Do you ever feel like your Aries man was all in at first—texting, calling, pursuing with passion—only to suddenly cool off or pull back? Maybe you’re wondering, “How do I make my Aries man chase me again?” Or perhaps you’re curious if Aries men even chase at all, and what really makes them pursue a woman.
If you’re looking for clear, practical ways to spark his desire and get him chasing you—whether it’s new, after a breakup, or all over again—you’re in the right place.
I’m Anna Kovach, a Relationship Astrologer with nearly two decades of experience helping thousands of women attract and keep the men they desire. I’ve studied Aries men deeply in my private practice and through my bestselling guides, and I know exactly why they pull back, what reignites their passion, and how to make them chase you with the intensity they’re famous for.
If you want to avoid the mistakes that drive an Aries man away, don’t miss my popular guide: Aries Man Secrets.
Click the link now, or keep reading to discover 10 irresistible ways to make your Aries man chase you—complete with exact things to say and text.
Do Aries Men Chase?
Yes, Aries men absolutely chase—but they need to feel a sense of excitement and challenge to do it. Ruled by Mars, the planet of passion and action, Aries men thrive on pursuit. They’re natural hunters in love, and when they want you, they come on strong.
The problem? If he feels like he “caught” you too easily, or if the relationship loses its sense of fun, novelty, or spark, his chase can cool off quickly. The good news is that you can reignite his pursuit by reintroducing mystery, challenge, and excitement into your connection.
Think of it this way: Aries men love the thrill of the chase more than the catch. When you keep that energy alive, he’ll continue to pursue you with fiery passion.
1. Spark His Competitive Spirit
Aries men are naturally competitive. To make him chase, don’t give him everything too easily. Instead, subtly challenge him. Show him you have options and a life of your own.
Try saying:
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“I’m trying something new this weekend—you’d never guess what it is.”
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“I might need someone to beat at trivia night. Think you can handle the competition?”
This playful teasing awakens his inner fire and motivates him to prove himself by chasing you harder.
2. How to Make an Aries Man Chase You Through Text
Texting is one of the easiest ways to reignite the Aries man’s pursuit—if you keep it short, fun, and challenging.
A few exact messages you can try:
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“Just beat my personal best at the gym… think you could keep up? 😉”
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“You always brag about being spontaneous… prove it. Let’s do something crazy this week.”
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“I just discovered something new about you—want me to tell you, or should I keep it a mystery?”
Additional flirty texts that work:
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“I had the weirdest dream about you last night… want to know what happened?”
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“Guess who just got invited to the coolest event. You’d love it.”
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“I just found something you’d totally lose at… should I challenge you?”
Notice how each one is flirty, challenging, and playful. This taps directly into his Mars-driven energy and makes him eager to respond.
Avoid: long, emotional paragraphs or questions like “Why don’t you call me anymore?” Those feel heavy and suffocating to Aries, and they’ll push him further away.
3. Keep the Excitement Alive
An Aries man needs constant stimulation and excitement to stay engaged. Show him you’re fun, adventurous, and willing to try new things.
Instead of the usual dinner date, suggest something that sparks adrenaline: hiking, dancing, bowling, or even a playful competition.
Tell him:
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“I’ve got an idea for something fun to do this weekend… but I’m not telling you yet. Surprise factor!”
When he feels that being with you means excitement, he’ll naturally chase you to be part of it.
4. How to Make an Aries Man Chase You Again
If he chased you before but stopped, you can reignite the flame by reminding him why he fell for you in the first place.
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Pull back a little. Give him space to notice your absence.
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Reintroduce fun and teasing. Stop heavy conversations and bring back your playful side.
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Show him you’re thriving. Post a fun photo with friends, or casually mention something exciting in your life.
Sample text:
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“I can’t believe I finally tried rock climbing. Next time, I might need a strong partner to spot me…”
This reawakens his protective, masculine drive and makes him want to step back into the role of your pursuer.
5. How to Make an Aries Man Chase You After a Breakup
Winning back an Aries man takes courage, honesty, and a spark of fun. If you come across as needy or guilt-tripping, he’ll shut down. Instead, keep it light and intriguing.
Try texting:
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“I was just thinking about that crazy road trip we took… still one of the best memories.”
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“I just saw something today that reminded me of your ridiculous sense of humor.”
Then follow a step-by-step approach:
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Rebuild positive memories. Remind him of the laughter and connection you shared.
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Show growth. Casually mention how you’ve been improving yourself since the breakup.
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Offer a challenge. Once the conversation is warm again, suggest a fun new activity together.
This combination rekindles his respect, admiration, and excitement—key ingredients for him to chase again.
6. Appeal to His Need for Adventure
Aries men chase what excites them. Plan something out-of-the-ordinary and casually invite him in.
Examples:
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“I’m trying out this new salsa class next week—ever brave enough to give it a shot?”
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“I’ve got tickets to that crazy new escape room—think you can keep up?”
By framing it as a challenge, you spark his Mars-driven desire to prove himself and pursue you.
7. Use Subtle Flirtation and Confidence
Confidence is magnetic to an Aries man. Be bold in your compliments and playful in your flirting.
Try lines like:
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“You always act so tough… but I bet I could make you blush.”
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“Careful, you’re going to make me start thinking about you too much.”
Aries loves a confident woman who isn’t afraid to tease and flirt.
8. Stay Independent and Busy
If he feels you’re waiting around for him, he’ll lose interest. Aries men crave a woman who has her own life and passions.
Mention your plans casually:
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“I’m heading out with friends tonight—haven’t had a night like this in ages.”
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“I just signed up for a cooking class. I might surprise you with something new next time.”
This shows him he has to earn your time again, which sparks his chase instinct.
9. Common Mistakes That Stop Him From Chasing
Just as important as knowing what to do is knowing what not to do. Here are three behaviors that make an Aries man stop chasing:
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Being too available. If he feels you’re always waiting for him, he loses motivation.
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Emotional pressure. Heavy talks too early will send him running.
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Predictability. Falling into routine makes him restless and bored.
Avoid these, and you’ll keep his fire burning.
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Moving Forward With Your Aries Man
Aries men are fiery, passionate, and competitive. They chase when they feel excited, intrigued, and challenged. By reintroducing fun, teasing texts, and showing him that you’re a confident, independent woman, you can reignite his pursuit—even after a breakup or distance.
Remember: you don’t have to chase him. Once you align with his natural psychology, he’ll chase you with enthusiasm, intensity, and devotion.
If you’re ready to unlock his heart and make sure he never stops chasing you, don’t miss my complete and bestselling guide: Aries Man Secrets.
You’ll instantly experience a deeper connection, more romance, and easier communicate with him. Thousands of women have used it to transform Aries’ hot-and-cold passion into lasting, loyal love. I can’t wait to hear how it works for you!
So, what’s your biggest struggle with your Aries man? Has he cooled off, gone silent, or stopped chasing? Share your story in the comments—I read every single one, and I’d love to hear from you.
Sending you love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
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