How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You Like Crazy

Men are unpredictable creatures. But, if you learn how to make a guy fall in love with you like crazy, you'll be able to make any guy chase you obsessively!

If you learn how to make a guy fall in love with you like crazy, you’ll be able to make any guy chase you obsessively!

We all have our little tricks on how to be extra seductive and flirty and draw them in if we want to. Most of the time we’re not even aware we’re doing it, we’re just naturally used to turn up the heat and play the game when we’re interested.

Still, if you feel like you need to put in extra work and spruce up your style to make him notice you, in fact- scratch that- if you need to learn how to make a guy fall in love with you like crazy, here’s what you should do:

1. Be independent woman

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Miss Independent is the one that can make him go out of his mind! There’s nothing more enticing than a girl who knows who she is and doesn’t need anybody’s confirmation or approval. She knows what she wants, how to get it and is never needy or clingy.

This is the type of girl that’s going to drive him crazy. She’s strong, doesn’t rely on anyone and he’s hooked. There’s just something about the fact that she doesn’t need him, but chooses him that’s enough to make any man fall madly in love.

2. Leave him wanting more

Always leave him wanting more! Guys like to fight to get what they want. The chase is fun for them, and that’s what makes them appreciate it more when they get it. That’s just how it is.

So, if he gets all of you on a plate and if you make it perfectly clear that he’s the one you want he’s going to know he has it easy. And easy isn’t going to make him go crazy.

What is going to make him eat from the palm of your hand is you giving him your affection bit by bit. Make him feel like he has to work for it and chase you.

It doesn’t matter if he is already your boyfriend or even a husband, you should never forget to make your man want you more.

3. How to make a guy fall in love with you? Be unpredictable

Being predictable is boring. It’s routine, it’s easy. Unpredictable girls, who now how to stir things up are definitely going to catch some attention. When I say ‘stir things up’ I simply mean step out of the ordinary once in a while. Trust me, he’s going to lose his mind if you go and do something that’s completely out of the norm.

4. Don’t be high maintenance

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Most guys find high maintenance girls a bore. I mean, sure they do like a girl who takes care of herself but to be this perfect never-relaxed person all the time is just exhausting, for everyone.

He’s going to be pretty drawn in if you show him you’re able to make the most of any situation and not worry about the way you look or anything else.

5. Be fun and make him want you more

Everybody loves a fun loving person! And any guy who sees that you’re someone who’s up for having a good time, doing fun stuff, being active, outdoors, having a laugh is most definitely going to crave your company.

The truth is lots of girls aren’t really up for action. They prefer getting pampered, chilling and talking. But a fun loving girl who can get wild and crazy is surely going to make any man go crazy about as soon as he sees her in that light.

6. Confidence is key to making a guy fall in love with you

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Here’s the best piece of advice anyone ever gave me: people see only what you show them if you present yourself in a certain way that is how they will perceive you. This applies to many things in life, and is absolutely golden when it comes to confidence!

Did you know that most of those people who seem to ooze confidence are actually faking it? The best thing is anyone can do it. With time, you actually do develop this confident personality you’ve been portraying for the world to see.

And there’s nothing more appealing and captivating than a confident girl who knows her worth.

7. Show kindness

Nothing beats kindness, especially if you want your crush to fall in love with you. Kindness means you have compassion. Compassion is attractive.

So if you like someone and you want to know how to make your crush fall in love with you, just be kind and don’t be afraid to add a little bit of flirtation to the mix.

8. Lock eyes with him and make him obsessed

A good long gaze into his eyes is all it takes to make sparks fly and blow his mind. You two locking eyes at just the right moment can work magic and stir up emotions he didn’t even know he has!

9. Take care of your appearance

Men like women who make an effort to look after themselves. By no means am I saying you have to dress up, wear heels every day, get salon-styled hair, or even wear expensive jewelry.

As long as you make an effort to wash your hair, wear something clean, and smell good, the right guy will find you attractive. Follow our advice and let us help you on the way to looking your best for that special guy in your life.

10. Surprise him

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And I don’t mean like throw him a surprise, there’ll be plenty of time for that once you get him all for yourself. I mean show him you’re so much more than he’s been seeing.

If he’s used to seeing you all dressed up and acting lady like show him you know how to get your hands dirty and let loose as well. If he’s used to you being super responsible and school/work oriented take one day to blow everything off and have some fun, with him.

It is extra hard to keep up with the surprises in marriage. But, you should always have in mind that you need it in order to be irreplaceable.

Do anything that he wouldn’t expect you to do!

The most important thing is that you are still being you, you’re just showing him the other side – don’t try to be something you’re not just to impress a guy! If you do it right he’s definitely going to want to see more of what you have to offer!

But, you should know one thing. There is one secret ingredient missing! The one that will instantly make him obsessed with you. Check it out here for yourself and thank me later!

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  • I am in love with this guy at my school snd id dont know how to tell him because a scared

    • at first try to be friendly to him, understand what kind of girl he likes and try to be the same…and once u built up the health relation with him…and once you think that he has started noticing you…u can bring your feelings in front of him and if he do not accepts then ignore him thinking….he doesn’t deserves you

  • Guys hate to fight for a girl honestly, that just shows you are not that into them, yea they may sleep with you if they get the chance but then they won and will be done with you because of childish games that end up hurting someone.. It seems the things girls want the most they always wanna change but the only thing that changes is our minds… Trying to give women here a mans perspective… Be yourself and you might find the one that is right for you… Note this is prob fine for highschool girls but not I’n real life

  • I have a friend that want me to be he’s girlfriend but I said no and he still wants me he ask me to go to his church and meet his family but we are young and I’m not ready for a relasonship with school and other stuff what should I do

  • i am just realy confused i have been in love whit the same guy fot the past 2 years yes i did have a moment we kissed ,hold hands but then nothing happended after that .time went on then we liked each other again its an of and on thing its happened 5 times already but nothing ever happens and i keep asking myself what between us i mean we love each other but somthing happens and we find someone new time pases and then we go back to eachoter tell me what is this

  • What if this boy you are confused about might like you and all your friends say you will end up together and you were childhood sweethearts…what do i do??

  • dats was a good write up, i enjoyed it and my mind is full of imagination.

    how can i be sure my boyfriend love is a true love

  • wow i dont think this might help me but on the bright side i might use it as one of my back up plans :/

  • I’m so deeply in love wid a guy…we started as friends n it has been 2 years…v haven’t seen each other yet…but v will text each other daily…he cares for me as a friend …but I hav fallen in love wid him…he has told me that I’m d only girl who haven’t proposed yet to him after being close friends…but I truly love him…I don’t know how to make him feel like I do for him…I couldn’t nething rather than think about him…at home they are forcing me to marry a person who I don’t like….please please some one help me to get the man I love…

  • Send him a song and say listen to the lyrics. ..I recommend garth Brooks ..One night at a time.

  • i am a 20 year old girl i take coaching . in my coaching classes there is one whom i like , i love. ihave taken to him many times but i want that once he should come hug me,kiss me on my lips and press my boobs tight .

  • Iv been in love with my best friend for over two years.we having seen each other are even hung out in ages hes got gf and im not happy with my bf i cant get over this guy iv never wonted some body this much in my life all i do is think abt my best mate all the time im crezy abt about this guy what can i do my best mate nos im in love with him

  • I actually like these tips. So many other sites tell you to be a hardcore tomboy, or a peppy princess. These tips show you to be a little of both, and be yourself all the same. I’d definitely recommend this to my best friends if they needed it.

  • Well very nyc if smbdy loves u he will dfntly b crazy 4 u n u can’t say to make him love u will hv 2 do all dat bcz love is love it hpns u don’t make it.

  • I Honestly think that helps,but guys always remember NOT TO BE FAKE!!!!! just be you and certainly hell like you

  • why my boyfriend go crazy all about me he is saying Mallory talking his friends because ben is talking to my friends im thinking about ben tonight ben is thinking about me tonight he goes to sleep talking about me dream about me he really goes nuts about me oh my gosh he is stalking me for love is cute he is going to sing to me thinks is love song makes me little giggle and blushing right now my face is really in red he plays my hair behind me he gaves me his passing love notes to me I read it being quiet he staring at me I think im awesome and beautiful and sexy hot cool frlity me he said im gentle he loves me like the best world to him clam singing like me he loves me like a lot he loves my dancing moves he likes my voice he likes my singing he wants me to sing national anthem and then to get marrying me I cant not wait he is going to see me in love with me wow

  • I’m in love with a guy, he also loves me but not like I do. He told me of recent that I need to make him run after me, he said he’s not feeling it to make the big move, I don’t know what to do cos have tried and I love him more than anything, I don’t know what I will do without him, please help me

  • .Your Comment…….i think u should tell him how much you love him an show how unique you are

  • nice tips but my boyfriend sometimes behave like he is stranger to me and sometimes behave like he love me very much i don’t know what to do. plz help me!

  • I really need him in my life…. He says that he loves me but I doubt him…… He is more of a nigger so can’t just trust him….. What should I do?

  • Just acting not being needy is nt the case….not being needy anymore is important…..then they’ll crave you like never before…. I like the tips you posted Mina…a big thump’s up!

  • i mate a guy on Facebook he claim to love me
    and i love him too like crazy
    pls tell me what to do to make him love me crazy

  • am dating a teacher …… he is 24 and am 18. but the problem is that we having a distance relationship and he doesn’t have time for me…. help me i don’t know wa to do o_O :-@ :-(

  • What if you lock eyes with him and he removes his gaze,then what would you do.I love your tricks and advise but why is it that most women think suduesing him is the best.

  • I dated my classmate and he loved like crazy at first but after we broke up he dated another girl. The girl cheated on him and he broke with her again and came back to me but love evaporated between us. I want him back but I don’t think it’s worthy because he don’t want even to talk to me
    I think the one who leaves like this is not meant for you

  • My brother is always teasing me about being too young for a boyfriend I don’t want a BOYFRIEND but I want my crush to like me and do what we do pretty much every day- hangout. I’m 11 him too. He also told me I could trick-or-treat with him and his baby brother if I wanted to

  • my boy friend doesn’t give me enough time please tell me what to do i love him seriously guys please help me!

  • My boyfriend has been acting strange for the past few days. He doesn’t call me pet names, makes and eats breakfast without me. I tried calling him last night but he said I shouldn’t disturb him. I love him so much, please what should I do?