A female orgasm is somewhat more complex than a man’s is – but we also have an advantage. When we have an orgasm, we can still have sex. And have another, and another, and another orgasm. Use your advantages to the fullest – here are a few tips on how to have mind blowing orgasms.
You know, there’s this old Woody Allen quote from the movie Annie Hal where he says “I’m such a good lover because I practice a lot on my own.” It’s very true. By masturbating you can find out what feels good, and what doesn’t. You can’t expect your boyfriend to know what you like if you don’t know it yourself. Find out what touch and where makes you really… happy.
#2 Don’t Sleep With Idiots
This might come out as strange, but the 1st step to a girls’ amazing orgasm is actually not sleeping with idiots. By idiots, I mean raw, selfish men that only care about their own pleasure and won’t do anything to get you of. For instance, a guy who only receives oral sex is qualified as an idiot.
#3 Mint Lubricant
This is a magnificent product every woman alive should be thankful for and have a pack of it at home. It makes sex less painful and will get you so horny that you’ll want your mind blowing orgasms to stop, because you can’t handle any more. They aren’t really expensive and you can usually buy them at the same places that sell condoms.
It’s very important to know what will result in orgasm in different positions. If you’re doing doggy style, he has to stimulate your clitoris with his fingers. You can do it yourself, too. Same goes to any position where your clitoris isn’t stimulated. If you are doing the missionary, try to get a little more under him, so his penis would “hit the clit” when it penetrates.
#5 Be Honest
Don’t fake orgasms. Men don’t fake their orgasms “not to hurt our feelings”, why should you? If you fake orgasms, your partner will think he’s doing everything right and will just continue doing the same over and over again. Try making allusions about the things you like – show him with your hand and tell him. Be shy in church, not your bedroom. Be relaxed and open. Shyness won’t get you anywhere except towards a really bad faked orgasm. Have sex when you feel you should not because you feel you should.
We are certain that if you apply this advice, your orgasms will be as mind blowing as they can be. Yes, sex it’s self is great – bet really, there is nothing in the world like having mind blowing orgasms to make a girl happy.