How to Turn On a Capricorn Man in Bed

Find out what turns a Capricorn man on in the bedroom with these sexy hints and tips…

So you’ve found yourself a Capricorn man and you want to know how to impress him in between the sheets, do you? I hope you have your mother’s pearls and expensive classic perfume at the ready, because this is a man who is impressed by classical tastes.

He wants a woman who has the ambition to reach above her current social status.

Think – ‘Holly Golightly’ from Breakfast at Tiffany’s -That scene at the beginning of the film where she is walking home after her night out, past the expensive jewelry store. She’s wearing her long, black classical evening dress, eating her takeaway croissant and sipping coffee out of a paper cup.

Who Is Your Capricorn Man?

How to Turn On a Capricorn Man in Bed

  • He is the alpha male! He is in control of himself and his world. He likes to accommodate all of those around him who he cares about, but never at the expense of his masculinity. Respect his masculinity and he will regard you with tenderness.
  • He enjoys structure and is rarely one to wander aimlessly. He likes to have a plan in his head, a plot, a definite goal. What’s more, he is very good at keeping to his plan. The bigger picture is important to him! Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce your Capricorn man. Appeal to his sense of order.
  • He has an insatiable appetite… for food yes, but also for love, sex, wealth, success and absolutely everything that inspires and motivates him. Be prepared to indulge with him.
  • He is competitive. If you want him to do something, challenge him and he will be eager to prove himself.
  • He is charming but pragmatic. He will have all sorts of schemes on the go and execute each one with charm and expertise; but each will have a specific purpose in the grand scheme of things. Why is this? Quite simply because he has big ideas. If your ambitions are high and focused too you will be more likely to attract the attention of a Capricorn man…

Capricorn Man Secrets

Capricorn men aren’t the type to just go fall into bed with some random woman. Some sort of sincere interest must exist there. Capricorn men love women who are very well dressed, looking sexy yet classy, and having herself together.  You’ll be able to progress with him after you understand his thoughts, his desires, and his need for trust.If you really want to learn how to make a Capricorn Man chase you, and how to boost your compatibility to the point he is obsessed about you, read Capricorn Man Secrets. This book will help you achieve your goals and keep him forever. 

The Capricorn Man’s Attraction to Status

You don’t necessarily have to be of a higher social status yourself, but you will get more browny points if your Capricorn man thinks you have higher aspirations. He is highly status-orientated.

If you can present yourself as a classy women with classical tastes then you will certainly catch his attention. We’ve mentioned he is pragmatic, which means he values his time. He will want to spend it on pursuing a woman who has a similar mindset to him.


  • Keep all of this in mind when preparing your boudoir setting for the big seduction… Classical music playing softly in the background, plenty of draped materials that ooze luxury like fur and velvet, expensive wine and classy nibbles… you get the picture.
  • Let him see that you have expensive tastes and that you always strive for the best. If you are going for dinner make sure that you pick the most expensive restaurant with a traditional menu.

The Capricorn Man’s Sex Drive

Capricorn Man in Bed

Actually the Capricorn man, though very serious and focused in life, is a highly sexual creature in the bedroom. He isn’t called the horny goat for nothing you know!

When it comes to sex, the Capricorn man is easily aroused, passionate and has a very high sex drive. Passion will come before emotion, but if he’s really into you then both will be deliciously mixed into his love-making, and you are in for a real treat – oh yes!

I have had the pleasure of bedding a Capricorn man and I might even go as far as to say it was one of my favourite sexual relationships. The balance of passion, eroticism and emotional connection was just perfect.

Capricorn attracts status. This incidentally conflicts with his raunchy inner sexual desire, his tendency to be turned on by “a lady in the parlour and a vixen in the bedroom” should be taken full advantage of.

If you are the kind of girl who can handle her liquor and knows how to behave well in social situations, then you will be relieved to know that in the privacy of the bedroom you can really set your sexy self free! So make sure that you dress conservatively in public, but feel free to wear whatever saucy delights you wish underneath.

How to Appeal to a Capricorn Man’s Earthy Sexual Instincts…

  • Don’t be too shy

Show him your secret stash of sex toys, he will want to dive straight in. In fact he probably has his own stash that he may want to introduce you to at a later date!

  • A kinky imagination

    Let him know that you have a kinky imagination when you have a private moment alone together. He will definitely want to test out if your kinky ideas match his own. He is the kind of man who won’t want to push you beyond your limits because he is a gentleman at heart. If you let him know your limits are flexible he will enjoy inviting you into his secret world…

  • Be straightforward and raw with him

He wants to know what you enjoy, how you like it, where you like it, what’s going to make you scream… He is the kind of guy that knows exactly what he wants. That’s a woman who knows exactly what she wants too. More importantly, who isn’t afraid to verbalize it!


One thing you will find very useful to bear in mind is that the Capricorn man is initially reserved when it comes to anything of a sexual nature. This is why it can be something of a pleasant discovery when he does open up!

This is because he is a very private creature when it comes to personal matters. He may even keep his sexual fantasies bottled up, but there is a secret… if you play the innocent and inexperienced virgin you will appeal to that alpha male in him who loves to dominate!

There’s so much more to a Capricorn man that you should now. And if you’re serious about putting him under your spell, I suggest you read Anna Kovach’s step-by-step guide called Capricorn Man Secrets. If anything helped me get my Capricorn man to commit, it’s her amazing book!

About the author

Scarlett Robinson

I am inspired by the ways people interact. Human behaviour and emotions are wonderfully complex, and I want to dig deeper and understand more. This is why I explore intimate relationships in my writing. (I’m also ever so slightly kinky.)


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  • My husband and father of my first and only son is a capricorn, when we first started dating he said I gave him blowjobs that made his anus get a hard-on, lol they are the best in my opinion..addicting!! Its like he remote controls me and drives my body all in one. Mmm yum

  • Dating hot Cappi but he has a fear of his size which is making him very sensitive to touch & the whole experience short lived. How can I empower my Cap and get him to really last?

  • I am concerned because my Capricorn new bff is a lot older than me but he said he can keep up with me in bed if I decide to go there with him I’m really worried because he’s in his 60 not trying to give him a heart attack.

  • Trust me. the age does not matter. I dated a 60 year old cappi mae and i am a 40 year old scorpio femaile. Blew my mind! Best sex ever! stamina off the chain!!! I mean he really was experienced and confident. Told me that he had more stamina then some 21 year olds and damn if he didn’t.

  • why are all of these men dominant? Every astrological sign I read is “they are the alpha” “they are dominant”. What about the ones that want their girlfriend to take charge?

  • My lover is a capricon. I used to hear ppl say a small penis does not giv pleasure . OH!!! 0_0 is he good in bed from the four play till the end I always think of nxt tym he take off my clothes. He’s all that the best lover

  • My bf is a capricorn and let me tell you he has gave me the orgasm and especially given me the best 69

  • I’m a gemini woman I naturally have a high sex drive love to try new things and great sex is a must…I’ve never dated a capricorn until about 4 months ago and my goodness I been missing out! Everything stated above is true I’ve never had such an open sexual relationship he was kinda shy at first but I kinda forced it out a him and that man is a beast I love this man for him he is great and the awesome sex is the icing on the cake.. Gemini nd capricorn some what a difficult match but at the end of the day we set our differences aside this relationship is truly the best I’ve ever had!!

  • My cappy nd I have issues in communication. But at least he has improved over the past few weeks. I was wowed with our first sex and ever since… Truly too conservative, M Aquarian.

  • I’m an Aquarius woman with a Virgo rising. I had never paid any attention to Capricorns until I met my man. And even then I was like, eh, your handsome and ambitious but what else? Dear women… when a Cap man wants you, they have to have you and only you. When their in love with you they show you in every love language there is. Their friends and family know you by name. They sing their love for you from the heart. We’ve held out on sex (morals), but I don’t think we can for much longer…especially after reading this post…how did I end up on here?! *anyways* I too had been missing out on the Capricorn man. Holy pie!!! Again, I am an Aquarius and I have always been able to get any man I wanted, but I have found this Capricorn to be much more than just any guy. He’s everything I ever dreamed of. Straightforward, classy, intellectual, sexy, manly, spiritual, family oriented, dominate, delicate with only me, ugh and just talking about sex with him makes my legs shiver…if anyone was ever wondering if an Aquarius woman and Capricorn man could ever be compatible. Ladies!! Men!! Yes!!!! The compromise you will both make will be so worth it. I pray everyone finds love like this….now about the sex…ill get back to you lol….

  • I ll spend 3 nights in Munich with a capricon man for the first time just to enjoy .i am aries .i want this guy to be mine.

  • So I am a Capricorn and reading this this is spot on. I myself am shy in the beginning but once I open up you better watch out. I am all about making my partner feel amazing in every way.

    • I am a Cancer Woman with a Capricorn Man, and the sex is AMAZING, when we ever have sex ! I am 40 yrs old and he is 24, My sex drive is.out of control, and he could care less to have sex. Alot of men come on to me all the time, I am 5ft 140 lbs, Hispanic
      Hispanic. Could he be gay ?

  • I am a Libra woman and find myself falling for a cappi man. We started off as work buddies and the more that we worked together the closer we became. We were drivers and soon as is bus would get empty, he would call me. We would stay on the phone for hours. He always want us to go somewhere together!! He spoils me to death!!! When he did invite me over to his house, he opened up and told me alot of things that he keeps private. We haven’t had sex as of yet but we are talking more about it, in hints. Ex. He would go into the store and get something for himself and no matter what he would always bring me something too. He would tell me that he is thinking about me also. I want this man like no bodies business but I am also patient because I know that it’s going to be sooooo good!!! So here is the part where I am convinced that he cares because I was having a little doubt. I asked him what he had planned for fathers day, he said nothing and sounded sad. A few minutes later he said that he wanted a lobster tail. So being the person that I am, I cooked him a seafood dinner including his lobster tail!! It was funny though because he had to work and he got off late so he ate late. He told me that it was amazing and that it was done with love. That made me smile because he never used that word before and to top that off, he said to me that he wish that he didn’t have to work because he wanted us to do something together…. I am falling for him!! Any advice??

  • I am a Capricorn and I agree with you for the most part.

    I believe a woman can be down to earth and classy at the same time.

    I like a woman that can hold her own not only in the bedroom, who has the stamina to keep up with me ;) and dominate from time to time.

    I do like to have a plan, however I am also open minded, can be spontaneous and loves to experiment.