3 Shocking Truths on How to Have a Longer Orgasm

#1 Prolong It

If you’ve ever read a book on sex, they all say that you should prolong your orgasm in order to have a better one. Well, there is a trick for having a longer orgasm too.

Whenever you feel like you’re just about there, either slow down or completely stop for a moment. Continue cuddling and kissing with your partner, but stop the penetration or whatever you’re doing to achieve an orgasm. Continue your game after a couple of minutes and again, once you reach the point where you’re almost there – make a pause.

This is not only great for your orgasm, it’s also fantastic for your partner’s skills too. He would be able to keep a longer erection like this, which will result in a better experience for the both of you.

Don’t do this for too often though, because after a while, you might start feeling like you’re just torturing yourself and completely loose the will to continue. Two to three times is just enough – then relax and enjoy fireworks.

#2 Don’t Speed Up

As soon as you reach the moment where your orgasm is just seconds away, you naturally want to speed things up and reach it. Forget about doing this in order to have a longer orgasm.

Don’t speed up at all. Establish a rhythm and stick to it until the very end. No matter how much you would like to speed up at one moment, keep it slow. The slower you go, the slower your orgasm will come, but it will last longer and it will be more intense.

You can always stop completely for a couple of minutes if you feel like you’re going too fast and you want it to last longer.

#3 Try Oral

There has to be a good reason why guys love oral sex so much, right? So, why wouldn’t you try it too?

You don’t hear girls talking about oral sex as much as guys do, but there is no reason why you shouldn’t try having it. Often, it’s the best choice when it comes to having a longer orgasm. The reason for this lies in two tricks.

Your partner’s tongue can be fast only to the certain measure. Furthermore, he’ll need a break every now and then. This is a perfect combination of prolonging and keeping it slow. When you add the perfect joy of receiving oral sex into the mix – you’re in for the best orgasm you’ve ever had.