Should You Call Him Back?

He didn’t call you back, yet. Should you call him first instead? Or maybe not? Find out what’s the right thing to do.

He isn’t calling, and you really, really, really like him. He tells great jokes, he has the cutest smile, you have the same taste in music and movies, there is such a vibe to him, you really, really like him!

It is after all, the 21st century. Women go to work and pay their bills, have the same rights, why wouldn’t you call?

So, should you call him? NO. I will say it again. NO. No, you shouldn’t call him.

And this is why.

Reason Number 1

Yes, it’s the 21st century, and yes it is tempting to exercise your rights as an independent woman. Ok, than, go ahead.

But, don’t expect him to treat you as a lady and open the doors for you or buy you flowers. Men like to think they managed to win someone no one else could. They want to climb the Mount Everst – not the hill in their back yard.

Who knows, maybe it’s a macho thing. Perhaps it makes males feel more manly to be the victor who has successfully hunted, chased down, and caught the object of his desire.

Yes, they might from time to time sit on top of the hill in their back yard, but they’ll even hang in their neighbour’s back yard even if it’s shorter, less well maintained and frequented by so many other neighbours just because they have to walk an extra mile to get there.

Guys can be strange. They have the option to ignore you. They may even tease you and make you feel small when they are simply unable to communicate how they truly feel about you.

Here is a foolproof, step-by-step method to play hard to get, so that your drawn your guy into the game and you both end up winning!

Reason Number 2

If he wants to call there is nothing that will stop him to do so. If he wants you he will have to have you, if he’s a man. If he’s not, try finding a guy that is.

It starts by you calling him, and usually ends in you planning the holidays, buying yourself Valentine’s gifts and/or cards, fixing the car and changing his diapers. You want a man? Than, treat him as a man. And a man calls.

Reason Number 3

should you call him back

If you wait a bit longer, and he still doesn’t call, you will know he wasn’t really that interested in the first place. If you call, and he answers, you will never know was it because he really wanted to, or because you were already there.

It’s like the late night visit to the kitchen. He found that sandwich you made yesterday and so he ate it. That doesen’t mean he really wanted that particulare sandwich, but it was there. If there was a hot dog, he would eat the hot dog. You don’t want to be a yesterdays sandwich.

You want to be a pancake he called the delivery service for and payed extra money for it. Because that’s what he wanted, not anything else, but that sweet pancake.

At the end of the month, your phone bill will be lower. And not only your phone bill – but the emotional bill, too, and your tolerance level for men who are really not that into you.
You are not a yesterday’s meal, you can not and should not be reheated as desired.

You are a lady. And you want him to happily sing the lyrics of the song by Tom Jones “She’s a lady” with the same amount of enthusiasm Tom Jones had in the seventies.

Being a lady and upholding those standards is a privilege and a right some of us have forgotten about. If you have no idea what I’m referring to, this is definitely the article for you!

If he never calls, he will just be some guy who never called. If you call him, you will be just some girl who really, really, really, put in some effort, although he wasn’t that into you.

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Those who can’t do teach – same with me giving you love advice. I like jazz and the theatre, old movies that I watch while drinking wine, but most of all I like love and smiles.

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