Learn what the characteristics of a Cancer man are, and use them to your advantage! Here’s how you seduce the shifty Cancer!
You’re into horoscope and astrology? Well then, this one’s for you! If the guy you’ve got your eyes on is a Cancer, he’s probably going to share certain characteristics of that Zodiac sign. It wouldn’t hurt to try and approach him according to what those say about him.
Here’s some general info about Cancer that might give you an idea of what they’re all about:
- their ruling planet is the Moon
- their element is water
- basic trait: I Feel!
- strengths: loyal, adaptable, family oriented, empathetic
- weaknesses: moody, indecisive, emotional, sensitive
A typical Cancerian male is someone who’s shy, and seems very introvert. He’s not someone who shares a lot of things about himself, he’s more the type that likes to stay out of the way, and mind his own business. He’s willing to eventually open up, if you’re willing to work hard to make him feel comfortable, to do that.
The thing is, he might seem like a complete and total puzzle to you for quite some time, before you start to get the idea of what he’s really like. Don’t let this period discourage you, or make you give up on him – cause if you take a step back you’ll never get close to this guy.
The Cancer man is prone to mood swings. In fact he might seem like a completely different person every time you see him. He can go from sad to happy in a matter of seconds. But the important thing to know is that the changes are simply in his mood, and he’ll always be back to his regular self in the end – they don’t mean he has the dual personality, like the Gemini.
His shyness may make him come across as distant and uninterested, but be sure that’s not the way he is.
Just like the crab, which is the symbol of this sign, he will pull back into his shell, which is his comfort zone, when he starts feeling threatened.
So make your approach accordingly. You’ll want to be aggressive, but not too much because that will scare him, and nonchalant, but not too much because that won’t have any effect on him. You’ll need to get him to open up, before you can take a place in his heart.
The thing is, even though he’s often in his own world, he’s a very realistic person. So if you want to be with him, he will take time to make sure that you’re suitable to be his partner. As harsh as it may sound, he may even judge you, to see if you are worthy of being his other half.
If you want this guy, make sure you put up with this, and stay by him no matter what. No playing games with a Cancerian. You want to show your affection, pamper him and be the perfect girl. Once he starts trusting you he will appreciate it like no other, and shower you with love and affection himself. That’s the deal with a Cancer man, it takes time to crack that hard shell and get in, but once you get in there, you’ll see it’s all been worth it.