Proving your love with small gestures is something that is expected in a relationship. In fact, anything that can show your partner that you love him should be so effortless and come naturally when you do it.
However, many people say that as a relationship goes on, and as time goes by, people stop showing signs of their love.
They may say “I love you”, or anything else that is sweet, loving, romantic, and wonderful to hear, but small gestures start to fade away.
This then leaves your partner feeling sad, unsure of your feelings, worried, neglected, uncared for, and missing your loving signs.
This then leads to them feeling like you don’t put effort into the relationship which can cause many issues as the flame and spark that your relationship once had, starts to dwindle.
This shouldn’t be the case. No matter how long you and your partner have been in a relationship for, you both should continue to show your love.
After all, it has been said that actions speak louder than words. Plus, by continuing to show your love in a relationship you will strengthen your connection, bond, and relationship as a whole.
If you continue to do this for the course of your relationship, you and your partner will never have any doubts about how you feel.
I cannot stress enough how important small proofs of love are. Without them, your relationship would feel like it was missing something as it is a vital part of any relationship which happens more often than you even realize.
As simple, basic, and ordinary as a hug may sound, it is actually a very important proof of love. Think about it this way, having your partner hug you, hold you close, and not want to let go, is one of the best ways to feel loved.
No matter when your partner is hugging you, you will always know that it means they have your back, care for you, and love you. There for, hugging is a great way to show your love.
When you grab your partner's hand, squeeze it gently, or rub your thumb over their hand while holding it, you are telling your partner a million things.
Not only are you being sweet, but you are showing that you do care, are with them by their side, and are in tune with them and their emotions.
Cuddles with your partner is the most magical thing, especially if you do love them. There is something that happens when you're curled up, intertwined, and holding each other.
It’s a feeling that is hard to explain other than every worry in the world fades away, there’s no stress, just pure happiness, and love.
Cuddling is possibly one of the best positive proof of love, which when done will add to your relationship in ways you could never imagine.
Whether or not you do this via text message, phone call, or with a handwritten note, leave a sweet, short, romantic, sexy, or loving message for your partner.
This is the best way to say “I miss you”, “I want you”, “I love you”, “I’m thinking about you”, or even “I hope you have a great day”. This note is something that your partner will cherish and it will make their day.
You can always also tailor each message to suit anything going on in their life which will make things even better.
Disconnect from tech
Put away all your phones, laptops, and any other form of electronics. For this proof of love, give each other your undivided attention, sit, and talk about anything and everything.
As simple as this may sound, it doesn’t happen very often. Embrace a couple’s only zone and relish in each other’s company and attention without getting distracted.
Take care of your partner when they have a cold or are sick. Even if they are just really sad and stuck on the couch, you need to be there for them.
Bring them their favorite meal, curl up with them, talk with them, and do anything you can to make them feel better. In wedding vows there is a part that says “in sickness and in health”, meaning you are with that person no matter what.
Even if you aren’t married, you should still be there for your partner as it will show them that you love them, care for them, and stand by them. It also shows that you support them and really do want your relationship to be one that is a lifelong one.
Have open and honest communication. If you do this, you will connect and share so much with your partner.
This will not only be a way of sharing your love, but it will also open a door way to other types of love proofs too. So have a heart to heart, have deep conversations, and listen and tell each other everything!
A great idea to show your love is to take your partner on a surprise date. When you do this your partner will feel loved and cared for because you took the time to plan something that you knew they would love.
By doing this it shows that you think of them, and want to treat them like the King/Queen that they truly are to you.
Shower them with gifts
The beauty to this sign of love is that no matter how big or small it is, they will love it. Bring them some jewelry, flowers, chocolate, clothes, books, movies, or anything else they want.
This will show that you know them like the back of your hand, that you care, and that you want to treat them to something nice because they deserve it.
Be the chef
Cook for your partner, this will sweep them off of their feet especially since you’ll be making their favorite meal.
There is the common saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, however, the same applies to women.
Everyone loves to have a delicious meal, especially when it is made by their special someone as a nice treat for them.
When proving your love, it is important to remember that most of them happen subconsciously because they are so natural. However, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go above and beyond.
Reassure them that you love and care for them by doing this. Do not let the spark and flame dwindle over time.
Relationships take work and effort no matter how long you have been in them, and they are certainly worth the work. However, even though they do take work when done right, the “work” doesn’t even feel like work.
Remember, when showing your partner you love them, you should also compliment them, and verbally express your love and commitment for them.
Do this by talking about future plans and saying how you love them. Make your messages of love for your partner very personal and intimate to the point of it being tailor made just for them and you.
Passionately kiss your partner, hold them tight, cuddle with them, and blow their mind in bed. Sleep with them intertwined, and wear your heart on your sleeve.
Also, show them through your body language and the actions you do, how much you love them.