By Anna Kovach | Relationship Astrologer
Have you fallen for a Pisces man whose tenderness and dreamy depth feel like a love from another world, and now you ache to be the woman he chases, the one his soul reaches for?
Do you feel how romantically he could love, yet watch him drift into his own dreams instead of pursuing you with the devotion you can sense he holds?
Are you tired of being the woman a Pisces man adores in soft moments but never quite chases, close to his heart yet never the dream he pursues?
Do you want a Pisces man to come after you, to reach for you, to make you the one his whole romantic soul is chasing instead of drifting past?
Are you ready to stop wondering whether you are his dream and start feeling him chase you, with that deep, soulful longing only a Pisces man has?
If you are nodding along, take a breath. You are not asking for too much, and you are not imagining the depth between you. Pisces men are ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams and romance, and when one of them pursues a woman, he loves her like a poem come to life. But his dreamy, elusive nature makes him drift and idealize, which can leave a woman standing beside a love she can feel but cannot seem to make him reach for.
After years of studying this Neptune-ruled sign and hearing from thousands of women who love these men, I can tell you there are three ways to make a Pisces man chase you. The first two are about understanding him. The third is the one that changes everything.
By the way, if you are new here, my name is Anna Kovach, and I am a professional relationship astrologer. I have spent years helping women understand the men they love and become the one they truly want, and I would love to help you figure out exactly where you stand with yours. Take my free 3-minute quiz and get a personalized reading here.
Way #1: Understand How a Pisces Man Actually Chases
To make a Pisces man chase you, you first have to understand how his heart pursues. Pisces is ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams, imagination, and boundless feeling, and he is a water sign, so his inner world is deep, sensitive, and endlessly romantic. He is also mutable, which means he flows, adapts, and drifts, rarely moving in a straight line toward anything. His chasing is not bold pursuit the way it is for a fire sign. It is a soul reaching toward the woman who feels like his dream, his muse, the love his imagination has always longed for.
In a survey of over 2,000 women dating Pisces men, 69 percent said the hardest part was moving him from dreamy affection into real, active pursuit of them. That number tells you something important. His drifting is not a lack of feeling. It is a romantic soul that lives half in a dream and needs to feel that you are the dream worth swimming toward. A Pisces man chases one woman only when she stirs his imagination and his heart at once, when being with her feels like the love he has been dreaming of.
Here is the truth most women never figure out. You cannot pin a Pisces man into chasing you with logic or pressure, because that pulls him out of the romantic current his whole nature swims in. His pursuit is stirred by emotional depth, tenderness, and a sense of soulful connection that feels almost destined. Become the woman his dreamy heart reaches for, and his chasing begins to move toward you on its own.
Way #2: Stop Making the Mistakes That Let Him Drift
The second way is knowing what quietly lets a Pisces man drift away, because most women make at least one of these mistakes without realizing it. The first is being harsh, overly practical, or dismissive of his feelings. A Pisces man is deeply sensitive, and when the connection turns cold or critical, he retreats into his inner world where his dreams feel safer than reality.
The second mistake is failing to feed his romantic imagination. A Pisces man is drawn to beauty, tenderness, and a sense of magic, and he drifts from anything that feels flat or purely transactional. The third mistake is letting the bond grow so heavy or full of conflict that reality becomes less appealing than his fantasies. When being with you feels like strain, a Pisces man simply floats back into the dream, because escape is his native way of coping, and a Pisces man who has drifted into fantasy is no longer chasing anyone.
Avoid these, and you clear the path. But here is the hard part. Even when you do everything right, a Pisces man’s dreamy nature can carry him off on its own, idealizing from a distance instead of reaching for you, and you can find yourself being tender and magical and soulful and still watching him drift. That is exactly why the third way matters most.
Way #3: Turn the Energy Toward You With the Romani Working
This is where I want to tell you about something a little outside my usual astrology, because it is the way that has changed things for so many women I know who were in exactly your position. It comes out of a Romani tradition my readers keep asking me about, kept by a woman named Marisol, an elder from the old Albaicin quarter of Granada. The working is called El Encanto del Corazon, the Enchantment of the Heart.
Here is how I think of it. I read what is written in his chart, the fixed map of who he is. Marisol works with something different, the energy moving around him in this season, the current he is actually swimming in right now. And for a Pisces man, who lives so much in the currents of feeling and dream, that energy reaches him more directly than almost any sign. When the energy around him begins to lean toward one woman, his drifting soul turns that way, the fog that scattered him begins to clear, and a deep, romantic pursuit rises up so that he reaches for her as the dream he has been longing for.
This fits a Pisces man beautifully, because he is the most soul-led lover of all twelve signs. He does not chase with his head. He chases with his heart and his imagination, once they settle on one woman. So when the working turns the current around him toward you, his dreamy longing fixes on you, and a Pisces man who is chasing his dream is one of the most romantic, devoted, and tender partners in the zodiac. Woman after woman has told me that after Marisol casts El Encanto del Corazon, the man who used to drift suddenly reached for her, pursued her, and loved her like the dream come true he had always been swimming toward.
What I find most reassuring about this way is that it does not fight his nature. So much advice for Pisces men asks you to be tougher, to withdraw and manufacture distance until you are drained, which only sends a sensitive soul deeper into his dreams. The working needs none of that. It turns the current toward you, so his romantic longing has one clear direction, and his chasing follows. And there is something worth naming for the woman who loves a Pisces man, too. Being adored in soft moments but never pursued can quietly make you doubt yourself, as though you are not quite the dream he wants. Please hear me. His drifting is about his dreamy Neptune nature, not about your worth. The working speaks to that drifting directly, so his heart can finally reach for you.
See how Marisol casts El Encanto del Corazon for your man here.
How the Working Changes What He Feels
What makes this so powerful for a Pisces man is that it does not ask you to harden yourself or pull away. The working reaches into the energy around him and turns his longing toward you, so that the man who used to drift begins to chase you with the deep, romantic devotion that makes a Pisces man such a soulful partner when his heart is set.
I have watched women who spent months as a Pisces man’s soft, dreamy maybe become the one he pursued with his whole heart, within a short time of the casting. He reaches for her. He plans a shared dream. He pours his romantic soul into her, because the current he is moving through has turned deep and single toward her. My article on how to make a Pisces man want you covers the everyday ways to stir his heart, but the working is what turns his longing onto one woman and keeps it there.
If you have been a Pisces man’s tender dream that he never quite chased, imagine his soul turning toward you and reaching, his pursuit fixed on you without you having to pull away to be wanted. That is the difference the third way makes. The first two ways keep him from drifting off. The third turns the current itself toward you, so his chasing comes forward on its own, and you finally get to stop waiting on a heart that was always capable of pursuing you.
Questions I Get Asked About Pisces Men
“Why does my Pisces man seem so into me one moment and distant the next?”
Because his dreamy Neptune nature drifts between reality and his inner world, and when feeling gets overwhelming, he floats back into the safety of his imagination. It can look like fading interest, but usually his heart is still there, just carried off by the current. The way to steady it is to turn the energy around him so his longing keeps reaching for you, which is exactly what the Romani working does. You can read more about his deeper signals in my piece on the signs a Pisces man is obsessed with you.
“Can I really make a Pisces man chase only me?”
You can make his romantic soul settle on you so completely that you become his one dream, yes. It is less about competing and more about becoming the love his imagination reaches for. When the current around him leans toward you, his pursuit follows, and a Pisces man chasing his dream loves with a tenderness and devotion few signs can match.
“How soon does the working start to show?”
Every woman is different, but many describe changes within a couple of weeks of Marisol casting El Encanto del Corazon, sometimes sooner. The casting happens during a specific lunar window, and the shift in him tends to unfold gradually after that, starting with more reaching and presence, until one day you realize his dreamy heart is pursuing you alone.
Here is one thing you can do tonight, if your heart is set on this particular Pisces man. Stop trying to pull away to make him want you and let the energy around him be turned toward you instead. That is the whole purpose of El Encanto del Corazon, and it was made for the woman who already knows exactly which man she wants chasing her, and who is done watching his dreamy heart drift.
See what the Romani working does for a Pisces man here.
So Where Do You Go From Here?
Making a Pisces man chase only you comes down to three ways: understanding his dreamy, soul-led way of pursuing, avoiding the mistakes that let him drift, and turning the energy toward you so his longing reaches for you. The first two help. The third is what makes the difference. You have felt how romantically he could love. Now imagine that dreamy soul turned fully and only toward you.
You do not have to keep being a Pisces man’s tender dream that he never quite chases. There is a way to turn the energy around him toward you so his longing settles on one woman, the same Romani working women have used to become the one a specific man chases with everything he has.
If your heart is set on one Pisces man, and you are done watching him drift, this is where to begin.
Click here to see how El Encanto del Corazon is cast for your Pisces man.
Share Your Story
Let’s talk in the comments. What is the one thing about your Pisces man that draws you in and puzzles you the most right now? Is it his dreamy tenderness, the way he drifts into his own world, or how much you long to be the dream he chases? Share below. I read every comment personally, and your experience might be exactly what another woman here needs today.
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