You’re thinking about him again. Wondering if he’s feeling what you’re feeling. Reading between the lines of every text. Replaying his last message, his last look, trying to decode what it all means.
And the big question keeps coming up in your mind—does he love me?
I get it. When someone touches your heart, it’s only natural to want to know if they feel the same. But when their behavior is confusing or hot-and-cold, it’s hard to trust your instincts. That’s where Tarot can step in and give you the clarity you’re looking for.
Tarot isn’t about predicting the future with absolute certainty. It’s about tuning in to the energy surrounding your situation so you can see more clearly what’s going on beneath the surface. As someone who’s been reading Tarot for years—both for myself and thousands of women like you—I can tell you it’s an incredibly accurate and insightful tool when used with intention.
If you’ve been asking, “Does he love me?” then a simple 3-card Tarot spread can reveal far more than you might expect.
Tarot Cards That Often Mean Yes (and What They Really Say)
If the Two of Cups shows up in your reading, that’s usually a strong Yes. It symbolizes emotional balance, mutual attraction, and a desire for connection. When it appears in the present or future position, it can be a sign that your bond is deepening or that he’s starting to recognize what you mean to him.
The Lovers card is another one that points toward love—but it often comes with the element of choice. If he’s been distant, this might mean he’s at a crossroads emotionally and deciding whether to fully open his heart. In the past position, it might show a time when the love between you was clearer or more intense. If it’s in the future spot, it may be suggesting a romantic shift is coming.
The Empress can also signal love, especially physical attraction and a desire to nurture or be nurtured. When it appears, it’s a sign that he sees you as someone deeply feminine and desirable, someone who stirs his protective instincts.
Then there’s The Sun—a card that reflects joy, warmth, and openness. If this shows up, especially in the present position, it may suggest he feels genuinely happy when he’s with you, even if he’s not great at expressing it.
But What About When the Answer is No?
It’s not always easy to hear, but sometimes Tarot reflects the truth we need to face. If the Devil appears in a “Does he love me?” spread, it may point to a connection based on lust, obsession, or control—something intense but not necessarily healthy. In the future position, it can be a warning to tread carefully and not give your heart away too quickly.
The Seven of Swords is another red flag. It can indicate deception, emotional dishonesty, or that someone is keeping things from you. If this card shows up in the present position, it may mean he’s not being transparent with you, or worse, that he’s emotionally unavailable.
Then there’s The Moon, which doesn’t always mean “No,” but does signal uncertainty. It’s a card of confusion, illusion, and things not being what they seem. If The Moon is in the future position, it might suggest you’re heading into a phase of even more emotional fog unless something changes.
Even cards like the Four of Cups can be a quiet “no.” It shows someone who’s emotionally checked out, too distracted or withdrawn to engage in love fully. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t care—but it does mean he may not be capable of giving you what you need right now.
Why the Card Placement Matters
Here’s where many people go wrong when reading Tarot: they look at the card’s meaning without considering its position.
If you’re using a 3-card spread (which I often recommend for relationship questions), each card typically represents either:
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The past (what’s led up to this moment),
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The present (where things stand now),
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or The future (where the energy is headed if nothing changes).
Let’s say the Lovers appears in the past, the Moon in the present, and the Devil in the future. That would suggest a relationship that started with passion and promise, but is now full of confusion, and may be headed into a toxic dynamic unless something shifts.
On the other hand, if you pull the Hermit in the past, Two of Cups in the present, and The Star in the future—that tells a beautiful story of emotional growth. Maybe he was distant before, but now he’s opening up, and things are likely to deepen and blossom over time.
You see how much nuance is involved?
Tarot isn’t black and white. It’s like reading a map that reflects your emotions, your energy, and the energy between you and your partner.
When You Want a Clearer Answer, This Helps
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Is he serious? Is this something real? Or are you being strung along?
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If you’re asking, “Does he love me?” you’re already tuned in to something deeper. You’re sensing that something’s unclear, unfinished, or unexplored.
Tarot can’t force someone to feel love. But it can show you whether the energy between you is real, where it’s headed, and what blocks might be in the way.
And sometimes, just knowing the truth is enough to change everything. Whether it brings comfort, a breakthrough, or a turning point—you deserve to know where you stand.
You deserve to stop wondering and start knowing.
Sending you love,
Your sister, relationship astrologer and tarot guide,
Anna Kovach
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