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Everyone Needs A Promiscuous Phase – Yes, You Too

If you’re feeling a little guilty for your recent promiscuous adventures, don’t! Everyone needs to have promiscuous phase in their life at least once—even you.

In today’s society, with all of the shaming going on in social media, it can be easy to feel ashamed of being more promiscuous. But, in all reality, your life is yours and you should really be living it the way you want to.

So, if that means you want to go on a floozy-parade following a bad breakup from a long-term relationship, then you should be able to do it without feeling bad about it! Not only should you not have to feel bad about it, but you should be able to embrace it.

There are so many benefits for women when they get out of their comfort zone and experiment in their sex lives. Everybody needs to have a promiscuous phase in their lives and here’s why.

1. You’ll get it out of your system

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If there’s one thing that will ruin a really great relationship when you get one, it’s you wanting to experiment because you never really got the chance to. Everybody wants to go out and get naked with other people at least once in their lives. It’s just human nature!


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But, if you’re in a relationship when that happens, you can ruin a great thing. Having a promiscuous phase is the perfect way to get all of those “what if” feelings out of the way before settling down when you find that special someone.

2. You learn what you like

What better way to learn what really satisfies you in the bedroom than by trying new things? The fact is that everybody is different in the bedroom. Someone’s norm may be completely different than what someone else will be doing with you.

The great thing about being a bit promiscuous at least once in your life is that someone may introduce you to something that you never knew you wanted. You might not realize how much you might like something until you try it.

3. You’ll build confidence

Sex is a surprising confidence booster. Not only does it give you more confidence in the bedroom, but you’ll also start to appreciate your body more and become more in tune with yourself. The feeling of pleasing different people with just your body can completely change your self-esteem for the better!

4. You’ll get to meet new people

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Obviously you’ll get to meet the new people that you’re getting hot and heavy with in between the sheets, but you’ll also meet other people too. How, you ask?

Well, if you’re in the type of promiscuous hook-up relationship where you actually hang out with your new lover, you’ll get to meet their friends and could potentially make a lot of new friends this way.But, since you also gain confidence and are in the mindset to find someone to take home, you’ll be more outgoing and that might lead you to meet new friends, too.

5. It can help you get over a breakup

Let’s not pretend that you haven’t gone through a heart-wrenching breakup up only to end up in a stranger’s bed that very same weekend. It happens. And, in my opinion, it’s good!

If you are having a hard time getting over a breakup because you don’t think there’s anyone who could bring you more pleasure or happiness than your ex, it’s time to be a little floozy.

The benefit of a promiscuous phase in this instance is that it will introduce you to people who will help you get over that ex. Meeting new people and enjoying yourself will not only make you happy, but it’ll keep you busy enough to forget about your ex until you’re over him.

6. It’s fun!

Getting hot and heavy in some hot stranger’s bed is really fun! I mean, what more explaining can I do here? It’s a great way to get rid of stress, enjoy someone’s company and just enjoy yourself without having to worry about any serious ties.

7. You learn not to care what people think

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Some people think this is the opposite since there’s so much shaming when it comes to promiscuous girls, but it’s actually true. Once you enter into this fun and necessary phase, you really just forget what other people think and enjoy yourself, which continues after you’re done.

8. You’ll be healthier

Assuming that you’re always using protection and regularly getting tested for STDs, you’ll actually be a lot healthier in general. We all know how great a workout sex is, but it’s also better for so many other things.

It’s a stress relief, mental health boost due to it increasing your confidence and even keeps your immune system in tip-top shape. You can definitely justify your promiscuous phase by saying it’s for your health!

9. You’ll get better in bed

After all, practice makes perfect, right? Although everyone is different and likes different things when it comes to the bedroom, you will still become better in bed than you were before. You’ll know what works, what doesn’t and even how to make it more enjoyable for yourself no matter who you’re with!

10. You might even find “The One”

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It is a long shot, but it’s not unheard of. While you’re on your little promiscuous rampage, you might even find the person you will end up spending the rest of your life with. Because you’re out meeting new people all the time instead of sitting at home binging on Netflix and snacks, you have a better chance of meeting someone who’s worth settling down for. You never really know.

Promiscuous girls may have a bad reputation sometimes, but that will end here! Because of all these benefits, everybody really needs to go through this phase in their life.

About the author

Bella Pope

Just a small town gal fighting my way through this seemingly endless war called life. Writer. Reader. Guitar Player. Craft Enthusiast. Workout Junky. Wannabe Chef. My passion for helping others through words transcends any other aspect in my life.

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