How to Turn on a Virgo Man in Bed- Unlocking Pleasure and Intimacy

He is the tall, upright man who dresses conservatively and has an air of quiet authority about him. If you want to know how to turn on a Virgo man in bed here is all you need to know.

So, you have your eyes set on a Virgo man? I must warn you that you have your work set out! Virgo men are not easy to attract. In fact, often they are not even looking for romance or sex because they are too busy being productive with work and everyday life. They like to keep busy and focused.

Virgo men are often known for their meticulous attention to detail and analytical approach to life, which can translate into their behavior in the bedroom. They may enjoy taking control and being dominant in bed, but they are also very attentive to their partner’s needs and desires, striving to create a comfortable and pleasurable experience for both parties.

You will have to be patient and pay particular attention to the details of his personality if you want to get him into the bedroom and turn him on. Those who take on the challenge will certainly be rewarded, though, because Virgos are loyal and attentive natural lovers…

Before we get into how to turn a Virgo man on in bed, I have to provide a method that has helped thousands of women get their Virgo men crazy for them.

If you’re unsure how to make a Virgo man want you badly, look no further than relationship astrology expert Anna Kovach and her 30 Day Love Challenge with a Virgo man. This easy strategy will make him crave you like he’s never craved anything before.

Getting to Know the Virgo Man

How to Turn on a Virgo Man in Bed

This guy can’t help his intense analytic nature because he is practical, logical and above all a perfectionist. Luckily he is also extremely modest, so all of these wonderful traits rarely manifest themselves as arrogant or overbearing.

Once you talk in his language, he is actually very funny and open.  The easiest way to seduce your Virgo man and keep him forever is to read this fantastic book, Virgo Man Secrets. This book is a true gem.

Unfortunately, his reserved nature also means that he is not likely to display an obvious interest in you. Sometimes he can come across as very shy, or at his worst snobbish or detached, but in truth, he is merely an observer. He likes to observe and analyze people and situations before he immerses or involves himself, and he hates to be the center of attention.

The Virgo man is also a planner, and revels in organization and order. Because of his tendency to over-think things he can end up coming across as a bit of a worrier, and possess a certain level of self-doubt. He is highly critical, especially of himself, but hugely intelligent and logical. Don’t forget he is hard-working and meticulous, with an excellent eye for detail. He can also be a bit of a hypochondriac and has an obsessive desire for self-improvement.

How to Attract a Virgo Man

You may have tried your hardest to pursue a Virgo man and sent all the correct signals, but he may not have responded.

He is a mystery, and it is hard to keep him interested.

However, Virgo man in bed can be terrific lover.. When the veil of mystery is lifted, a diamond that has lain hidden from you for all this time is revealed.

Never forget how observant this man is. His eyes are always scanning and his brain is always ticking. He loves the attention to detail, and you can use this to your advantage.

Remember, Virgo men appreciate partners who are confident and comfortable in their own skin. They are attracted to partners who know what they want and are not afraid to express their desires. So if you want to put him under your spell and really learn how to turn your Virgo man in bed, here is what to pay attention on first:

1. Be a lady

Virgo men are reserved in the way they dress and present themselves.They look for this in a potential partner too. Any loud or over-the-top behavior or appearance is likely to turn him off. He prefers the lady who dresses conservatively to the girl in the mini-skirt. In the bedroom go for anything that accentuates your femininity rather than being tarty. Or if you want to include a touch of eroticism, make sure it’s classy. Also, make sure you can handle your alcohol because the rowdy behavior is really not his cup of tea!

2. Take care of your appearance

There is nothing that will turn a Virgo man off more than a woman who does not pay careful attention to her personal hygiene. Make sure your hair is washed, that your clothes are fresh and your fingernails are well manicured. Even the slightest vaguely stale odor will put him off from going near you.

3. Be discrete

Virgos are very private creatures when it comes to their personal lives. If the hears you have been gossiping or boasting about your intimate encounter with him, he’s not going to be happy at all! They are also not keen on public displays of affection, so keep it subtle and just between the two of you.

4. Virgos love the details

They like everything to be proper, planned and thought out with care and attention. This means they have less reason to worry or think. Show him he can trust you to take care of the details and you will help him to relax and enjoy himself.

5. Be considerate of his feelings

Virgos are not overly sensitive, but they are highly self-critical. Try to be as positive as you can because he has probably already over-analyzed himself anyway. He just wants you to understand him. He wants communication to be fair and rational.

6. Be patient and understanding

Virgo men can be slow to open up and trust others. Be patient and understanding as they get to know you, and don’t pressure them to share more than they’re comfortable with.

What to Expect from Your Virgo Lover in the Bedroom

Virgo Man in Bed

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Virgo sexuality is deeply complex. His outside projection will appear to live up to the well-known zodiac symbol of the ‘Virgin’, but beneath it there is a bubbling well of seething sexual desire waiting to be tapped into. You’d be a fool not to want to unleash this secret side of your Virgo man!

The best thing about a Virgo lover is his eagerness to please his partner and his desire for perfectionism and attention to detail. A love-making session with a Virgo man isn’t going to be a quickie. Covering every minute detail of foreplay is going to take much longer with a man who takes careful pride in everything he does.

Virgos are sensual by nature because they are an earth sign. They may appreciate partners who take their time and create a sensual atmosphere, with candlelight, music, and soft touches. Additionally, they are curious and eager to try new things, including positions, toys, etc. Don’t be afraid to share your fantasies with Virgo. They’ll go above and above to make that fantasy come true, even better than you could have imagined, assuming they’re interested.

A Lady with a Virgo man in her bedroom is a very lucky lady indeed! The Virgo man’s foreplay technique is protracted and skillful. So let him take his sweet time. He knows exactly what he is doing, and he expects you to pay the same care and attention to him too.

A comfortable environment

A comfortable environment is very important to a Virgo man when it comes to having sex. He wants to feel cozy and unhurried – there’s a lot to get through, so give him the whole evening! Time is important. He wants you to give him the opportunity to develop an intimacy between you both so that he can express his emotions.

A Virgo man will only be able to fully appreciate sex when he connects on an emotional level with his lover. He is pragmatic and grounded. He is also logical enough to know that love and sex can still be enjoyed as separate entities in their own right.

Worship Him Like a KING

Due to his obsessive self-analyzing, he will feel great is you take the time to make him feel good about himself. Not just physically but on this emotional level too. If he feels that you need him it will turn him on sexually.

Virgo man tends to enjoy taking control and being dominant in bed. He is  typically very detail-oriented and analytical, which can translate to a desire for precision and control during sex. He may also have domination fantasies and if you give him the opportunity to be a little bit wicked, you could uncover a whole new exciting side to his sexuality!

The thing is…he may see timid, but he actually wants to take advantage of you and be worshiped like a King. Try and see how he reacts once you let him “abuse” you.

Get to know better that gorgeous Virgo man of yours by reading this amazing book called Virgo man secrets. Astrologist Anna Kovach really goes in depth and reveals all the secret sides of this zodiac sign. Check it out and make him yours for good!

Want to make your Virgo man go wild with steamy passion and crave your touch?

Ready to infuse some spice into your love life and heat things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else)?Want to get him absolutely addicted to you? Have him aching to see you again?

If you’re looking to attract a Virgo man, you need to know the hidden emotional weaknesses of his zodiac sign that you can use to your advantage.

Anna knows the right approach that works with Virgo men, unlike general dating advice that can be counterproductive with this zodiac sign. Get started on your journey to a happy relationship today!

Check out 30 Day Love Challenge with a Virgo Man here.

About the author

Scarlett Robinson

I am inspired by the ways people interact. Human behaviour and emotions are wonderfully complex, and I want to dig deeper and understand more. This is why I explore intimate relationships in my writing. (I’m also ever so slightly kinky.)


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  • hi my name is librian and my boyfrnd is virgo.its been now almost three nyears to our relationship.we had a very active life before.we do enjoy now.but when it comes to love boyfrnd enjoys more foreplay with me..we never end with love maiking.infact we don’t reach there.he says he enjoys in that and likes to talk as much as he can…what do you think might be the reason am may be is it that I am no more fun to him anymore?what do you think?

  • My virgo man is my superman in bedroom and everywhere. I love him so much. We have been in love relationship for more than 3 years. Im so lucky to have him. But I want more, to be his wife.

  • Hi my name is tanya ive been with my virgo man for almost 8 years i love him so much would love to be hiswife already but we are great together in bed im a scorpio so know love making is magically amazing lol….hmm i love him