he notices something unexpected that turns him on about you that he sits up and pays attention. Playing footsie underneath a table can be made even more exciting if you slip your shoe off and you are wearing silky, sheer stockings, because when you run your leg up his thigh and he touches your foot with his hand he won’t be expecting to feel them!
That will send his imagination off in all directions!
#2 Put More Passion into Your Kissing
When you are so used to each other a quick peck on the lips in public becomes the norm, so when you slip your tongue inside his mouth like you mean it instead, his senses will suddenly come alive!
A kiss with even a little more passion than usual, especially when performed out in public is a real tease, because you will leave him wanting more.
#3 Plant Random Sexual Thoughts in his Head
In the middle of the day make a passing comment just to make him think about having sex with you. For example, when having dinner in a posh restaurant… “I wonder what our waiter would think if we disappeared to the toilets together and I returned looking somewhat disheveled?” Or when viewing a new apartment… “Do you think this tiled floor would be too cold to have sex on?”
Foreplay should start a lot earlier throughout the day by stimulating his mind with some dirty words. He’ll want to tear your clothes apart once he finally gets a chance.
#4 Dirty Sexting
If you’re going to send him a text in the middle of the day, don’t make it a soppy one; make it downright naughty! For best effect use obscene language to shock and give him an instant hard on.
He will wonder who on earth you think you are, and he’ll be waiting in anticipation to meet this new girlfriend of his!
If you’re not super-confident about your dirty texting skills, try using Felicity Keith’s famous guide Language of Desire.
#5 Make Him Come and Get it!
Sex, with a boyfriend, in a bedroom, on a bed… can’t get much more predictable than that! What he won’t be expecting though is if you stop half way through and slide away from him with sexy “come and get it” eyes, and then confidently walk out of the room winking back at him and gesturing for him to follow.
He will already be turned on from the sex you have just been having, and his desire to continue will be overwhelming. He will definitely get up and chase you to whichever room you decide to go to, and the sex will be far more hungry and satisfying than if you had stayed in bed doing it like you always do it!
#6 Leave Him With a Sexy Mental Image of you in the Morning
When it comes to sex men have a vast vocabulary of sexual scenarios in their heads, and so tapping into their active imaginations isn’t ever going to be rocket science.
All you have to do is leave a sex toy lying around on the side for him to notice before he leaves in the morning and he will instantly have several images imprinted in his imagination of all the things you could be getting up to with it during the day!
#7 Wear something incredibly naughty underneath your everyday clothes
The trick to teasing a guy is to make him want to immediately pounce on you when he can’t. Having to wait for it is the ultimate tease. But don’t make it look like you are depriving him.
He will find it more exciting if it looks like it is circumstances holding him back rather than you. Public places are great for teasing because there is only so far he can go right there and then.
Describe what you are wearing underneath your jeans to him in a sexy whisper while you are sitting on the bus, for example, and he will be thinking about ripping your jeans off all the way home!
#8 Tease Him in the Elevator
The public elevator is the perfect place for a wandering hand because you can be pretty sure that everyone in there is looking straight ahead at the doors or watching the different floors light up.
They won’t be watching your hand gently grope your boyfriend’s ass, and the excitement of knowing that they could spot you will turn you both on. Plus it’s a real tease as he won’t be able to immediately express his growing desire for you; he will have to wait until you are alone!
#9 Leave Pieces of Clothing on During Sex
Telling him not to take your knickers off during sex can be a real tease because he is forced to work around them, and he can’t see the things he most wants to see.
Sometimes, not getting everything you want can be even more of a turn on! Let him pull them to one side to enter you and you will both feel extra raunchy, like you are having desperate, passionate, urgent sex!
#10 Phone Sex Before Bedtime
Call him when you know he is about to go bed and tell him you’re feeling horny. Start to describe what you are doing to yourself and what you want him to do to you. Tease him like crazy with descriptions of sexy things you have enjoyed doing with him. He will soon be well immersed in your verbal fantasies, but all he will be able to do about it is get involved whilst fondling him self down the phone.
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