Gemini men are some of the most outgoing and fun around. I met my Gemini man when I was at a party that two of my friends had convinced me to go to. I am a bit shyer than my friends, and so I went to try and get a beer from the cooler in the living room (we were at a house party for the holidays) since I didn’t know anybody there.
I thought maybe if I drank a little I might loosen up and relax more, and maybe it would make me more talkative. I had a couple of sips of a beer and then my Gemini man came up to me and asked me my name.
The holiday party was themed, and everyone was supposed to wear an ugly holiday sweater. I bought one at a thrift store at the last minute (can’t believe I found one!) and it was absolutely hideous, but so was his.
He asked me my name and then where I was able to find such an ugly sweater. When I told him, it was the local thrift store, he told me he had to scour the internet for his. We laughed about how ridiculous they were (his lit up with flashing LED lights), he asked if I wanted a “real” drink, meaning a cocktail. I told him to surprise me and he brought me a rum and coke.
We talked for a bit and I caught my friends giggling in the corner and looking over my way. I mean, my new Gemini man was very handsome, and I thought it was so cool that he just came up and talked to me. I would never do that to a guy! I was too introverted and afraid that I would be too awkward.
After a while of standing and talking we went out to the backyard and found a couple of plastic lawn chairs to sit in. The weather was nice and cool and there wasn’t any music outside which made it easier to talk. He asked me about my favorite books, music, and we talked about our careers. We were both 26 and loved what we did for a living.
A Gemini man is confident and open-minded
We exchanged numbers at the party. When his friends found him, they asked: “who that pretty girl is” (referring to me!), and laughed, but in a cute way. I could tell they were trying to embarrass him, but my Gemini man was just so laid back and laughed it off. He told them my name, and said I was cool. His friends asked if I wanted to play beer pong with them and, so I agreed. It was so much fun.
Once the party was over, we were both ordering Ubers to take us home. He texted me as soon as he got home and asked if I wanted to go out to dinner the next day, so I agreed. When we met for dinner, I felt like I could talk to him about anything.
My Gemini man has such an open mind and still does even to this day. We talked about religion and politics, and had very similar feelings on both. We talked about jazz bands and artists and our favorite authors. It was amazing.
After a month of dating, we decided to officially be in a relationship. For the most part, it has been great ever since (we’ve been together two years). However, there are times where we have bumps in our relationship and for a while I did not know how to get around these issues, until I picked up Gemini Man Secrets.
A Gemini man will not necessarily open up easily
There are times when I notice that when he is upset or going through something rough in his own life, he does not come to me and discuss it. He will either pull away from me and get quiet and want to spend a lot of time alone, or be on edge all the time.
There was one time where he had a very difficult task to handle at work (he is a web developer) and he snapped at me when I asked what we were doing for dinner. Earlier he had told me he would make pasta and open a bottle of wine, but I was so caught up in my own assignments at work (I am an interior designer and was working on a large project for a hotel).
When I did not remember and asked what we were doing, he snapped. Granted, after seeing me get upset, he apologized and tried opening up about his day and project a little more after dinner. A Gemini man can be very inconsistent and indecisive. However, they are also affectionate which can offset the edginess at times.
The one thing you must remember with dating a Gemini is that they can disappear and shut you out at times. Why? They have big egos but are very sensitive. They have big hearts but can easily get hurt and it really freaks them out.
They are also a sign that loves adventure and change, and when someone is sitting there talking about their future and marriage and babies, they have a tendency to run. They love living in the moment, and just because he doesn’t jump to talk about the future with you does not mean they don't love you.
Keeping your Gemini man does not have to be that hard
Anna Kovach’s book taught me that Gemini’s as lovable and warm as they are, can be a bit difficult to understand. However, knowing how a Gemini man’s mind works is the only way to keep him. Being the sign of twins, this sign is known for being super reliable and loving, only to have it disappear in the blink of an eye. Gemini’s are known for disappearing, however, if you want to keep your Gemini man, remember this one thing: he loves change and excitement.
This is why you cannot let a Gemini man become bored. By “locking him in” with talk about the future, you could easily be opening the door for him to walk out. The Gemini man thrives on the excitement of each day being new, and taking one step at a time.
He might already have it in his mind that he loves you and wants to stay with you, but he won’t say it out loud. There is no way his ego would let him let you know how he is feeling or that he is thinking of staying for the long run, at least not in the beginning. He might open up more as you two date, but be prepared for him to not always run to you and be an open book.
A Gemini man is not for everyone, because many zodiac signs, like Cancer and Pisces, are more emotion and like the security of knowing where things will go. Mostly every zodiac sign can adapt to change, but some thrive on it, like Aries, Libra, and Sagittarius. This is why fire and air signs might do better with a Gemini man.
These signs are more “high energy” and can take the energy of the Gemini man, and the uncertainty that comes with it. That does not mean, however, that you cannot make your relationship work with a Gemini man if you are a different sign.
Keep things sexy in the bedroom
Another way to keep a Gemini man’s interest piqued to make sure you are changing things up in the bedroom every so often. This doesn’t mean you need to do anything too kinky, but many break out a new set of lingerie one night after a romantic dinner. The Gemini man loves surprises, and this is one that he will NEVER turn away.
Gemini Man Secrets helped me understand him better
Anyone can make a relationship work with a Gemini man as long as they put in the effort. Anna taught me that yes, women fall in love for Gemini’s because of their personalities. They have such great energy and are so easy to get along with. They are sweet and charming, but along with that comes their “other side.”
Remember, the Gemini man has the zodiac sign of the “twins!” That means that they can flip-flop in terms of how they act one day to the next, and you have to be ready for that. When I first met my Gemini man at the holiday party, I couldn’t get enough of his smile and personality, and for a while, he chased after me and was always texting, calling, and wanting to see me. When the switches started coming and he would pull away, I couldn’t help but wonder what was going on.
You can always bring your Gemini man back by keeping him on his toes. By not becoming predictable and keeping him guessing, he won’t be able to resist you! I’m so glad I was able to get my hands on Gemini Man Secrets and learn how to be a sexy, confident, and more mysterious woman for my Gemini man. Ever since reading her book, my Gemini man and I have had the strongest relationship ever, and I feel like he can never get enough of me!