5 Things You Need to Know about Dirty Talk

It’s not just about what you say, but also HOW you say it. Words are a powerful tool in all aspects of life, and often are not used in the bedroom. Maybe it’s because you're shy? Well, maybe it’s time for you to you drop the shy act.

1st Know What You Want

Forget everything about sex you’ve ever read or seen in the movies. Most women can’t have an orgasm with penetration only, but they also need other sorts of stimulation and the orgasm will be there in just a few minutes.

Whether you have a talented lover or you yourself have to get to that, only you know what you need to get your high. And if you still do not know how, it’s time to finally learn. Do you have fantasies? Try to find out what yours and your partner’s roles should be in bed by using your fantasies. Once you know exactly what you want, you’re ready for the next step.

2nd Ask for What You Want

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One of the reasons why men like it when their partner tells them stories during sex is because they are very visual creatures. They are easy to get excited while imagining a sexy scene. For example, you can tell him: ‘I watched you while you wash the car, you were appealing and I imagined that the sponge washed my entire body, everywhere. ” You can say anything that turns you on and you can ask for anything you want.

3rd Enjoy the Words You Use and How Simple They are

Many think that dirty talk covers only very vulgar words that you feel uncomfortable saying. It might not be so. You can just say what you like being done to you and what you like when your partner does to you. Start with some small things. Ask for something small like a kiss on the neck.

4th Imagine a Scene and then Verbalize It

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Sometimes people give up ‘dirty’ talk in bed because you do not know how to say something. It is important that you feel comfortable while playing with words. It will be easier if you imagine a scene or an action and then try to verbalize it.

5th It May Also Be Easier

If you still do not see yourself in that role, try something like the simplest example: “I want you, now.” This simple sentence is definitely going to get his attention.

Sexy conversations are erotic because they allow you to be someone else for the period of time you spend saying those dirty words. And finally, the most important thing is to enjoy it and experience it as entertainment only. Hope you enjoy it and that it helps redefine the notorious sentence “Honey we need to talk.”

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Those who can’t do teach – same with me giving you love advice. I like jazz and the theatre, old movies that I watch while drinking wine, but most of all I like love and smiles.

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