Signs a Libra Man is Sexually Attracted to You: How to Know He Wants You

“Wondering if your Libra man is sexually attracted to you? He’s known for being charming, flirtatious, and sociable, but how can you tell if he’s interested in something deeper? Libra men are ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, and they know how to make a woman feel special. However, when it comes to sexual attraction, his signals can sometimes be subtle and hard to decipher.”

Hi, I’m Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer and author of Libra Man Secrets. Libra men, ruled by Venus, are often seen as romantic and affectionate, but their approach to attraction is refined, balanced, and sometimes elusive. They take their time getting to know someone, and their attraction usually evolves slowly, making it more important to notice the smaller, subtle signs.

In this article, I’ll break down the clear signs a Libra man is sexually attracted to you. From the way he interacts with you to his body language, these signs will help you understand his intentions and whether he’s ready to take things to a more intimate level.

1. He Gives You Lots of Attention and Compliments

Libra men are known for their charm and attention to beauty, and when they’re sexually attracted to someone, they won’t hesitate to shower them with compliments. If a Libra man is interested in you on a deeper, sexual level, he’ll be sure to make you feel adored and appreciated.

Here’s what to look for:

• He compliments your appearance: Libra men are ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, and they are naturally attracted to physical beauty. If he’s sexually drawn to you, he’ll likely compliment the way you look, whether it’s your smile, your eyes, or how you dress.
• He compliments your personality and energy: Libra men also appreciate good energy. If he’s sexually attracted to you, he’ll compliment your positive attitude, your intelligence, or your ability to make those around you feel good. He’s drawn to partners who radiate confidence and warmth.

What you can do: Accept his compliments gracefully and return the favor by praising his charm, style, and intellectual qualities. This will create a balanced, reciprocal connection, which is what Libra men appreciate most.

2. He Wants to Spend Time Alone With You

While Libra men enjoy socializing and being around people, when they are sexually attracted to someone, they will want to spend private, intimate moments with that person. If he’s pulling you aside or planning one-on-one dates, it’s a strong sign that he’s interested in more than just a casual connection.

Here’s how it might show up:

• He suggests private, intimate outings: If he asks you to do something just the two of you—whether it’s going to a quiet dinner, attending an art exhibit, or going for a walk in the park—it’s his way of creating a more intimate connection.
• He prioritizes alone time: If he’s drawn to you sexually, he’ll want to create space where you both can talk, laugh, and connect away from the social crowd. Being alone with you is when he’s most likely to show his true feelings.

What you can do: Be open to spending quality time with him in a private setting. Show him that you value his company and enjoy connecting without the distractions of others.

3. He Shows You Attention Through Small, Thoughtful Gestures

A Libra man who is sexually attracted to you will often show it through small, thoughtful actions that go beyond words. He’s highly attuned to the details and will try to make you feel special with his actions, rather than just his words.

Here’s how he might act:

• He buys you small gifts or does thoughtful things: A Libra man may show his attraction by offering little gifts or gestures that reflect your preferences. It could be a book he thinks you’d like, or he might make an effort to do something special for you, like bringing you coffee when he knows you’ve had a long day.
• He listens closely to you: When he’s sexually attracted to you, he’ll take the time to listen carefully to what you say. He’ll remember the little things you’ve mentioned and bring them up later, showing that he’s not only attentive but genuinely interested in you.

What you can do: Appreciate the small gestures he makes, and don’t be afraid to reciprocate. A Libra man values balance in relationships, so showing that you care in return will deepen his feelings for you.

4. He Uses Flirty Body Language

While Libra men may not always be overt with their sexual intentions, their body language will tell you a lot about how they feel. Libra men tend to be smooth and graceful in their actions, and when they’re sexually attracted to you, their body will naturally lean toward you.

Here’s what to look for:

• He mirrors your movements: When a Libra man is sexually attracted to you, he’ll often mirror your gestures or body language. This is an unconscious sign of attraction and indicates that he’s in tune with your energy.
• He leans toward you: If he’s sitting or standing near you, notice whether he leans toward you during the conversation. This physical closeness signals that he’s drawn to you on a sexual level.
• He makes lingering eye contact: Eye contact is important to a Libra man, especially when he’s sexually attracted. If he’s holding your gaze for a little longer than usual or his eyes are soft and full of interest, it’s a clear sign he’s sexually drawn to you.

What you can do: Respond to his body language by maintaining eye contact, leaning toward him, and mirroring his movements. This creates a sense of connection and encourages the attraction to deepen.

5. He Gets Jealous or Protective

While Libra men are generally calm and avoid drama, they can get surprisingly protective or jealous when they are sexually attracted to someone. If he notices others showing interest in you, he may subtly assert his presence, signaling that he cares about you on a deeper, more intimate level.

Here’s what to expect:

• He seems protective: If someone is getting too close or too familiar with you, a Libra man may subtly assert himself by positioning himself between you and others or giving them a “look” to establish that you’re his interest.
• He subtly gets jealous: If he sees you engaging with someone else in a flirtatious or intimate way, he might display signs of jealousy or possessiveness, even if he doesn’t express it outright. This is a clear indication that he sees you as someone he’s attracted to and doesn’t want to share.

What you can do: If you notice signs of jealousy, reassure him with your words and actions. Let him know you’re committed and that his feelings are important to you. Just don’t feed into jealousy by acting provocatively with others to get his attention, as this can backfire.

Final Thoughts: How to Keep the Spark Alive with Your Libra Man

If you’re noticing the signs that your Libra man is sexually attracted to you, it’s a great sign that he’s deeply invested in the connection. To keep the sexual chemistry alive, continue to engage with him on an intellectual, emotional, and physical level. Compliment him, give him space to show his affection, and appreciate his attention.

Libra men thrive in relationships where there’s balance, mutual respect, and clear communication. If you’re able to provide that while continuing to engage with him on a deeper, more intimate level, the connection will only grow stronger.

If you want to learn more about how to connect with your Libra man and deepen the sexual attraction, check out my Libra Man Dirty Phrases guide. It’s packed with expert advice on how to build lasting attraction, deepen your emotional bond, and keep the passion alive with your Libra man.