Don’t think that showing your affection and love through text messages is juvenile and unnecessary. I mean sure, you could just tell him all this stuff when you talk to him face to face, but doing it this way, and out of the blue can actually make it even more special. Don’t you think your hubby will be ecstatic when you brighten up his day at work with a sweet little text? There’s no price to putting a smile on his face, and letting him know you’re thinking of him when you’re apart is a surefire way to do so!
The best thing is, it’s not necessary to be sappy and corny to communicate your love and affection! You can do it in your own style, which is why we’ve divided our suggestions into 10 slightly different categories! Go through them and choose which ones fit your personality the best!
Check out these love text messages you can send to your husband:
1. Showing Affection:
“I’m having one of those days that make me realize how lost I’d be without you… Just wanted to let you know.”
Something along these lines can strengthen your relationship so much! Words of affection should be said often in a marriage, but sadly, the rush of everyday life makes it easy to forget to communicate! Sending him this text will not only make him feel great and put a smile on his face, but also intensify the bond you two have!
2. Being Cute:
“I had a dream about you and I woke up smiling…”
“I thought about you and it made me smile.”
Letting him know he makes you happy even when he’s not around via text message is always a nice thing to do! Just imagine how big of a smile he’ll have when he reads you’re smiling and happy and he’s the reason behind it!
3. Getting Emotional:
“We don’t say it as much as we did before but I love you!”
If you’re the type of person who doesn’t really wear her hear on her sleeve, and isn’t too comfortable communicating emotion why not use the advantages of texting? Even a simple and timeless “I love you!” will do just great! Your husband will be thrilled you decided to text him this. Of course he knows you love him, it’s just nice to get it in writing once in a while.
“God, I’ve seen like a million people today and all I can think of is how I can’t wait to get home to see you!”
It’s not you reassuring him you’re being faithful, far from it. It’s more like you making it real clear there’s no one in this world you’d rather be with than him – and that is going to make your man really happy.
5. Love is Silly:
“Smile if you want to sleep with me!”
At first he’ll smile as a reflex, and then he’ll smile ‘cause he’ll get some fairly dirty thoughts running through his head! So, send him this text and you can start preparing for a steamy night!
“Remember how we kissed …. (insert time and place)….? I kind of want to do that now…”
Remind him of the good times it’ll make him reminisce and it’ll definitely make him smile. It’s not your typical cookie cutter romantic text message, with this one you really have room to make it your own. And it really doesn’t have to be about kissing, you can use any one of the fun memories you have!
7. Missing him:
“I know I’ll see you tonight at home but I just can’t help missing you the entire day!”
You probably do miss him during the day, but you wouldn’t think to tell him about it. It’s life, you work different jobs, different hours, it kind of goes without saying you usually can’t be together during the day… But, the fact that it’s usual doesn’t mean it’s easy all the time. Let him know you miss him via text message once in a while, even if you haven’t been apart that long!
“I’m baking a sweet apple pie for my sweetie!”
If nothing else he’ll be excited for the pie! I’m kidding, obviously, he’ll love to hear there’s a sweet dessert you’ve make with him on your mind waiting for him at home!
“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.”
This is actually a quote by Judy Garland but it’s texting him something like this is a very romantic gesture don’t you think? Even if he’s not generally a romantic guy he’ll surely know to appreciate it!
If that’s still not enough for you, we highly recommend you read Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back, an in-depth guide to texting your guy, no matter what stage in your relationship you are. His tips can get even the most unromantic guy change his ways, and not just be more romantic himself, but also appreciate you and your love on an entirely different level.
*And here’s a 10th one you can try: Call him. People may just text too much nowadays. Give him a call instead, make it short and sweet. If you know he’s busy, just tell him “hey, I know you’re busy, I just wanted to call you and let you know that I love you. That’s all ;)” and end the conversation. It’s just a remind, just so he knows. Often it can be better than a text because he can hear the sincerity in your voice.
Let us know what kind of messages do you leave your guy. Share your tips with YouQueen’s community.