5 Best Sex Positions to Achieve Orgasm

Orgasms aren’t instant or guaranteed for any woman, but certain sex positions can help you on your quest to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm with your partner. Here are the best sex positions to achieve orgasm.

Don’t you just hate it when you watch ‘screen sex scenes’ and you witness an actress have a mind-blowing orgasm in a matter of minutes? Every woman knows that big O’s don’t work like that, and what’s worse, there are delusional men all over the world getting it wrong because they don’t know any better.

It’s time to take matters into your own hands and initiate the sex positions that are going to work for you all the way to climax.

#1 You On Top

I’m not going to sugar coat it ladies – you are all responsible for your own orgasms from now on! If you don’t know how your own body works, then how on earth do you expect your man to know? If you want to have great sex then you need to make sure you are participating, and this doesn’t mean lying on your back and waiting for the earth to move as he puffs and pants above you.

Woman on top is the easiest way for most women to achieve climax during sex because of the freedom and control the position allows. You can use this freedom to control the depth, pace and angle of penetration to suit your pleasure.

Being on top isn’t all about the bounce though, you really have to know how to ride a guy. If you want to achieve orgasm in this position it has to be all about your pleasure, so focus on tensing all the right muscles in your legs and vagina as you thrust him in and out of you. Or rotate your pelvis in a circular motion for a completely different sensation.

TIPS: Try to let the power of this position turn you on mentally, and encourage your partner to enhance your pleasure by manually stimulating your erogenous zones. Your body will be one hundred per cent open for play, so there’s no excuse for him not to be tweaking those nipples and rubbing that clit!

Also, if you turn around so that you are facing away from him the angle of your vagina will allow his penis to hit your G spot. Use constant firm strokes to stimulate it! And don’t be adverse to a bit of anal stimulation if he’s up for it…

#2 Him On Top

The popular opinion is that the missionary position is dull and predictable, but I beg to differ ladies. Just because it is the most obvious, it doesn’t mean you should knock it. The missionary is the most natural sex position for a reason you know?

The intimacy of the Missionary position can be a big turn on, especially if you allow your mind to absorb all the wonderful feelings of his body brushing up against your nipples, his nose nuzzling into your neck, his thighs pushing up against your bum… often it is easy to just focus on the pleasure going on between your legs, but if you expand your focus to all the other little pleasures that are happening at the same time, you will undoubtedly work yourself up into an orgasmic frenzy of desire!

TIPS: A pillow underneath your hips will make a significant difference. It will raising your knees, and allow him to penetrate more deeply. Alternatively you can lay your legs flat and closed on the bed with him inside of you, and tense your vaginal PC muscles every time he thrusts, to help elevate you towards your climax, and give him the pleasure of a much tighter fit and the pleasant sensation of being ‘sucked in’.

#3 Do It Doggy

There’s something incredibly ‘animal’ about this position. Personally I love being taken from behind. I have no idea why it feels so raw and ravishing!

Many women don’t like the idea of being on all fours with a man pounding away behind them because it feels kind of impersonal, not to mention a tad pornographic, which makes some of us feel uncomfortable. I know exactly what you mean! That’s why I prefer it if I am leaning up against the back of a sofa or on the floor leaning up against the side of the bed when he’s coming in from behind, because it’s easier for him to get close up to my body and hold me. It’s also slightly more dignified and flattering than bent over with your ass sticking up in the air!

This is also the perfect position for G Spot stimulation girls, so give it a go if you want to try for a deep reverberating orgasm… Try different angles until it starts to feel like it’s going somewhere…

Get him to stimulate your erogenous zones with his hands. He doesn’t just have to hold onto your hips and think of himself in this sex position. He has the perfect opportunity to bend over your back and kiss your neck, not to mention reach around to play with your breasts, nipples you’re your clitoris!

TIP: If he reaches his hands around to play with your clitoris and nipples in this position then your chances of climax are going to shoot right up!

So, yes, doggie style is definitely one of the best sex positions to achieve orgasm.

#4 The Rocking Horse

Essentially this is a sitting position, where he sits in a lotus pose with his legs crossed, and you sit kneeling on top of him. It works best when he leans backwards using his hands for support and you thrust your body towards him so that your torsos are aligned, and he rocks gently with every thrust.

Why does it feel so good?

Well, aside from the angle of penetration allowing his penis to rub against your front vaginal wall, you also get delicious friction on the outside for your clitoris, and you can even get stimulation for your nipples when you rub your body against his chest.

TIP: By tensing the muscles in your thighs and vagina as your thrust you will increase your chances of orgasm.

#5 Spooning

The best morning sex position in my opinion! Why? Well for starters you don’t have to breathe all over each over if you’re not one for morning breath, which can be distracting to say the least. It’s also a comfortable and relaxed position, with him embracing and entering you from behind as you lie in bed side by side.

He can lean away from you to give a deeper and more sensual kind of penetration, or cuddle you and play with your erogenous zones for closer, more intimate feel.

TIP: To spice it up and make spooning a bit edgy get him to rough up and perhaps pull you towards him with your hair, or hold your face firmly with his hands as he bites into your neck. The rough approach will excite you and send all the right pleasure signals to your erogenous zones, increasing your chances of reaching that much needed climax.