If you want to know how to get a playboy to commit to a serious relationship there are a number of questions you need to ask yourself first, which are less about him, and more about you!
Bad boys, you can’t help but love ’em, can you? They’re hot and sexy, spontaneous and unpredictable, they have that twinkle in their eye and they know exactly how to make you feel like the only girl on the planet.
What girl wouldn’t want to feel like that?
The thing is, they’re like vampires – everything about them is designed to draw you in and intoxicate you while they suck you dry, and when they have satisfied their appetite, they let go and you fall to the ground drained while they go on on the hunt for fresh blood.
You want to know how to get a playboy to commit? It’s like asking how to get a vampire to leave the shadows and spend time with you in the sunshine – never going to happen!
What they desire is completely different to what you desire. They have different needs. They satisfy your needs by making you feel special and attractive, but they don’t need the same kind of assurance from you because they know they can have pretty much any girl they want, including you!
Playboys are attracted to the thrill of the chase and risk element of brief encounters, hot flings and secret love affairs. They usually have lots of energy and need to find ways to burn it, which usually means an increased sexual appetite.
If you have the energy to match then you may be able to sustain his interest for longer than most women, especially if you aren’t readily available at the click of a finger – any girl with a confident air of independence about her is sure to attract his attention – but is this honestly who you are and what you want, or is it a front?
Not all playboys will play behind your back though, it’s unfair to generalise. Just because he likes to have his fun it doesn’t mean he is going to cheat on you and sleep with other women. How comfortable are you with the amount of sexy female friends he has in his phone though?
Remember this is a guy who loves to flirt! It might not mean much to him because its just in his nature but the question you have to ask is, can you handle it? Can you trust him? Will it bother you? You are the one with all the choices here, do you choose to stay or find a guy who better suits your emotional or relationship needs?
Sometimes it is difficult to tell whether or not a guy is genuine or just stringing you along to get his jollies. Is that little voice inside your head insecurities or instinct?
If you are feeling unsure about your guy’s intentions, the best thing to do if you are the beginning of a relationship or just dating is to keep your distance as much as possible. If he is genuine he will respect you for wanting to take things at a slower pace.
If he is a crooked playboy then he will put the pressure on. Hold out! Don’t sleep with him immediately and try to maintain your own life and friends as much as possible.
Perhaps the worst thing you can do is play games though. Don’t play hard to get or try to be something you’re not. Remember that being your own person and maintaining your independence is not the same as playing hard to get, and neither is holding out before sleeping with him.
If you’re not sure whether or not he is a playboy, watch out for these signs…
If you are not sure whether or not you are dating a playboy, or if you know your man has a bad reputation but you think you can make him change his bad boy ways, have a little think…
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