Let’s be honest: deep down, being alone is not what we want for ourselves, nor how we envision our future. Perhaps you’re at a point in life where you’ve simply given up on love.
Finding the right person is hard. Inside, you know how you want your perfect man to be, but what happens when Prince Charming doesn’t arrive?
Do we panic, or are we simply supposed to allow for destiny to take its toll?
Find out what you can do and how to attract the perfect partner you’ve been waiting your whole life.
1. Make the choice to welcome love
There is a famous quote by Rumi that states “what you seek is seeking you”. The more you want something, the more you attract it. The same applies to love. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a stable relationship.
For example, maybe you’re heartbroken and not interested in finding anyone. However, deep down, your wish is different and it involves finding the right guy, a person who’ll meet all of your expectations.
Here’s a trick you can try: think of your body as a tower that transmits and receives signals. What you send out into the universe is what you’ll get in return.
Just because you have had to deal with bad relationships doesn’t mean that you can’t experience an amazing shot at love.
The right person is out there, but he won’t come unless you welcome love into your life.
2. Be more accepting in relationships
Have you ever wondered if the guy you’re dating is your Prince Charming? Most of the time, we envision our dream man on a horse, with beautiful hair and dressed like royalty.
Even though fairy tales can become a reality, most of the time, Prince Charming doesn’t come with a noble steed. Instead, he is a real man with mistakes and a lot of baggage.
Only, you could help this person unpack, and possibly have one of the best experiences of your life.
Remember that looks are secondary; dating a good looking guy who treats you badly doesn’t add up in the equation. Aim for someone who makes you feel like the queen you are.
This is the one worth keeping. In any relationship, be more open with the person you’re with.
Share your fears, and why it is that you are afraid to love again. Through communication, both of you can come to an agreement that could benefit the relationship.
3. Be yourself
Jessica Simpson has a beautiful song called “With You”. In it, she talks about her first marriage to former husband Nick Lachey. For some reason, now that I’m married, I listen to it a lot because I’ve learned the importance of being myself with my husband.
Most of the time, we believe that we have to act a certain way in order to be loved and accepted. Remember that a person who loves you will accept you just the way you are.
If you’re currently talking to someone, or beginning a relationship, be yourself! Sometimes, it’s better to be honest from the very beginning. Show your true personality and embrace it because there isn’t anyone as unique as you.
Soon, you’ll find someone with whom, you will have much in common, but, most importantly, he will love all of your flaws.
4. Don’t lose sight of who you are
When one of my best friends broke up with her long-term boyfriend, the very first thing she thought of doing was to go clubbing and drinking and other things she wouldn’t have done before.
In her actions, there was a feeling of revenge. Deep down, she knew that she was a good girl who didn’t deserve what she was getting.
Even though there isn’t anything wrong with alcohol and partying, my friend was losing sight of who she really was. Through her actions, she was becoming a different person.
Somehow, I knew that she wanted the man she had always envisioned, but with her attitude, she wasn’t going to find anyone.
Honestly, not all men are the same, and time can heal anything. Now that she’s older and married, she realizes that everything she did to seek revenge on her ex only affected her.
Knowing who she was eventually made her a wiser person.
As time passed, she was able to find “The One” and married him. So, remember: as bad as the storm may be, you can’t lose control of your life because you don’t know when the right guy might be just around the corner.
5. Keep it sexy, but conservative
Dressing sexily is great, not to mention that it can boost your self-esteem. Instead of keeping those outfits at the back of your wardrobe for special occasions only, wear them every day for yourself.
Although the guy who’s worthy of you will accept you just as you are, you don’t know whose attention you could be attracting at any moment.
Wearing a sexy outfit can also give your self-esteem a much-needed boost. Maybe this can help you to walk up the man you have feelings for and tell him how you feel.
Many women do this, and numerous relationships have started in this way.
6. Smile more often
A sincere smile is known to bring more positivity and happiness into your life. When you’re trying to find the right guy, you may feel a bit frustrated. Once these feelings emerge, smile and think that you’re closer to meeting your life partner.
Perhaps a smile is what will captivate that man who could become the best thing that has ever happened for you.
From today, smile more often, but do so in a natural way. You’ll soon see the positive effect that this has. Also, even if you’re in a relationship, give your partner a smile so that he knows how much you care for him.
7. Don’t compare yourself
Very often, we compare ourselves to other people. However, by making comparisons we aren’t going to achieve anything. If your friend has a boyfriend, don’t think that you’re any less than her just because you don’t have a partner.
In life, there is a time and a place for everything. Maybe being single will prepare you for an upcoming relationship.
As crazy as life may be, you never know what the future has in store for you. Therefore, enjoy what is currently happening. What are the odds that you could meet the love of your life today?
Have faith that you will, and you will! With these small and positive tricks, you’ll be able to attract “The One” into your life. Don’t give up: the best is yet to come, and you deserve it!