Capricorn men can be… how do I put this delicately… daunting. Oh, sure, he’s hot, he’s mysterious and gorgeous and you find him hard to resist, but the chances of you actually catching him are slimmer than you might think.
These guys are a hard catch. They don’t open up easily, they are very traditional, and they know exactly what they want. In other words, there’s no compromise. If you’ve been lucky enough (and patient enough) to get your Capricorn man in bed, then here are some useful tips on what to do when you have him there.
#1 Let Him Be in Charge
There are plenty of guys out there who love to be tied up and spanked every night, but your Capricorn guy isn’t one of them. Actually, you might at first find his lovemaking very routine and lacking any kind of kinkiness at all.
First, give him time to trust you and the sex will get more interesting. Second, don’t be the dominant one; you have to let him be the one in charge. Just don’t let him get selfish on you.
#2 Be Classy
Some of us love some hot dirty talk and a little naughty outfit (especially if you know the right words to say)… but Capricorn men don’t. In order to lure him into bed, you first have to catch his eye, which means you have to dress for success. For a Capricorn man, that means you might as well look like June Cleaver. Seriously, forgo the stilettos and put on some sensible flats and a knee length dress because this guy likes his ladies traditional and classy.
#3 Do Not Try to Sleep With Him Right Away
In order to get him into bed, you have to make him work for it. Capricorn men will not sleep with a woman they don’t respect, and they rarely respect a woman who jumps right into bed with them.
Save yourself some heartache and don’t sleep with him. It’ll make him desire you even more (even though you’ll be losing your mind).
#4 Tread Lightly With Your Fantasies
Okay, ladies, here’s the thing. I know he’s gorgeous and I know you want to rip the buttons off his shirt with your teeth and lick chocolate syrup off his naked chest but you can’t – at least, not right away.
Capricorn men have a difficult time thinking of the woman they love as someone to be naughty within the bedroom (they just can’t combine the two ideas), so tread lightly when it comes to acting out your fantasies. Slowly incorporate the fun into your sex life with a Capricorn guy.
#5 Say it With Your Eyes
Because Capricorn men are all about tradition, you’ll get further with him if you have looks of admiration and anticipation in your eyes. Never have the look of dominance in the bedroom, and under no circumstances should you talk dirty to him! Pretend you’re in a 1940s movie when you’re giving him a sexy look.
#6 Go Easy on the Perfume and Makeup
While many men love a woman who dresses up for him in bed, the Capricorn man does not. If you’re going to wear something to try and entice him, my suggestion would be to wear a long silky gown – preferably something designer.
These guys love wealth and they love a woman with class and style, so combine the two and you’re golden. Also, wear soft colors for him, something pink or ivory, and if you wear perfume, make sure it’s a light scent. Don’t wear anything musky or too fruity. A nice Chanel or Elizabeth Taylor will do the trick for your man.
#7 Play the Innocent Role
Ladies, let’s be honest. We know what we’re doing in bed and we know what we want. I’m sure that you’ve learned how to touch a man to drive him wild and you know exactly how to make him want you. Sadly, you can’t pull out any of your tricks on a Capricorn man. This is the guy you want to play the innocent role with. It might seem like a contradiction.
Capricorn men want their women strong and independent, full of class and style, but they want them innocent and yielding in the bedroom.
The truth is, this guy just really needs you to know he’s the man, so pretend you have no idea how to be in charge and you’ve never wielded a whip, and let him take care of you. Or even better, show him how you can worship him and be submissive with a super-seductive blowjob — just the way he likes it.
The one thing I can say about these guys is that their ego makes them very confident in bed (and the good ones work very hard to make sure you’re screaming his name in pleasure).
#8 Do What He Demands
Finally, once you have your Capricorn man in bed, and you’ve been sleeping together for a while, he’s going to want to turn things up (see, now aren’t you glad you were patient with him?). He may slowly introduce his fetishes to you (and with this guy, it’s going to be a doozy). My suggestion is to let him demand you. If he stops the elevator in the middle of the afternoon in order to lift up your skirt and have a quick lick, let him. The man’s got to get his kink on (and he will).
One piece of advice…you have to show him you’re capable of being the both the submissive and the kinky one in the bedroom. These guys are great family men, but because Capricorn men put the woman they love on such a high pedestal, it’s not uncommon for them to cheat on their love with someone else in order to fulfill their need for kink. Slowly show him you’re capable of being both women and you’ll have him hooked.
There’s so much more to a Capricorn man that you should now. And if you’re serious about putting him under your spell, I suggest you read Anna Kovach’s step-by-step guide called Capricorn Man Secrets. If anything helped me get my Capricorn man to commit, it’s her amazing book!