Have you noticed your Libra man acting differently lately?
Libra men are known for their charm, romance, and desire to keep the peace in relationships. But they can also be masters at hiding their true feelings, especially if they’re afraid of confrontation.
As a relationship astrologer, I often get asked: “Could my Libra man be cheating? He’s so good at pretending everything’s fine.”
Unfortunately, it’s possible. Libra men can get swept away in a new connection, and because they hate conflict, they’ll go to great lengths to keep you from finding out.
To help you figure out what’s really going on, here are 11 expanded signs that may indicate your Libra man is unfaithful.
1. He’s Suddenly Less Affectionate
Libra men are typically warm and romantic. They love holding hands, kissing you in public, and sending cute texts throughout the day. If your Libra man is suddenly distant… barely touching you, ignoring your messages, or showing little interest in intimacy… it’s a major red flag.
This shift could mean his focus has shifted to someone else. Or he may be struggling with guilt, which makes it hard for him to connect physically.
2. He’s Making Excuses Not to Spend Time Together
Libra men crave companionship, so if he’s avoiding date nights or coming up with reasons why he can’t see you, it’s unusual.
He may say he’s “too busy” with work, friends, or hobbies, but these excuses feel vague or out of character. A cheating Libra man often creates distance by prioritizing anything and everything over you.
3. He’s Secretive With His Phone
Libra men usually have nothing to hide. If your man is suddenly taking his phone everywhere, setting new passwords, or getting defensive when you glance at the screen, that’s suspicious.
Is he answering texts late at night and quickly flipping the phone over? Deleting entire message threads? This secrecy can be a big sign he’s trying to cover his tracks.
4. He’s More Critical Than Usual
Libra men value harmony, so if he’s suddenly nitpicking everything you do, that’s not normal.
He might criticize your appearance, your schedule, or how you handle small situations. This behavior often stems from guilt or a subconscious desire to push you away.
5. He’s Dressing Up More (But Not For You)
Libra men care about appearances, but if he’s suddenly buying new clothes, wearing cologne, or grooming differently and not making the effort for you it could mean he’s trying to impress someone else.
Notice if he’s always “just running errands” but looks like he’s headed to a runway show.
6. He’s Avoiding Serious Conversations
Libra men hate confrontation, but they’re usually open about their feelings. If your man now shuts down when you try to talk about the relationship, dodges questions, or changes the subject, that’s a red flag.
He may even try to distract you with flattery or jokes instead of answering directly.
7. He’s Suddenly More Social (Without You)
Libra men are social butterflies, but they love having their partner by their side. If he’s now going out constantly with “friends” and doesn’t invite you, something’s off.
He might claim you “wouldn’t have fun” or “it’s just a guys’ thing,” but in reality, he may be creating opportunities to see someone else.
8. His Stories Don’t Add Up
Libra men are charming storytellers, but that can work against them when they’re cheating. If his explanations for where he’s been sound rehearsed or inconsistent, it’s a red flag.
Does he say he was at one place, but later mention something that doesn’t match the story? These slip-ups often reveal the truth.
9. He’s Less Interested in the Future
Libra men love dreaming about the future with their partner. If he’s no longer making plans… avoiding talking about holidays, trips, or even next weekend… it could mean he’s no longer fully invested in the relationship.
This emotional detachment often accompanies cheating.
10. He’s Overly Nice All of a Sudden
This one can feel confusing. Your Libra man may start buying you gifts, being extra sweet, or showering you with compliments out of nowhere.
While it might feel nice at first, this behavior can be guilt-driven. Cheating Libra men often overcompensate with kindness to distract you from the truth.
11. Your Gut Is Warning You
This is the most important sign. If your intuition keeps telling you something’s wrong, don’t ignore it.
Libra men are skilled at maintaining appearances, but your instincts will notice the small inconsistencies. Trust yourself enough to listen.
What To Do If You Suspect He’s Cheating
If several of these signs sound familiar, it’s natural to feel hurt and anxious. But confronting a Libra man the wrong way can cause him to retreat further into denial or deflection.
You need a strategy that helps you get the truth and inspires him to be honest without shutting down.
My Forever Love program will teach you exactly how to reach his heart, rebuild the connection, and make sure your relationship is on solid ground… whether or not cheating is happening.
Do you recognize any of these 11 signs in your Libra man’s behavior?
Which ones stand out the most to you?
Do you feel he’s genuinely busy and stressed, or does your gut tell you something deeper is going on?
If you could ask him one question and know he’d give you the full truth, what would you ask?
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
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