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Review of Jack’s Blowjob Lessons

If you ever tried to improve your oral sex skills, then you've probably heard of Jack's Blowjob Lessons, the bestselling oral sex guide for women. Here's our honest review that can help you learn more about it.

Perhaps being a ‘Blow Job Queen' isn't a title we all aspire to, but secretly we all want to be able to say that we know what we're doing, and that perhaps we're even a bit of an expert at making our men climax.

The trouble is that there is a big difference between being able to make a man climax, and giving him the best blow job experience of his life. If you're not convinced, Jack's Blowjob Lessons will certainly give you something to think about with it's candid authority. This is a book that will shape and stretch the way you perceive oral sex from it's opening paragraph to the end.

You might not know it, but men place a huge importance on the quality of a blow job – scary huh? Guys are going to great lengths to get the word out there – There's more to a blow job than just sucking my c*ck! Personally I think they have every right to shout it from the roof tops; how else are we going to know?

I know that I get very annoyed and frustrated when a man goes down on me and it immediately becomes painfully clear that not only does he not know what he is doing, but he doesn't seem to care; or he thinks he can quickly bring me to climax by doing the same thing over and over again, without any other mental or physical stimulation – lazy, boring, stop wasting my time!

I have to be honest with you, Jack's Blowjob Lessons is written with a very frank but highly effective approach, and the feminist in you is going to be sorely challenged when you read parts of this book; but somehow you will find yourself warming to some of Jack's concepts, because at the end of the day he is giving you the truth and saying it how it is from a man's perspective – which is the most important piece of advice you can get on the subject of giving a man sexual pleasure.

The book contains key information I think, that many girls who want to improve their oral sex techniques are missing. This is a book for the absolute beginner, the intermediate, and the seemingly advanced. You may think you've got your technique down, but what about your attitude? And do you really know what's going on inside your guy's head when your head is bobbing up and down below?

Jack's Blowjob Lessons is dense with information and insight on this one topic. I find it quite fascinating actually, how so much can be said about one seemingly small area of sex.  If a guy can write an entire book on this one topic, doesn't it make you think about how long it takes you to get your guy off? If it's anything less than 20 minutes, then perhaps there's more to this than meets the eye. I repeat an entire book. But that's just the point – oral sex is HUGE, and we're not doing it right girls!

When I was much younger and starting out on my sexual journey, like many other girls, who did I turn to for juicy sex tips and advice? My fellow girlfriends of course! Big mistake. How on earth are we supposed to acquire real insight if we don't get our information from the recipient gender? This is why I always conduct research for my articles by interviewing a variety of males and females from different backgrounds and with different levels of sexual experience. It makes sense to me that if I want to find out more about what turns a guy on in the bedroom, I should ask a guy, and not necessarily the one I am involved with because he probably won't want to hurt my feelings.

Jack is not only a guy though. He describes himself as a 34 year old guy with a strong sex drive, who is hard to please, and enjoys regular blow jobs – at least one a day – lucky him!  He has a lot of experience in receiving oral sex from a large variety of woman, and basically he knows what he likes, he knows what men like, and therefore he knows what he's talking about in this book.

The book is immensely detailed, opening up with Jack's key message about what men really want from a woman giving them a blowjob. This message is hammered in with plenty of examples throughout the book so that by the time you have finished reading it, the message has become second nature to you, it will be part of your natural way of thinking about blowjobs from that point onward. In a way Jack is giving you a bit of a gift, his persistence and raw detail means that you come away from his lessons with a key piece of knowledge that is going to change the way you pleasure your man, forever. And what's more, your new ways will be effective and guaranteed to get him off.

The biggest section of the book belongs to Blowjob Techniques which takes up a delightfully large percentage for those of you perfectionists striving for Blowjob Queen status. There is a section on How to Deep throat Like a Porn Star, which I found quite fascinating as it is written by an actual Porn Star. I like to hear it straight from the horse's mouth!

There is also bonus material in the form of a very long Question & Answer section. I love this section because it gives a lot of insight into common problems that real women are experiencing, and then answers the questions from a real guy's perspective. It is honest and often surprising.

For example one girl wanted to know why her partner had said to her that he didn't want to come in her mouth. I thought about it for a while and came to the conclusion that this guy was just different, and perhaps had some sort of complex about mixing his girlfriend up with a whore – a bit like in Sex and The City when Charlotte's husband was having problems in the bedroom because he could only see Charlotte as his wife, and not as a sensual woman who is sexy and horny and longing to be F-ed hard! Alas I was wrong…

Jack confidently replies; “Yes, I'm 99% sure he said this ONLY because he thought that you don't like giving blow jobs, so he assumed that you also probably don't like to swallow. Nothing to worry about, just show him that you love it and while you're licking his d*ck, hold it strong and maybe tell him aggressively that you WANT to swallow his sperm!”

It's interesting because often a guy isn't thinking the same thing as you at all, and often what goes on in his head is a lot more simple than you would imagine.

Jack's Blowjob Lessons, the Special Advanced Edition provides a more sensual read for women who already know the basics and want to make the orgasms their men have, a far more intense experience. Jack talks about slowing it right down, entering a new dimension and taking your man with you. This book is for the sensual lover in you rather than the Porn Star. Again there are elements in this book that won't sit comfortably with strong feminist types of women at all, so if you are one of them I'd probably steer clear, unless of course you're curious to know what goes on inside a man's head… Just be prepared for some dangerous points of view.

The bottom line with Jack's Blowjob Lessons though is that they offer a brutally honest man's perspective which is simultaneously amusing, insightful, informative and at times appalling – but in many ways true. Take from them what you can stomach is my advice. I have certainly learnt a lot more about oral sex than I thought I knew.

I think the best thing about these books are that everything you read comes with free ‘real-man' commentary. Some of it will make you laugh, other parts will make you want to close the book, but you probably won't. You will keep reading, I did!

About the author

Scarlett Robinson

I am inspired by the ways people interact. Human behaviour and emotions are wonderfully complex, and I want to dig deeper and understand more. This is why I explore intimate relationships in my writing. (I’m also ever so slightly kinky.)

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