An Aries man is a charming and passionate creature. When I first met my Aries man, I wasn’t even looking for a relationship. I was at a birthday party for one of my best friends, and she decided she wanted to go to a local “wine and paint” spot.
If you’re not familiar with what a wine and paint party is, it’s when you go to a local art studio and each person is given a blank canvas and paints, and the class is led by a professional painter.
We were learning how to paint the New York City skyline with a sunset in the background. The best part of the wine and paint party was, well, the wine!
When you visit, you get to bring your own alcohol, and we were all hanging out and drinking wine, telling stories, and laughing. The teacher played some great music, and it was so much fun…until my Aries man walked in.
At first, when I got the invitation for the party, I was under the impression that it was going to be our immediate group of girlfriends, and that it was simply a girls night out! No boys were allowed.
We were going to talk about our ex-boyfriends, the worst dates we’ve been on, and the boys we’ve met on dating sites like Tinder. We always have a blast talking about the funny stories we have and laughing together.
There are times when my girlfriends would invite me over to drink wine, play poker, and talk about a breakup. It was just the way we got over things together.
I thought it would be just a girls night
When I walked in, I saw my the birthday girl, Michelle, and then I saw a whole slew of my other friends: Tammy, Laura, April, Chelsea, Holly, and Tabitha. We were putting the gifts we had gotten for Michelle on the table in the art studio and taking our seats.
We were opening the wine and pouring them into the glasses, and the class was just about to start. From around the corner, I see three guys walk in and put gifts down on the table and hug Michelle. What the hell? I thought this was a girl’s night!
Turns out one of the guys, Tobi, was friends with Michelle. They met each other in a class, and from the way they were talking, it seemed like they liked each other. How had she not told me about him yet?
The other two guys were friends of Tobi’s and their names were Nikolas and Lionel. Can you guess which one would turn out to be my Aries man?
It was Lionel.
An Aries man will make the first move, and hook you
I saw him from the corner of the room and we made eye contact but I shyly looked away. I picked up my paintbrush and tried following what the teacher was doing in the class, and the guys quickly sat down and tried catching up with their painting.
Lionel was sitting in front of me, but two seats to my right. We could see each other, but I would barely look at him. I was so shy! I finished my glass of wine and went to fill it, and when I got up, I noticed Lionel also got up to fill his glass.
He saw me trying to open a new bottle, and said: “Here, let me get that.” He was so sweet! He has a really raspy, sultry voice and I loved it. He smiled and gave a cool laugh as he popped open the cork and poured me a glass. He poured himself one and then said quietly, “cheers,” so that we didn’t disturb the class.
After the paintings were done everyone went outside to the patio to finish up their drinks and just hang out. I smoked cigarettes, so I pulled one out to light it, and Lionel came up to me with a lighter before I could find mine.
I blushed and smiled, and he started asking me questions about myself. What is your name? What school did you go to? What are your hobbies? Do you paint? How do you know Michelle?
An Aries man has many positive qualities including being adventurous, courageous, exciting, passionate, and overall pretty positive. They are optimists at heart, and that was something I learned as I dated Lionel.
After that night at the painting party, we pretty much hung out every night, even if it was just getting ice cream and talking. Sometimes we went out for beers after work, or I would just go over to his apartment and watch movies and cuddle.
He was so adorable, and as we dated for longer, our dates became more and more adventurous. We went biking on the weekends, we went on hikes, we went to Niagara falls together, we traveled to Spain.
They have their negative qualities, too
We have been together for four years now, but it has not always been easy. Despite how lively and passionate these creatures can be, they also are known to arrogant, stubborn, and impulsive. When I first met Lionel, I didn’t see him as arrogant, but brave.
I was a super shy girl and would never go up to men because I was afraid of being rejected, or simply because I just did not know what to say to them. However, the longer we dated, I watched how he treated others, sometimes talking down to them.
There have even been times in the past when he would talk down to me, but I would simply put him in his place. I would tell him there is no need to talk to me like I am less intelligent, and there is no need to brag. I loved him and there was nothing he needed to prove to me. After that, it usually would go away for a while.
His impulsiveness ruined our relationship, one incident at a time
There was one time in particular where we got into a huge fight because of his impulsiveness. If you’ve ever dated an Aries man, you know they can become pretty impatient, pretty quickly. To make matters worse, they also are known to have tempers and are extremely confrontational.
We were at a restaurant once and we had planned this outing for a long time. We made a reservation but it was still taking a really long while for us to be able to be seated. My Aries man called the manager over and asked what was going on, and the manager soothed him and told him we would be seated soon. After a half hour longer, my Aries man just decided to leave. He said we were going, and that he has the ticket to the valet. How I felt about the situation didn’t matter.
Looking back, it wasn’t so much that I was fed up after that one incident, but there have been many times where his impatience and impulsive behavior made us fight. We were talking about the future once and he said he “couldn’t do this” right now, and broke up with me.
Two days later, he called me back and we got back together since he apologized and said he was “active emotionally impulsive.” He quit his job on a whim once because his boss told him something he didn’t like.
It was not my job or situation and he needed to figure things out himself, but I remember being incredibly disappointed in him for just leaving things without thinking it through, whether it was me, his job, or something as simple as a restaurant.
I’m so glad I found Aries Man Secrets after our breakup
We got into a fight that night and he decided to break up with me. A friend ended up giving me Aries Man Secrets to read since I was in tears over having lost my boyfriend of three years.
How could I get him back? This was all my fault, and I needed to know how to get him back and keep him for good. I loved him so much and wanted to stay with him forever.
All I could think about what that a sexy, charming, and confident man like Lionel could get anyone easily. However, Anna’s book totally helped me see things differently.
I decided to challenge my Aries man a little bit. I was not going to run back to him and instead was going to ignore him and see if he came back. I went on living my life, working diligently at my job, going to dinner and happy hour with my friends, and spending time with my mom on the weekend, when we would go to lunch and go shopping together.
I posted pictures on social media where I was honestly beaming and looked incredibly happy (I was!). Of course, I missed my Aries man, but I knew that not be available would make him want me more. I reinvented myself and got a new haircut and made more time to workout at the gym. It was refreshing to have my freedom and time to do things that I enjoyed, without having to worry about my Aries man’s impulsiveness ruining some aspect of it.
With Anna’s help, I got my Aries man back (for good!)
After about two weeks, my Aries man came back and called me. He said he wanted to talk, and we met at a coffee shop to tap into our relationship.
We ended up fixing things, but I truly believe it would not have worked if it wasn’t for Aries Man Secrets. Anna Kovach has so much great advice and truly understands the zodiac so incredibly well!
Now, my Aries man and I are engaged and planning to get married in a few months. It has been a rid of ups and downs, but Anna’s book had taught me how to keep things on the “up side” for the most part! Thank you, Anna Kovach!
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