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10 Useful Tips On How To Choose A Vibrator

Are you looking at various options for supplementing your lonely nights with some fun? Unleash your curiosity by learning how to choose a vibrator that is perfect for you.

Any single woman should know that having your own personal helper in the form of a vibrator is an absolute must – not only for alleviating the natural urges you may have as a woman, but to discover exactly what it is you like in bed and how you like it.

After all, how can you expect your partner to know exactly what makes you happy between the sheets if you don’t know how to please yourself?

It’s not only an important part in your self-sexual development as a woman, but you absolutely have to own a vibrator at least once in your lifetime to mark it off your list of things you need to own as a raunchy woman.

The trick is to find exactly what suits you as an individual. Remember, we’re all different with different needs. Thus, the wide selection of vibrators available online and in stores.

It’s perfectly normal to be a little bit shy when asking questions and discussing your needs, especially with a stranger. The good news is, you don’t have to.


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When determining how to choose a vibrator, keep the following tips in mind to ensure your lonely nights turn into safe, innocent fun without having to spill the beans on why you’re looking for a trusted vibrator.

1. Choose something waterproof

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Never limit yourself to where and when you’re allowed to have a little bit of fun. You never know when the urge is going to strike. It could be a few minutes during your morning shower or during your evening bath.

Who knows! The point is, you want to have the option of enjoying your sexuality anywhere without worrying that you may destroy your vibrator if it happens to come into contact with some water.

2. Opt for less noise

Whether you share your home with another occupant or lean more towards the shy side, it’s always a good idea to purchase a vibrator that makes the least noise.

The last thing you want is to be caught enjoying your new purchase by a neighbor who can hear the whole things happening. Not only is this extremely embarrassing, but it’s somewhat of a private matter and should be kept that way.

However, you may find the perfect vibrator that offers exactly what you’ve always been looking for, except it’s a little bit noisy. Don’t let that stop you. Wrapping a condom around your vibrator will alleviate some of the noise and offer a little bit of lubrication at the same time. Try it!

3. Go for the smaller option

If you’re new to the game and you’re trying to figure out how to choose a vibrator that suits your ‘style’, opt for something that’s a little smaller than the conventional dildo size you may find in every other porn movie.

Great things often do come in small packages, with the added benefit of being able to take it with you wherever you go – even in your purse! Like I said, you just never know, so don’t get caught without it.

4. Camouflage your equipment

If you’re a private person, you want to make sure no one can obviously spot your vibrator from a mile away. Although some toys can give it away in a second, some have been designed to look nothing like the traditional vibrator.

Most are even sold with its very own pouch to ensure safe travels. Figuring out how to choose a vibrator has never been this easy! On the contrary, it’s never been this fun to enjoy private moments without anyone even knowing what you’re doing behind closed doors.

5. Choose a cost-effective toy

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Let’s face it, it may end up not being your thing. You may have purchased a vibrator that doesn’t fulfill your needs or doesn’t turn out to be what you expected.

So instead of going all out and purchasing an expensive vibrator, go for something simple and inexpensive – for now. You may end up liking it so much that you decide to purchase another one! You may end up enjoying it so much that you purchase a whole collection. Who knows!

6. Find something with different speeds

Using the same vibrator with the same speed can become quite monotonous, which is why you always need to look for a toy with various speeds.

Remember, your body changes day in and day out – depending on where in the month you’re at. Some days it may be more sensitive down there than other days, so you’ll need less friction to avoid over-stimulation. On other days, the more stimulation, the better.

7. Different settings are key

Who wants to enjoy the same vibration every single time? No one! Unless you don’t know any different. However, I’m here to tell you that you deserve different motions. They’re amazing!

You can even prolong your ‘me-time’ by switching between different settings to enhance the experience. Not all vibrations have that option so keep that in mind. Give it a try. It’s definitely worth it!

8. Choose a rechargeable

When determining how to choose a vibrator, always choose a rechargeable over battery-operated. The great thing about avoiding batteries is that you always have a supply of charging power available to you.

You never have to worry about running out of power, even when you really badly want to enjoy your ‘dead’ vibrator. Besides, batteries can become quite expensive and have the potential of ruining your toy if leaking is experienced.

9. Decide on the method

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Different vibrators are meant for different purposes. The smaller ones are usually designed to stimulate your clitoris, while larger ones are meant to hit your g-spot in all the right places.

As the list of options is pretty much endless, it’s always a good idea to examine your options carefully and decide on which area you want to stimulate.

Personally, I would suggest trying a clitoral stimulator first before trying any of the larger vibrators. Sometimes, starting off slow is the key to enjoying the moment. Besides, you always have the option to go bigger when the smaller vibrator no longer fulfills your needs.

10. Find the right material

Some materials are meant for the body and some should be avoided. Although they’re all designed to enter the body, some materials such as rubber, latex, or PVC should be avoided.

These materials can easily break down, mold, or harbor harmful bacteria if not cleaned properly. Instead, look for a vibrator made of ceramic, silicone, or abs plastic. Rather be safe than sorry!

Bonus tip: Don’t be afraid to approach a professional

Whether you choose to read helpful articles online or find someone knowledgeable in a novelty store, never be afraid to seek advice before purchasing any vibrator.

Trust me, your questions are valid and have been asked on numerous occasions. It’s nothing to be shy about and it definitely shouldn’t stop you from purchasing a vibrator. When trying to figure out how to choose a vibrator, getting advice from a professional is key to your success.

From one woman to another, choosing the perfect vibrator to suit your particular needs is just as fun as actually using it. Sure, things can become quite awkward relatively quickly, but we’ve all been there at one point or another during our lives.

Besides, rather have your own trusted steed in the form of a vibrator than a stranger in your bed every night. You know exactly where your vibrator’s been, for how long, and how well it’s been cleaned. You definitely know it’s disease-free without even having to have that dreaded conversation.

View this purchase as your very own treat for simply being a woman. Your sexuality should be embraced and celebrated, especially with something you can take anywhere, use anytime, and enjoy any place – even if it’s by yourself.

At least until you find someone who can ultimately replace all of its settings and fun-factor. When figuring out how to choose a vibrator, be sure to keep the above tips in mind and remember to always have fun!

About the author

Zenka

I originated from a classic romance novel, grew up in a small coastal town, and decided to venture out into the world, which led me to discover a passion for putting words together in a way that enlightens the imagination. I believe in providing a little inspiration, an equal amount of laughter and a whole lot of gumption!

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