14 Reasons Why Women Moan (Or Scream) During Sex

Does sex feel different based on the amount of noise you make? Here’re the true reasons behind why women moan during sex.

During a sexual act moaning is completely normal.

Does sex feel different based on the amount of noise we make? Moaning during sex may sound the same every time, but it means different things in certain situations.

Here’re the true reasons behind why women moan during sex.

Do I moan? Yes. What causes women to moan when they have sex?

I’ve narrowed it down to these 14 reasons.

While I know I’m probably missing a reason or two, this list is based on personal experience and interviews with other moaning women.

Take a look at this list and see if one of these numbers is yours.

1. Woman Moans Because She Can’t Help it

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For most of us, moaning just happens naturally and involuntarily.

It’s something that simply feels right to do, without special explanation.

It’s a response to stimulation.

2. Automatic Response to Pleasure

One of the most common reasons women moan during sex is simply because it’s an automatic response to pleasure.

Just like sighing when you sink into a hot tub, the pleasure you get from sex can cause an audible and involuntary response.

3.Automatic Response to Pain

Of course, women also moan in pain.

If your man is going a little too rough, or he’s hitting that place inside you that feels uncomfortable, or even if you’ve suddenly developed a leg cramp, you’re just as likely to moan in response to pain during sex just as you are in response to pleasure during sex.

4.   To Feel Free

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We moan because we want to enjoy the moment and feel free and liberated.

It’s very powerful feeling.

5. To Increase Your Libido

It’s hard to move past the day and get over the stress of real life.

Even during sex, some of those emotions can seep into your brain, or you could just be so overwhelmed with things to do that you’re busy concentrating on the grocery list and not the sex.

Moaning is a way of getting your head back in the game so to speak.

By moaning, you take your mind off your chores and put it back into the sex where it belongs—which is exactly where it should be.

6. To Boost His Ego

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Moaning is a way of reassuring your lover that he or she is pleasing you.

You use all your senses to have sex, and your audial senses should not be ignored!

It’s important to make noises of pleasure so your partner isn’t put off thinking the wring thing by silence.

Believe me, men love those little moans (and some even prefer the loud ones!).

7. To Set His Sex Rhythm

Moaning can be a sign for him to know when to speed things up or slow down.

By moaning loudly, softly, or moaning faster, she takes control of the rhythm.

8. To Change His Sexual Tone

If you think of moaning as a way of expressing yourself without words, then it’s easy to see how moaning can change your man’s sexual rhythm.

If you’re moaning in pleasure and then he starts doing something you don’t enjoy, you change your moan to more of an uncomfortable sound…and he changes his sex style back to something you like. It’s a way of guiding him without actually “telling” him what to do.

He uses this method on you as well; it really works both ways.

9. To Hurry Things up

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Some men are so aroused by your sex sounds that the more you give them, the faster they orgasm.

I’ll admit I’ve “faked” an orgasm once or twice by making some pleasurable noises for a man. It happens.

Sometimes the sex has just lasted so long you’re exhausted and want him to be finished already.

Sometimes you’re just not getting off and want him to hurry up so you can get on with whatever it is you were doing.

As much as we’d like to think sex is always perfect…it’s not. Moaning can increase his orgasm time when you need it.

10. To Slow Things Down

Of course, if you know how to do it right, you can also change the rhythm of your body and the sound of your moan so that your lover slows down before he orgasms too quickly!

If you’ve ever had a lover who makes things a bit too quick, moaning can be a good way of shifting his rhythm to give you more time in bed.

11. To Make it Hotter

Sex is hot. Sex is wet. Sex is messy. Noisy, loud, raunchy sex is even hotter!

12. To Turn Him on Even More

If your guy is having a hard time getting aroused, moaning softly in pleasure as he kisses you can give him just the nudge his libido needs to get into the moment and more in the mood.

A soft moan of pleasure works wonders before you’ve even taken off your clothes.

Better yet, see how crazy he goes when you moan while having him in your mouth (just one of the ways to make your blowjobs fantastic).

13. To Relieve Stress

This one is very important.

Sometimes we moan just to relax.

Sex is a stress reducer and moaning can help you relax even more.

14. Because Silence is a Mood Killer

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Finally, women moan during sex because silence is a mood killer. No, really it is. Plus, it takes a lot more work to keep quiet than it does to just release your inhibitions and enjoy yourself audibly.

Don’t be silent; express your pleasure.

After all, don’t you like it when he moans for you?

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About the author

Trina

Just another hard working mom who loves her kid, loves to write, can’t cook, and has a thing for tentacles! When I’m not hanging out with my Spawn, I’m happily sharing my dating experiences and offering advice and trying to control the chaos that comes with being human.

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  • My friend had romance with a guy but not sex, she is having pains in her tummy, and she is scared of being pregnant,. But no penetration of the penis. What am insinuating now is she pregnant.

    • hw would she bi pregnant wen she had only romance n not sex
      or do u mean d guy jx put his penis n her without having sex

  • I now understands why women mourn. Yeah also enjoy mourning during sex. So want to ask a question. How can I get a girl to have sex with me right on the spot when I asked her out?

    • Do you have a helicopter and a licence to fly! Do you look like Christian Grey?
      If not then you won’t, simple. If you really want someone you have to work at it, in real life. Woman are shallow and selfish just like men, they just hide it better. If you really just want sex then you’ll have to pay for it. ?

  • My girlfriend says it’s difficult to not moan, her moaning kills my mood and makes me feel something is wrong, so I stop each time and ask if it’s a pain moan or a pleasure moan. She never stops, she just keeps moaning and I can never climax because she’s so noisy. I myself can’t make sounds during sex, sounds are a mood killer I need silence.

    • we’ve married for 15 yrs 4 kids including a 5 months ….sex is great but now my husband is back to school we barely make love ..in time we do have I just want different ways but we’re Christians meaning my husband is not so hot ….different moves no….or if we do try something I love and pleasurable it does not last ….am not lying our sex life is not excited…he said that his penis size bothers him…well I suggested there are great moves for small penis..incorporate them…we’ll try them together …my husband hands and lips his skin are eatable..i love the taste of his sp*rm …sweet…oh my God…but he’s just too old fashion .