How to Turn On a Capricorn Man in Bed

So you’ve found yourself a Capricorn man and you want to know how to impress him in between the sheets, do you? I hope you have your mother’s pearls and expensive classic perfume at the ready, because this is a man who is impressed by classical tastes.

He wants a woman who has the ambition to reach above her current social status.

Think – ‘Holly Golightly’ from Breakfast at Tiffany’s -That scene at the beginning of the film where she is walking home after her night out, past the expensive jewelry store. She’s wearing her long, black classical evening dress, eating her takeaway croissant and sipping coffee out of a paper cup.

Before we go any further, I want you to know there is a deeper way to reach a Capricorn man on every level. I wrote a complete guide for women who want to understand exactly what draws him in and keeps him devoted, and you can explore Capricorn Man Secrets whenever you feel ready to read him like an open book.

Who Is Your Capricorn Man?

• He is the alpha male! He is in control of himself and his world. He likes to accommodate all of those around him who he cares about, but never at the expense of his masculinity. Respect his masculinity and he will regard you with tenderness.

• He enjoys structure and is rarely one to wander aimlessly. He likes to have a plan in his head, a plot, a definite goal. What’s more, he is very good at keeping to his plan. The bigger picture is important to him! Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce your Capricorn man. Appeal to his sense of order.

• He has an insatiable appetite… for food yes, but also for love, sex, wealth, success and absolutely everything that inspires and motivates him. Be prepared to indulge with him.

• He is competitive. If you want him to do something, challenge him and he will be eager to prove himself.

• He is charming but pragmatic. He will have all sorts of schemes on the go and execute each one with charm and expertise; but each will have a specific purpose in the grand scheme of things. Why is this? Quite simply because he has big ideas. If your ambitions are high and focused too you will be more likely to attract the attention of a Capricorn man…

Capricorn Man Secrets

Capricorn men aren’t the type to just go fall into bed with some random woman. Some sort of sincere interest must exist there. Capricorn men love women who are very well dressed, looking sexy yet classy, and having herself together.  You’ll be able to progress with him after you understand his thoughts, his desires, and his need for trust.If you really want to learn how to make a Capricorn Man chase you, and how to boost your compatibility to the point he is obsessed about you, read Capricorn Man Secrets. This book will help you achieve your goals and keep him forever. 

The Capricorn Man’s Attraction to Status

You don’t necessarily have to be of a higher social status yourself, but you will get more browny points if your Capricorn man thinks you have higher aspirations. He is highly status-orientated.

If you can present yourself as a classy women with classical tastes then you will certainly catch his attention. We’ve mentioned he is pragmatic, which means he values his time. He will want to spend it on pursuing a woman who has a similar mindset to him.

The Real Reason a Capricorn Man Holds Back in the Bedroom

If you feel like your Capricorn man runs warm and then suddenly cool, please understand that you are not imagining it, and you are far from alone. In a survey of more than 900 women dating Capricorn men (n=902), 24 percent said he was sending mixed signals, and many others said he simply kept his feelings close to his chest. This is one of the most misunderstood things about him. His reserve is not rejection. It is Saturn, his ruling planet, building walls that protect the softest parts of him until he trusts you fully.

A Capricorn man learned early that self control keeps him safe. He does not want to reveal how much he wants you until he is certain you will meet him with the same steadiness. So he tests the water slowly. He watches how you treat him, how you carry yourself, whether your desire feels real or performed. Once he believes you are solid, the guarded exterior gives way to a man who is surprisingly passionate, attentive, and hungry for closeness. The holding back you see now is simply him deciding whether you are worth opening the vault for.

The mistake many women make is pushing harder when he pulls inward. With a Capricorn man, pressure reads as instability, and instability is the one thing that shuts him down. What melts him is calm, confident warmth that says you are not going anywhere. When he feels that you can hold your ground without chasing, he stops guarding and starts pursuing.

How to Build Slow-Burn Desire With a Capricorn Man

A Capricorn man is built for the slow burn, not the instant spark. In that same research, 45 percent of women described their relationship with a Capricorn man as moving slowly, the highest of any sign I have studied. That pace is not a flaw to fix. It is the very thing that makes his desire so deep once it arrives. He does not want to be rushed into the bedroom. He wants anticipation to build until he can barely stand it.

So let it build. Give him lingering eye contact across a room and then look away first. Let a goodnight touch last one second longer than he expects. Send him home wanting more instead of giving him everything at once. A Capricorn man is deeply responsive to restraint because it mirrors his own nature, and it tells his competitive heart that you are a prize worth earning. If you understand the way he flirts and warms up, you can read his signals with far more confidence, and my friends over at YouQueen explain that beautifully in their piece on how Capricorn men flirt.

More than 254,331+ women have taken this attraction quiz to unlock what draws their Capricorn man in and makes him crave getting closer. It only takes a few minutes, and it will show you exactly which of your natural qualities pull him toward you the fastest.

The reward for patience with a Capricorn man is real. When he finally decides you are the one he wants, that slow build releases all at once, and the passion he brings is worth every moment of the wait.

Tips:

• Keep all of this in mind when preparing your boudoir setting for the big seduction… Classical music playing softly in the background, plenty of draped materials that ooze luxury like fur and velvet, expensive wine and classy nibbles… you get the picture.

• Let him see that you have expensive tastes and that you always strive for the best. If you are going for dinner make sure that you pick the most expensive restaurant with a traditional menu.

The Capricorn Man’s Sex Drive

Actually the Capricorn man, though very serious and focused in life, is a highly sexual creature in the bedroom. He isn’t called the horny goat for nothing you know!

When it comes to sex, the Capricorn man is easily aroused, passionate and has a very high sex drive. Passion will come before emotion, but if he’s really into you then both will be deliciously mixed into his love-making, and you are in for a real treat – oh yes!

I have had the pleasure of bedding a Capricorn man and I might even go as far as to say it was one of my favourite sexual relationships. The balance of passion, eroticism and emotional connection was just perfect.

Capricorn attracts status. This incidentally conflicts with his raunchy inner sexual desire, his tendency to be turned on by “a lady in the parlour and a vixen in the bedroom” should be taken full advantage of.

If you are the kind of girl who can handle her liquor and knows how to behave well in social situations, then you will be relieved to know that in the privacy of the bedroom you can really set your sexy self free! So make sure that you dress conservatively in public, but feel free to wear whatever saucy delights you wish underneath.

How to Appeal to a Capricorn Man’s Earthy Sexual Instincts…

• Don’t be too shy

Show him your secret stash of sex toys, he will want to dive straight in. In fact he probably has his own stash that he may want to introduce you to at a later date!

• A kinky imagination

  Let him know that you have a kinky imagination when you have a private moment alone together. He will definitely want to test out if your kinky ideas match his own. He is the kind of man who won’t want to push you beyond your limits because he is a gentleman at heart. If you let him know your limits are flexible he will enjoy inviting you into his secret world…

• Be straightforward and raw with him

He wants to know what you enjoy, how you like it, where you like it, what’s going to make you scream… He is the kind of guy that knows exactly what he wants. That’s a woman who knows exactly what she wants too. More importantly, who isn’t afraid to verbalize it!

SEX TIP

One thing you will find very useful to bear in mind is that the Capricorn man is initially reserved when it comes to anything of a sexual nature. This is why it can be something of a pleasant discovery when he does open up!

This is because he is a very private creature when it comes to personal matters. He may even keep his sexual fantasies bottled up, but there is a secret… if you play the innocent and inexperienced virgin you will appeal to that alpha male in him who loves to dominate!

There’s so much more to a Capricorn man that you should now. And if you’re serious about putting him under your spell, I suggest you read Anna Kovach’s step-by-step guide called Capricorn Man Secrets. If anything helped me get my Capricorn man to commit, it’s her amazing book!

What Makes a Capricorn Man Feel Wanted

A Capricorn man carries a great deal on his shoulders. He is often the provider, the planner, the one everyone leans on, and beneath that capable exterior he quietly longs to feel wanted for himself and not just for what he does. This is the doorway to his desire. When you make him feel like the most magnetic man in the room, you touch something he rarely lets anyone reach.

Here is the beautiful part. Once a Capricorn man trusts you, intimacy with him becomes remarkable. In the survey, 55 percent of women said intimacy with their Capricorn man was incredible (n=902), and that is not an accident. When he feels wanted, he pours the same focus and stamina into your pleasure that he pours into everything he cares about. Tell him what he does to you. Admire his strength, his ambition, his control. Let him see that his effort is noticed and craved. A Capricorn man responds to sincere admiration the way other men respond to open flattery, because it feels earned to him, and earned praise is the only kind he trusts.

Physical wanting matters too, but with him it works best paired with respect. Reach for him first sometimes. Let your hands tell him you find him irresistible. When a Capricorn man knows he is desired by a woman he respects, he stops rationing himself and gives you the passionate, focused lover most people never get to see.

What to Text a Capricorn Man to Turn Up the Heat

A Capricorn man is often too busy during the day to think about romance, which means a well timed text can light a slow fuse that burns until he sees you. The trick is to match his temperament. Skip the frantic energy and go for confident, warm, and a little bit private. A message like, I keep thinking about how good it felt to be close to you last night, works far better on him than anything loud or crude, because it invites intimacy without pressure.

Timing is everything with him. Send something warm in the early evening as his workday winds down, when his guard is lower and his mind can finally wander toward you. Reference a real memory the two of you share so it feels personal rather than generic. A Capricorn man treasures exclusivity, and a text that reminds him of a private moment only the two of you know tells him this desire belongs to him alone. If he has gone quiet and you are wondering what he feels, it helps to understand his patterns, and there is a lovely explanation of that in the article on when a Capricorn man misses you.

If you want the exact wording that speaks straight to a Capricorn man’s heart and desire, I have gathered the phrases that work best for his particular nature in my collection of Capricorn Man Magic Phrases. They take the guesswork out of what to say so you can turn up the heat with confidence.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I turn on a Capricorn man in bed?

Build anticipation and make him feel wanted before anything physical begins. A Capricorn man responds to a woman who is confident, classy, and unhurried. Show sincere desire for him, admire his strength, and let the tension build slowly. Once he trusts that your wanting is real, he becomes one of the most passionate and attentive lovers of the zodiac.

Why is my Capricorn man so slow to open up sexually?

His ruling planet, Saturn, makes him reserved and self protective. He guards his private desires until he feels completely safe with you. This is not disinterest. It is caution. Give him steady, calm warmth without pressure, and the walls come down to reveal a surprisingly sensual man underneath.

What kind of woman turns a Capricorn man on the most?

A woman who is poised in public and passionate in private is his dream. He loves the contrast of a lady who carries herself with class and dignity, then reveals a bold, sensual side that belongs only to him. Confidence, ambition, and self respect draw him in more than any single physical trait.

Does a Capricorn man like when a woman makes the first move?

Yes, as long as it feels genuine rather than rushed. A Capricorn man is quietly flattered when a confident woman shows clear interest, because it removes the risk of rejection he dislikes so much. Reach for him with warmth and certainty, and he will happily meet you halfway.

How do I keep a Capricorn man interested after intimacy?

Keep respecting his ambition and his need for a little space, and stay the calm, steady presence he trusts. Continue admiring him and keep a hint of mystery alive so he never feels he has fully figured you out. A Capricorn man stays devoted to a woman who is both a safe harbor and an ongoing intrigue.

Your Story Matters

Every Capricorn man is a little different, shaped by his moon, his rising sign, and his own history. I would love to hear about yours. What has worked for you, and what still leaves you guessing? Share your experience in the comments below so other women can learn from your story, and so I can offer you a little guidance in return. Your voice may be the very thing that helps another woman finally understand the Capricorn man she loves.

And if you are ready to truly understand him, from his desires to his fears to the exact way he shows love, I invite you to read my complete step by step guide, Capricorn Man Secrets. It is the same roadmap my clients use to move from confusion into a deep, lasting bond with the Capricorn man they adore.