Role Play Ideas: 12 Sexy Scenarios Guys Fantasize About

Get experimental in the bedroom with these 12 sexy role play ideas and scenarios that every guy fantasizes about, and spice up your sex-life tonight!

If you’re thinking about how to turn your man on, here are the best role play ideas, that will definitely turn on your partner.

Why be you every night of the week, when you could be a seductive secret agent, a superhero with a kick-ass outfit, or a chambermaid with a very alluring French accent? By pushing you to utilize your imagination, role-play ideas improve your sex life, and guys absolutely adore it!

Men have secret fantasies, so you might as well join them! Say yes to role play ideas, because they are dying to discover the hidden aspects of your personality, which will make you appear even more mysterious to them in everyday life.

Who knows what levels of ecstasy you can reach once you unleash that wild uninhibited imagination of yours into the bedroom… the office… or wherever…

Role-playing: What’s in it for you?

Role play ideas

Role-playing is enjoyable from a very young age. Young children ‘play’ at being ‘mummies and daddies’, ‘superheroes’, and often mimic their favorite celebrities in role-playing games with their peers.

The pleasure may be derived from a desire for escapism. If you abandon your own identity in favor of another, you can effectively leave behind all of your personal hang-ups and adopt entirely new positive characteristics.

Often a positive effect of indulging in sexual role-play ideas is that these new positive attributes can actually rub off on the real you, making you feel more confident in everyday situations too. Can’t be bad.

Introducing Role Play Secretly into your Sexual Routine

How to introduce Role Play in your sex routine? The idea of striking up a conversation on the topic of sexual role-play with your partner might initially strike terror in your heart. Will he think I’m a freak? Will I live up to his expectations? The truth is, he probably will think you’re a freak. Fantastically freakish in fact!

Couples who have established a fairly standard bedroom routine will feel insecure about introducing something new; this is inevitable. Perhaps you’re not even sure you’ll like it yourself? Well there’s no need to dive straight in. Have you considered that you can ease yourself into the concept of sexual role-playing before you even mention the idea to your boyfriend?

A little secret us girls like to keep is that we are just as capable as men are of having secret fantasies that involve foreign situations and people. Admit it girls! Men aren’t the only ones who can have fun in their heads. And it can be hot, right? We’re all just vixens under-cover – and if you’re not, you don’t know what you’re missing! Just the other day I allowed my mind to wander into uncharted territory. That was while I was er… waiting in a queue at the supermarket! It was the sight of an attractive young cashier reaching for my giant phallic cucumber on the conveyor belt, and the twinkle in his eye as he smiled at me that had me wondering…

Be Whoever You Want to Be

fantasies about role play ideas give you the freedom to be with whoever you want to be with.  However you want it, whenever you want it. The best part is that you don’t have to feel ashamed or embarrassed. It’s all just going on inside of your head!

So why not bring that secret fun into the bedroom and make your fantasies come true? Your partner doesn’t even have to know that secretly you are imagining him to be a sexy stranger you’ve never met before, and that you’re pretending to have a one-night stand behind your boyfriend’s back… at least not to begin with. Or that you’re imagining you have been kidnapped and that your kidnapper is having his wicked way with you when your boyfriend takes you from behind… Yes, I’ve had that one playing in my mind many a time!

When you’re ready, start involving your boyfriend in your sex fantasies. Ask him if he’d like to know what you’re thinking about while having sex with him.

Hearing you talk dirty about your secret role-playing ideas will excite him, because he will realize that his own fantasies aren’t taboo either… and that’s when the fun can really begin!

12 Role Play Ideas and Scenarios Men are Dying to Try out

1. Threesomes

I know, you’re having another ‘terror-in-your-heart ‘moment. Most women are intimidated by the idea of their boyfriend drooling over another woman in bed, and quite rightly so. I know that I’m not keen on the idea! The thing about ‘threesomes’ is that they rarely happen, though. In fact half the fantasy and pleasure is in the imagining of it.

Men are visual creatures.  You can satisfy your man’s fantasies without ever participating in a ‘threesome’ by simply playing the role and painting the right picture – in his head!

For example, take your man out to dinner, and on the topic of ‘threesomes’ discretely point out the women in the restaurant you find attractive. Don’t forget to tell him exactly what you’re attracted to and what you’d like to do with these women in the bedroom. Guaranteed, when you go home and have sex with your boyfriend he will be having a ‘threesome’ in his head with you and your new imaginary lesbian lovers from the restaurant. Plus, you you haven’t even had to touch so much as another woman’s boob!

2. Prostitution/Call-girl

The word that probably comes to mind when you think of your man sleeping with a prostitute is ‘yuck.’ The risk of sexually transmitted disease is thankfully enough to put anyone off.  Even most men. But when you eliminate the risk,  the idea of hiring an anonymous professional to satisfy one’s carnal sexual needs is many a man’s secret fantasy.

In fact your boyfriend may have privately attributed the role of dirty slapper to you in the past without you even knowing about it! What? The cheek of him! Alas, it is probably true, so you may as well get involved why should he have all the fun!

Let him ‘book an appointment’ with you. Turn up at the hotel room he has booked (or the bedroom door) as if you are a complete stranger. With the right attire on underneath your rain coat, of course. Provide all the services he has requested. You’ll be surprised at how sexy it can feel to immerse yourself in the role and environment of someone you would never have associated yourself with before. I’ve done it before and believe me, it is a liberating experience!

3. Women who are off limits

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There’s just something about taboo topics. Both men and women find the things they can’t have very appealing. For men, that might be having sex with specific women, such as  his boss, a waitress, a policewoman…

It isn’t a reflection on you darling; don’t have a panic attack. It is simply imagination-overdrive. There’s nothing wrong in indulging him by doing a bit of dressing up and role-play, is there? Think about playing the role of dominant women in positions of power. Or,  play with ideas of vulnerability and submission with schoolgirl outfits. Find out what turns your man on and have some fun with it. You may discover quirks about your own sexual personality that you were previously unaware of!

4. Strip-tease

Let’s face it; the female body is sexy and powerful.  It doesn’t matter what size or shape you are. With a bit of confidence and the right lighting, your partner will be in for a real treat. If you can, bring yourself to give in to the popular and fun, sexy striptease role-play scenario!

Once you know how to strut your stuff, he will just love seeing you in a completely different way. It doesn’t matter what you look like. The fact that he has a woman willing to seduce him with a sexy lap dance will be enough to turn him on!

Why not experiment and learn how to have sex on a chair? Make him sit on his hands so he isn’t tempted to touch, and tease him first with your sultry dancing.

Remove each item of clothing slowly and deliberately,. Look him directly in the eyes and watch the excitement build and build until he can resist no more.

Then just when he thinks you’re about to remove something crucial, surprise him and remove something else. It’s all about the long, sexy tease.

Again, one of the sexiest ways to tease him is with your tongue… never going all the way until his orgasm, but just turning him on with long, sexy licks, that are super-pleasurable, but always keeping him on the edge of eruption.

5. Animalistic

Every guy fantasizes about a woman raking his back with her long nails, full of passion, desire, and lust!! So why not literally ‘play’ at being wild animals in the jungle? Imagine the lusty freedom of pawing at each other, growling with desire, and leaping about on the bed! Not to mention playing out all those animal kingdom themes of hunt, chase and devour.

Don’t be afraid to be rough and playful; he’ll enjoy it when you nip him with your teeth.

When he retaliates, cower beneath him and then pounce when he’s least expecting it. You will love feeling the vibrations of his deep growl as he bites into your neck or nuzzles other, ahem, intimate areas!

6. Sexual Rendezvous with a Stranger

This one is a bit different from having sex with a call girl, which is more of a planned sexual scenario, and a fairly predictable one, because it is the job of the call girl to satisfy her customers sexual desire. A fantasy involving a sexual rendezvous with a stranger on the other hand focuses on the appeal of a spontaneous and unexpected one-night stand. The concept is appealing because of the excitement that comes from meeting someone mysterious in public, experiencing hot chemistry, and not knowing what will happen next!

So how do you replicate this fantasy with your partner, and create the same sense of anticipation and mystery? Easy – pretend you are someone else! Describe the kind of game you want to play to your lover, making sure to tell him whether or not he is to treat you like a complete stranger. Then turn up as your alter ego wear a wig, hat or sunglasses if you need to find a way to increase your sense of mystery and then use your imagination. Have a few ideas already in place in case you  lose your character, then just go with the flow. The trick is to really play out your role and be the woman whose role you have adopted. The more you invest in your character, the more exciting your role-playing games will be for both of you!

7. The Sexy Female Police Officer

Police Officer Role Play Ideas

Some men, well actually many men, get off on the idea of being manhandled by an attractive female police officer. It links into dominant and submissive role-play ideas and scenarios, which I will cover next!

To get into the sexy female police officer role-play scenario, you will need some special role-playing attire and props. Props can be a great addition to your sexual play.

The kit you will need for the sexy female police officer sex scenario is very simple though. You will need  a police officer hat, a close-fitted shirt that unbuttons to show off your cleavage. Also, some dark colored hot pants and a belt with the most important sex props of all hanging off it – your hand cuffs and baton!

Remember: The role of a sexy female police officer’s to uphold the law, and give discipline where needed! Bend over your prisoner a lot to show off your sexy cleavage. Rim of your butt cheeks. Always put your criminal back in his place when he crosses the line!

8. The Flight Attendant

There is just something so sexy about being reprimanded by a sexy person in an official capacity – whether it is a teacher, your boss at work, or a flight attendant…

A lovely gentle stewardess eager to fulfill every passenger’s naughty wish is a common sex fantasy.

The kit you will need is a flight attendant lingerie or uniform role play costume. So, tell him to fasten his seatbelts, let the play begins.

9. The French Maid

French maid role play

This  one is awesome, it allows you so many different role-playing characters for your French maid scenario.

For example, he thinks he can get away with all that mess he made. Hell, no.

You will make him clean! You will be strict, playing the dominant role. Then, you’ll bend, to show him how to clean properly…

That’s one suggestion… you’ll need pumps, a feather duster, and a proper costume, there are so many different types,

I’m sure you’ll find the one that suits you (and him) best.

10. Sex with a Superhero

Role play ideas with superhero

All men are young boys at heart, and I am pretty sure that there is no man who would say to no to having sex with his favorite female superhero. The best thing about this is that you and I get to dress up in very cool, sexy outfits to play out his secret fantasy!

Some popular female superhero role-play ideas and  fantasies include:

  1. Wonder woman
  2. Cat woman
  3. Lara Croft (Tomb Raider)
  4. Black Widow (The Avengers)
  5. Batwoman

Tip: Watch the movie to really get into the character role!

11. Dominant & Submissive

Some people express an interest in exploring the realms of dominant and submissive behavior in their sex lives since the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey in mainstream culture.

Many of you may still be afraid to step foot into this unchartered sexual territory, though. S&M is very misunderstood, and women can be afraid that they are going to be bullied or hurt if they take part in this kind of sexual play.

On the other hand, women might be shy to tell their boyfriends they need a more dominant role from him in the bedroom in order to get turned on, or vice versa.

If you are worried what impression you might give your partner if you express an interest in exploring dominant and submissive roles in the bedroom, and wonder – will he think I’m a freak if I reveal my kinky side?

– Stop worrying right now! Most men will be willing to explore anything that gets you hot. Believe it or not, men are mostly turned on when they are able to turn their women on!

It is a pity that more people don’t take the time to fully understand the pleasure potential that discovering the dominant or submissive side to one’s personality can unveil.

Tip: If you want to develop a better understanding of how dominant and submissive behavior works, and what people might get out of this kind of role play, a fun introduction would be to watch The Secretary.

12. The Eager Applicant

I know from experience that this is one sex scenario that men enjoy. A good way of discovering what kind of role-play scenario your guy might be into is finding out what categories he is interested on the porn sites he visits. (You can ask him outright, tell him you want to watch some porn together, or be rather sneaky and see if you can go through his browser history – if anyone asks, you didn’t get that idea from me!)

I discovered that an ex-boyfriend of mine enjoyed watching porn clips of “eager applicants” applying for “modeling” or other jobs, who are inevitably taken advantage of by the interviewer.

It’s a really easy role to play out because all you have to do is act innocent and attend your partner’s “interview”. What he decides to do with you during the interview will be up to him, and all you have to do is play along. You can play the shy girl, if he likes a challenge, or a feisty one if he wants you to do more of the visual work and for him to be less hands on. The emphasis is all on power play. And that’s where worshipping can also come handy. Try “seducing” him into giving you the job with a killer blowjob.

What are your sexy role play ideas?

Often the idea of role-play is dismissed as unsexy because it is clichéd and predictable. People don’t often want to be associated with something that is considered trashy or ridiculous, but as far as I am concerned, there is absolutely nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and having fun.

Role-play can only be what you make it, which means you can influence how sexy your own role-play experiences will be. How? Well, simply by simply by taking it seriously and submitting yourself to the idea of having some sexy fun with your loved one.

If you don’t like the common well-known role-play ideas, then use your imagination and be true to who you are. You may discover brand new original ways of enjoying yourself in the bedroom!

If you have any unique role play ideas, don’t forget to share them with us eager YouQueens in the comments below!


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  • Oh yeah! I loved to play my own mother to my hubby and you will never believe how turned on both if us were!

  • I like the idea of the woman playing a princess who rewards the man, who plays a knight, with some sexy and intimate action!

    • I can be the invader who invaded your castle and won you.. giving you option to live and to rule back your city again only if you gets ready to become my queen. For which i am sure you will never gonna regret for accepting this proposal of becoming my queen.. lets do it

  • Did you just suggest going through his browser history? wtf?

    The rest is okay, but that is not.

  • . I love the whole role play idea. me and my boyfriend are new at this so I haven’t got it all quite figured out yet but the role-playing that I have done he’s loved

  • The “Superhero” fetish really actually worked. I brought up the subject of Marvel and DC, and asked my husband what his favorite superhero was. He said that he doesn’t like the superheroes, and that they’re too cheesy. When I asked him about villains, he looked like he was going to drool as he said “Harley Quinn”. I got the costume and put it in the bathroom before going to take a shower. He was in bed playing something on his phone and when I came out dressed in the Harley Quinn costume from Arkham Asylum, let’s just say we didn’t sleep much.

  • I like the fighting role play! I am a black belt in tae Kwon do (the best for women by the way, jmo) and I have a fantasy that my husband REALLY likes to do now that I would like to share with fellow readers. Now, keep in mind my husband didn’t like this at 1st because, well..he didn’t know how to react to it. It’s not everyday you see someones wife deliver 5 snap kicks to the face followed by continuous throws defeating them in hand to hand combat with ease. We start off as a fight or a “bet/ dare” and we start by squaring off in our fighting stance. We slowly circle each other waiting for the fight to commence!! I usually grab him by the shirt (gi) and start by flipping him over. We slowly will throw each other around but I do about 90% of the kicking and punching. It’s almost like watching a fight scene from a movie. He throws punches, I block or Dodge them as I kick,punch and throw him mercilously around all the while I laugh at him and taunt him every time a standing half kick to the face knocks him down or delivering a straight forward high side kick to my hubby’s face. My favorite is after about 15 minutes of hot, exciting roleplay fighting, I will deliver a final blow which is usually a face kick and as he slowly falls down to his knees slumped over on the ground, I stand over him with my leg still in the same position where my foot met his face and if he’s lucky,he will get to kiss the ballet shoes that landed him in his current position of being absolutely dominated by his beutifull wife! Ladies and gentlemen, this is an AMAZING ,new and different roleplay from the rest of the average lists and hopefully, this gets to be enjoyed too. Fantasy and roleplay are for OUR pleasure and personal game. We love this and it actually changed our sex life forever just by creating this new scenario. I didn’t like tae Kwon do 9 months ago but after I defeated my first male opponent, something clicked and I love it even more knowing now not only is this something great to have and know for self defense purposes, but it also ended up working greatly in our bedroom. Litteraly a life changer I hope you guys and gals like and try this. I would love to hear everyone’s feed back.

  • I’d like to dress up in sexy woman’s lingeries and have my girlfriend treat me like she’s with another woman and what she would do with that woman.

  • There’s a few that I didn’t see, even in the comments, to add.
    1 – The doctor/patient, nurse/patient, or doctor/nurse scenario. It’s already set up with one person lying in bed, possibly only wearing a frontal robe, letting someone else physically examine them. Plus, people are just turned on by professionals who wear uniforms.
    2 – The service house call (plumber, pizza delivery, etc). Ding dong. Well, hello. Please come in. No real costumes needed. But a couple of easy props could make these feel pretty real.
    3 – The art studio with model and artist/photographer. With a photo shoot, there’s a lot of movement, a lot of verbal direction of what to do. It could start out innocently and then deviantly get less and less clothing on the model. All the while, the sultry looks to the camera only increase with desire. Meanwhile, the artist with a drawing pad and a model posed into position is much more intimate. The long gazes, studying every detail of the body from a distance. The romantic tension builds. Think Leo and Kate in Titanic. And both roles can be easily reversed.