5 Tips for Seducing a Guy on Facebook

So there's this guy you like on Facebook, but you have no idea how to get the conversation started and how to make him interested in you. Here are 5 tips that will help you seduce that guy through Facebook.

Whether we’d like to admit it or not, Facebook has become a big part of our lives. Just as any other big part of our lives, it can hide many segments of it: sometimes an important information, sometimes friendships – and sometimes even true love.

You’ve seen the profile of this guy – and there is simply something about him that you can’t resist. Frending him was a piece of cake – but how do you start dating him? Well, it isn’t easy really – but everything can be done. Just like Francis Ford once said – “Whether  you think you can make it or not, you are usually right.”

#1 Stop Liking His Photos

You’ve seen his profile picture album.  It’s O.K. that you did, I’m not saying there’s no one on Facebook I enjoy stalking – but darling, he doesn’t have to know or think he is the reason you even have a Facebook profile. Like one or two – there is no reason for more.

He has no need to know you replaced Huffington Post with his profile.

#2 Read His Info

More important than his photos is definitely his info. What kind of music does he like? How ‘bout his favourite movies or actors? Travels? You know, there is more to a person than a lovable profile picture. In this era of Photoshop it is very easy to look amazing. Both you and him know that. Now that you know all that, like some post of his – like his favourite song, let’s say.

#3 Check His Mutual Friends

This is very important – just so you’d know of what clique is he a part of. Because, if he mostly hangs out with losers it quite probable he is a loser too. Also, you might find someone who is close to both of you and can easily introduce you, or at least tell you something you want to know – like his favourite bar.

#4 Comment on Some Status of His

When he posts and interesting status, comment. That way you can easily start a conversation – and he might even ask you out. If he does, you’ve done it.

Worst case scenario is that you start some kind of contact – and that isn’t that bad, is it? If he starts liking your posts, that means he’s interested in you. So, now what you do? You just stick around and wait for him to send you a message.

It is crucial he thinks he’s the one stalking you, not the other way around.

#5 Live up to Your Profile Picture

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Just joking. Or not – now that you and him have agreed to have a date, you have to look pretty – and effortless. If he doesn’t ask you out, it is time to quit. It’s enough – you’re not that desperate and he’s obviously not interested. Hopefully, that’s not really the case!

Go to your date smiling, because you’re really close to getting the guy – use the info you’ve picked up on Facebook to start the conversation and mutual interests. You are probably a good a mach, if you’re still interested in him after all you know about him.

Let love blossom – everybody likes it.

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Those who can’t do teach – same with me giving you love advice. I like jazz and the theatre, old movies that I watch while drinking wine, but most of all I like love and smiles.

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