10 Must Know Tips on How to be a Better Kisser

Bad kissers are the worst, no question about it. Whether you are new to smooching or a veteran of locking lips there's always room for improvement. Learn to kiss in such a way that it leaves him breathless and wanting more.

When a good kisser works her magic she can light up a fire of emotion, and make the experience feel like it’s out of this world. And the best thing is – practice makes it perfect! Read through some must know tips on how to be a better kisser. Scratch that. The best kisser.

1. Get Your Hands Into It

Not knowing what to do with your hands during a kiss is a common dilemma. But it shouldn’t be – as long as you don’t leave them just sort of hanging there, you’re good.

So, play with his hair, touch his face, his pecks, arms, basically anything goes. Put your hand on his chin and take control of the kiss. Very gently put both of your hands on his face during a kiss – it’s about as passionate as it can get.

2. A Little Teasing Goes a Long Way

This one’s golden. Right in the middle of the kiss, when he’s gotten completely into it, slowly move your hand from his face and through his hair and then gently pull him by the back of his head, just so that your lips suddenly become out of his reach by just a few millimeters.

Hold that pose for a couple of seconds looking straight into his eyes, maybe even smiling a bit, and then let go and kiss him. This will blow his mind for sure.

3. Leave Him Wanting More

Right in the middle of a passionate kiss, cut it off and start talking to him again. That’s gonna leave him wanting more, and he’s probably not going to let you get away with it that easy. So, you can expect him to grab you and start kissing you again in a matter of seconds.

4. Smile Throughout the Kiss

lovers preparing to kiss

They say that the best feeling ever is to open your eyes during a kiss and see the one you’re kissing smile.

Smiling is good, it shows you’re happy, you’re enjoying yourself and having a good time. Him seeing that something he’s doing is making you smile is really gratifying and quite an ego boost.

5. Whisper in His Ear

Slowly move his head to the side and whisper something sweet, or maybe even dirty, whatever your thing is, in his ear. Look him straight in the eyes and then get back to your kiss. It will drive him completely insane!

6. Experiment

kissing couple

More tips on how to be a better kisser? Experiment!

A kiss does seem simple enough once you get the hang of it, but there are so many ways in which you can take it to a whole new level.

Spice it up, make it more special and passionate, sweet, or whatever you want it to feel like. Earn that coveted tittle of a true make-out queen.

7. Don’t Forget the Neck

You know how him kissing your neck can drive you completely crazy and have you moan with pleasure. Don’t think he won’t feel the same way about it!

Again, it’s you taking over control and making him tremble with your making out skills which is enough to make him go nuts about you just by itself. Not to mention the tingling sensation of a gentle neck kiss that can be out of this world.

8. Switch up the Tempo

Surprise him with a passionate kiss when he expects it the least! Like, if you’re just cuddling and snuggling and being pretty passive with the kissing and touching, give him that vixen look and take over.

Throwing in a passionate kiss when he wasn’t even aware you have it in you (at least not in that moment) is definitely going to turn up the heat. First he’ll be stunned, then – he’ll be hooked!

9. Know When to Stop

This time I mean for good. Like when he’s dropping you off, and you’re kissing goodbye, but somehow that goes on and on if you’re both really into it and into each other. In that kind of a situation it’s always better to be the one that pulls out first!

No matter how bad you want to keep kissing him, remember – the one that stops it when it’s at its peak leaves the other one dying for more!

10. Tease Him With Your Tongue

One of the most important tips on how to be a better kisser!

Here are some ideas:

  • Use your tongue as a sexy visual turn-on.
  • Experiment with deep sensual kissing.
  • Have fun with some light erotic tongue teasing.
  • Use your tongue to expertly seduce your man

Start off around his face by kissing and nibbling on his ears and around his neck and collarbones, which are all sensitive spots; work your way over his body in any direction that feels right; focusing on using light flickering movements and small kisses. You can also use your hands to stroke and squeeze, helping to build the tension.

The cardinal sin is to raise a guy’s sexual expectations without follow-through. So, make sure you unbutton those pants of his and make your way down to the only place he really wants to feel your tongue!

Learn how to tease him with your tongue by giving him pleasure first. Your tongue Is your weapon – but only if you use it right!

All of the Above is Best Done in Private

man and woman initiating a kiss

Seriously this is a pretty serious list of making out tricks! You don’t want to be restricted in showing off your inner Lolita by anything. Besides don’t you just hate those annoying couples that seem to go off by getting it on in public!

Nah-uh don’t be one of those people, wait until you get him alone. Apply these tips on  how to be a better kisser and then work your magic!

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    • Today I just kissed him between the cheek and the lips. What do I do to make him kiss me in the lips for the first time and him wanting more of it? but these tips are good and I am going to try them.

  • Yeterday he kissed me on the lips and it was ok. But I feel like I want more of it.But I know that these tips are going to help in the futrue.

  • Can you please write a post on how to kiss or your first time kissing a guy? Or is there any post on how to kiss or first time kissing a guy?

  • I don’t know how to kiss my boyfriend. I mean how do I make the first move? But I really like your tips!

    • im going through the same thing! my boyfriend kissed me last week but it was short, and i kinda want to make out with him. i think if you just go for it and kiss him he will love it and definitely do it back to you too! im definitely gonna try it

    • Just go wif th flow. Don’t be scared u will make a flop or samething ;) and make sure u r comfortable and ooh yeah sometimes your bf is afraid u will slap/ smack him ….. Best of luck

  • omg this is great tip when i did every tip in there before i saw this tips that means i am good kisser but thank you i learned more

  • so i had my first kiss with my boyfriend last week, but it was wayy too short. i want to know how i can make out with him, because i know he wants to also; he even said it! if he doesnt make the first move should i? …and how?! please help me!!

  • reading this tips of how to kiss makes me wanna try it out…..thanks you’ve inspired me alot

  • Oh wow! I love these tips…I always just threw my hands around his neck, I never thought about doing anything with them while kissing! I tried it yesterday…. moving my hands all over him….He was dieing for more! :D I can’t wait to explore more options, wish me luck!

  • how do i kiss my boyfriend during school? im 15 and ive made out with him before? theres 1 or 2 weeks of school left and i wanna kiss him during school

    • Hey! Since you haven’t dated for long, I think you should keep it simple. I don’t think a long, deep kiss while at school if how far you want to go.
      Chat up with him when the break‘s near end, may be and after saying goodbye give him a lingering peck. Let it late for a couple of seconds or more.
      This should do for starters. :D

  • i kissed him first time it was so smooth n short bt i needed more as he was willing to i jxt hold his collars tight move him towards wall n kissed him..then for a while look in his eyes n kiss him slowly … he was jxt surprised he wanted more n more …so try it. it will make him crazy :P :D

  • I kissed a guy the other day at one of our school socials/parties. everyone was pressuring us so we sat at the curtain in the dark and waited for everyone to leave us alone. we held hands and I thought it was going to being a short kiss but he stuck his tongue in my mouth and made out with me. i was the one to pull away after about 5 or 6 seconds. we kissed again later on that night and this time i held his hand and put my other one on his neck. i think he was turned on. my advice is let him make the first move but if he doesn’t get it then hint at it.