So you’ve found yourself a Capricorn man and you want to know how to impress him in between the sheets, do you? I hope you have your mother’s pearls and expensive classic perfume at the ready, because this is a man who is impressed by classical tastes.
He wants a woman who has the ambition to reach above her current social status.
Think – ‘Holly Golightly’ from Breakfast at Tiffany’s – that scene at the beginning of the film where she is walking home after her night out, past the expensive jewellery store; wearing her long, black classical evening dress, eating her takeaway croissant and sipping coffee out of a paper cup.
Who Is Your Capricorn Man?
- He is the alpha male! He is in control of himself and his world. He likes to accommodate all of those around him who he cares about, but never at the expense of his masculinity. Respect his masculinity and he will regard you with tenderness.
- He enjoys structure and is rarely one to wander aimlessly. He likes to have a plan in his head, a plot, a definite goal. What’s more, he is very good at keeping to his plan. The bigger picture is important to him! Keep this in mind when attempting to seduce your Capricorn man. Appeal to his sense of order.
- He has an insatiable appetite… for food yes, but also for love, sex, wealth, success and absolutely everything that inspires and motivates him. Be prepared to indulge with him.
- He is competitive. If you want him to do something, challenge him and he will be eager to prove himself.
- He is charming but pragmatic. He will have all sorts of schemes on the go and execute each one with charm and expertise; but each will have a specific purpose in the grand scheme of things. Why is this? Quite simply because he has big ideas. If your ambitions are high and focused too you will be more likely to attract the attention of a Capricorn man…
The Capricorn Man’s Attraction to Status
You don’t necessarily have to be of a higher social status yourself, but you will get more browny points if your Capricorn man thinks you have higher aspirations. He is highly status-orientated.
If you can present yourself as a classy women with classical tastes then you will certainly catch his attention. We've mentioned he is pragmatic, which means he values his time. He will want to spend it on pursuing a woman who has a similar mindset to him.
- Keep all of this in mind when preparing your boudoir setting for the big seduction… classical music playing softly in the background, plenty of draped materials that ooze luxury like fur and velvet, expensive wine and classy nibbles… you get the picture.
- Let him see that you have expensive tastes and that you always strive for the best. If you are going for dinner make sure that you pick the most expensive restaurant with a traditional menu.
Actually the Capricorn man, though very serious and focused in life, is a highly sexual creature in the bedroom. He isn’t called the horny goat for nothing you know!
When it comes to sex, the Capricorn man is easily aroused, passionate and has a very high sex drive. Passion will come before emotion, but if he’s really into you then both will be deliciously mixed into his love-making, and you are in for a real treat – oh yes!
I have had the pleasure of bedding a Capricorn man and I might even go as far as to say it was one of my favourite sexual relationships. The balance of passion, eroticism and emotional connection was just perfect.
Because of the Capricorn’s attraction to status, which incidentally conflicts with his raunchy inner sexual desire, his tendency to be turned on by “a lady in the parlour and a vixen in the bedroom” should be taken full advantage of.
If you are the kind of girl who can handle her liquor and knows how to behave well in social situations, then you will be relieved to know that in the privacy of the bedroom you can really set your sexy self free! So make sure that you dress conservatively in public, but feel free to wear whatever saucy delights you wish underneath.
- Don’t be too shy – show him your secret stash of sex toys, he will want to dive straight in. In fact he probably has his own stash that he may want to introduce you to at a later date!
- Let him know that you have a kinky imagination when you have a private moment alone together, he will definitely want to test out if your kinky ideas match his own. He is the kind of man who won’t want to push you beyond your limits because he is a gentleman at heart, but if you let him know your limits are flexible he will enjoy inviting you into his secret world…
- Be straightforward and raw with him. He wants to know what you enjoy, how you like it, where you like it, what’s going to make you scream… He is the kind of guy that knows exactly what he wants and he wants a woman who knows exactly what she wants too; and more importantly who isn’t afraid to verbalise it!
SEX TIP: One thing you will find very useful to bear in mind is that the Capricorn man is initially reserved when it comes to anything of a sexual nature, which is why it can be something of a pleasant discovery when he does open up!
This is because he is a very private creature when it comes to personal matters. He may even keep his sexual fantasies bottled up, but there is a secret… if you play the innocent and inexperienced virgin you will appeal to that alpha male in him who loves to dominate!
There’s so much more to a Capricorn man that you should now. And if you’re serious about putting him under your spell, I suggest you read Anna Kovach’s step-by-step guide called Capricorn Man Secrets. If anything helped me get my Capricorn man to commit, it’s her amazing book!