I’d strongly urge against trying to seduce a guy on Facebook if you see him fairly frequently in person. Texting or face-to-face communication is your best bet for those people in your life.
Now, you’ve spotted a hot guy on Facebook who you maybe saw at a party one time or that you know is a friend of a friend. Well first off, if you haven’t added him as a friend yet, do so and send a message along with it. It can be something simple and doesn’t even necessarily have to be true.
Hey, I think we met at a party one time, I can’t remember for sure. I’m friends with (insert mutual friend).
If the guy is not totally disinterested he will add you and respond back to your message. His response to your message should give you a gauge of his level of interest. If he responds back with a lengthy message or you start a correspondence back and forth for a bit, you should be in.
Even if his response is short, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he is not interested or you can’t catch his attention. After a couple of days passes, like a few of his pictures. This will blow up his newsfeed and hopefully get him to check out some of your pictures.
If he doesn’t respond back with comments, likes or messages, then it could be he isn’t interested. I get the clue pretty fast when I realize a girl is interested in me and is using Facebook as a tool to catch my attention. At this point, if he isn’t interested, all you can do is make your profile amazing and stay on his radar.
Your Profile
This is the most important part to seducing a guy on Facebook. You should have a cool profile with flattering pictures. Most women are pretty good at this, but I have seen some less than flattering Facebook profiles.
It’s important to have pictures of you doing fun activities with your friends on there. You want to look like a social person with cute and cool friends. It’s important to get rid of all pictures that put you in a bad light.
If there are some pictures from that one party where you look sloppy drunk, scrap them. An even better trick is to determine the type of guy you’re going after and post status updates and pictures of yourself doing things you know would intrigue him.
Let’s say, for example, the guy you like is into fishing. Go fishing with your friends for an hour or two and post the pictures on Facebook. Something like that will more than likely spark some interest. You should also have cool people commenting on your wall about cool events going on in your life.
Don’t ask people to do it, but you should just be leading a fun life that cool guy would want to be a part of. A good way to get people to comment on your wall is by commenting on theirs.
“Hey dude! So excited for the concert Saturday! We’re doing shots of vodka again!”
Leaving a simple comment like that or referencing an inside joke should be enough to get your friends to respond. The more comments you’re getting on your wall, the more of a cool, social person you look like. It shouldn’t just be about getting comments on your wall.
You should be doing awesome things with your life, and if you’re already doing that you mine as well comment back and forth with your friends about them.
Things Not to Do
I’ve had Facebook for 8 years now and have had girls try and indicate their interest in me on there several times. It’s great when the girl does it subtly, but can be annoying if it’s too blatant.
The worst way a girl tried to get my attention was through the ‘poke’ function. This girl poked me, and then a week later poked me again when I didn’t respond, as if I might have missed her first poke. Then she poked me a third time a week later. I unfriended her after that.
I wouldn’t have been interested in the girl anyways, but that was not a good approach to take. Even if an attractive girl were to do that, I would think she was a bit weird. I’ve found that most girls that are interested will just like a majority of my statuses and pictures.
The other thing to avoid doing is writing things on their wall that could be considered sexual in nature by their friends and family. On my birthday this year, I had a girl I had been seeing casually in another city earlier in the year write this on my wall:
“Happy Birthday baby!”
We had stayed in contact prior to that and kept the relationship open, but that was unnecessary. Now it appears to any friends or family who read my Facebook wall that I’m maybe dating this girl. Luckily, it didn’t blow up in my face, but it easily could have.
Conclusion
The best way to seduce a guy on Facebook is to have an awesome life that a guy like the one you’re interested in would want to be a part of. You want to show that cool life by posting check-ins and pictures of the things you are doing.
If a guy still can’t see how amazing you are, then it is time to try using likes and private messages. If he doesn’t get the hint by then, he’s probably not interested and your best bet is to move on.
This is would probably be the last route I would recommend to get a guy to notice you, but if it is your only opportunity then you mine as well go for it.
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