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Why the Doggie Style Sex Position is a Man’s and a Woman’s Best friend

Ever wondered what the appeal is about doggie-style sex? Find out why he loves this sex position so much, and learn how to make it feel even better for you!

What is the Doggie Style Sex Position?

The doggie style sex position does what it says on the box. You are on all fours and your man enters you from behind, in exactly the same way a pair of lusty canines would get their sexual jollies! You can do in on the bed, or on the floor. He usually holds onto your hips as he thrusts away behind you, and that is basically all there is to it. There are ways to make this sex position feel more intimate though, and certainly ways to increase the pleasure for you.

What Turns a Guy On about Doggie Style Sex?

Any kind of raw animal-type of sex will appeal to a guy’s natural animal instincts. They love to get all hot and sweaty, a bit of rough and tumble always adds to the excitement, and taking a woman from behind provides pure primal pleasure.

Putting animal instincts to one side though, doggie style sex gives the guy a great view because you are displayed in front of him with your hair tumbling all over your sexy back, and your bum is pointing up at him which is an extremely erotic vision and will never fail to turn any guy on!

Doggie style sex also puts the guy in control and he can fully satisfy his natural urge to thrust during sex to reach his climax. There are other turn ons too, which might include a guy pulling out and ejaculating onto your back, or gripping your ponytail to pull your head back during sex which might appeal to a more dominant male who gets off on being in control in the bedroom with a more submissive girlfriend. Doggie style sex is also just plain old naughty; it’s not exactly something you would expect a ‘nice’ girl to enjoy; so having doggie style sex can be very exciting for a guy!

How to Get More Pleasure from Doggie Style Sex

Doggie Style sex shouldn’t be all about your man’s pleasure though. Here are some sex tips to ensure that you get your fair share of the pleasure too!

  1. Find the right angle. If your man happens to be blessed with a rather large member, you might find that the doggie style sex position is too much for you. Any man who has a long penis should always be careful in this position not to thrust too hard because they can bruise you or even cause damage to your cervix if they go too deep. Finding the right angle can help to make sex in this position feel more comfortable for you; so move around, lowering your chest to the bed or raising yourself up, until you feel right.
  2. Stimulated your G spot. Getting the right angle will also stimulate your G Spot, which is located on the front wall of your vagina. This will help you to work towards your own orgasm, especially if you self-masturbate your clitoris using your own fingers at the same time.
  3. Get him to stimulate your erogenous zones with his hands. He doesn’t just have to hold onto your hips and think of himself in this sex position. He has the perfect opportunity to bend over your back and kiss your neck, not to mention reach around to play with your breasts, nipples you’re your clitoris!
  4. Close your legs! Once he is inside you, you can close your legs, which will provide him with a tighter feeling around his penis and encourage him to penetrate you more slowly, making the sex feel more sensual. You will also feel more friction around the entrance of your vagina as his penis slides in and out.

Pleasure Tip: Try pushing your pelvic floor muscles outwards as if you are trying to squeeze him out of your vagina. This will encourage your vaginal walls to lower which should make your G spot more accessible and lead to a more intense orgasm!

Now, another interesting thing you can do is to introduce anal play and sex into your doggy style position. If you're trying anal sex for the first time, you should definitely check out our article about how to do anal sex for the first time.

Share Your Doggie Style Sex Tips With Us…

What are your thoughts on the doggie style sex position? Is your boyfriend a generous or selfish lover? How do you get him to help you make this position work for your pleasure as much as for his?

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Scarlett Robinson

I am inspired by the ways people interact. Human behaviour and emotions are wonderfully complex, and I want to dig deeper and understand more. This is why I explore intimate relationships in my writing. (I’m also ever so slightly kinky.)

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  • The face to face positions provide a higher success rate for the female orgasm because the clitoris is where the stimulation has to begin for an entirely clitoral or a blended feeling orgasm. All the nerves extend from the clitoris under the tissue, but if the clitoris is ignored, the rest do not reach a sufficient degree of stimulation. I do not support faking it for any reason.