10 Sexy Text Messages to Send Your Guy

Are you in a new relationship and wondering what sexy things to say? Are you trying to rekindle the spark with your long time guy and never have the time to see each other? Don’t worry, I have 10 sexy text messages to send your guy that will knock his socks off!

Sexting is one of the most erotic things you can do with your phone. After all, who doesn’t want their lover to talk dirty to them every now and then? If you’re at a loss for words, or don’t know how to get that sexy conversation going, then here are some sexy text messages to send your guy that will have him imagining you naked in no time.

#1 So, What Are You Wearing?

This is a great beginner sex text that is sometimes lost on men. They usually answer with “jeans and a sweatshirt, why? Are we going somewhere?” Which is where you come in with something even hotter: “No, I was just thinking of you and wanted to get a good visual of what I’ll be taking off your hot body later.”

Trust me, he’ll keep the conversation going.

#2 I am so…mmmm…Hot

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Your guy likes to know you think about sex as much as he does. The truth is, women actually think of sex way more than men, we just keep it to ourselves. When you send him this sexy text in the middle of the afternoon, you can always follow up with something even hotter such as “I can’t WAIT to have you alone tonight. Do you know what I’m going to do to you?” Yeah, now he knows, and he can’t wait either!

#3 Guess Who’s Not Wearing Panties

If you want your man to imagine you naked, then this is one of those sexy text messages to send the guy that will make him immediately picture you nude. After that, he won’t be able to concentrate on anything else all day, which is exactly what you want!

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#4 I Want You Right Now.

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It doesn’t get any more to the point than this. Once again, you’re letting your guy know that you’re thinking of sex and, more importantly, you’re thinking of sex with him. After he responds (which will probably be “oh, really?” because he wants to hear more, but has no idea how to respond), you can go into detail about what you’re going to do to him when you get him alone. Maybe he’ll even come home from work early.

#5 This Bed is So Empty Without You

This is another one of those sexy text messages to send your guy when you want him to picture you naked. If you’re in bed, he’s thinking of the times he’s in bed with you, which means you’re naked in his mind. In fact, go ahead and text him that, too! Text “I’m lying here, naked, my hand sliding over my breasts…wishing you were here…should I slide my hand lower?”

He’ll say yes. He’ll definitely say yes.

#6 I’m So Wet for You

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This random middle of the day text will blow his mind. If you send him a text saying you’re aroused when he least expects it, his ego will boost sky high and he’ll get aroused as well just knowing you want him. This sext is a win-win!

#7 You Should be Here Touching Me

If you want to get things going and have a little more fun with your sexy texts, then you need to start with this one. When you text this one to him, he’s going to respond with “where” or “why”, because once again men have no idea how to respond when you blow their mind. After he gives you his text reply, tell him all the ways you want him to touch you. Normally, I’d say tell him what you’re going to do to him, but this time you’re going to play a more dominant role. He won’t refuse, I guarantee it.

#8 I Had a Very Naughty Dream about You

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Of all the sexy text messages to send your guy, this one lets your man really know you’re thinking of him. It’s one thing to have a daydream about your guy, it’s a completely different thing to have a wet dream about him. He is going to want to know every little detail about your dream, so go ahead and make something up! Use your imagination as far as you can and give him some sexy images to keep his mind occupied all day.

#9 Can You Guess Where I’m Touching Myself?

This naughty text is going to make him smile, and then it’s going to make him aroused. Let him guess, and make sure he knows you’re touching that special place. If he texts “your breasts?” you text back, “Nooo, lower…try again” until he playfully figures it out. Then, you text him how much you are enjoying touching yourself while you’re thinking of him and how much you wish he was the one touching you right now. Believe me, this one always works. It’s kind of the skeleton key of sexting…he’s bound to play along and get turned on as well.

#10 It’s so Hot Outside, You Should Come Home and Lick ice-Cream off me…

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Okay, if you and your guy are a little on the kinky side (and a lot of us are, so don’t feel awkward), then sex and food is an absolute must. This one usually works best in the summer, but in the winter you can say something like “How about I cover myself in chocolate syrup and you come home and lick it off me?” Something that involves licking, sex, and food all in one is going to make him hungry… and I don’t mean for food.

When it comes to sexy text messages to send your guy, remember that he’s going to be shocked if you’ve never done this before. He probably won’t know how to respond, so you’re going to have to do all the work. Don’t worry, when he comes home he’ll be more than happy to please you!

If you’re eager to learn more about texting dirty (you should be!), read Felicity Keith’s best-selling guide to talking dirty. It’s probably the best thing ever written about dirty talk.

Do you have a favorite sexy text you like to use on your guy? What’s the sexiest (or dirtiest) text you’ve ever sent a guy? (and how did he react?) Share it with our community of Queens in the comment section below!

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