Kinky sex can be incredibly hot, but guys and girls don’t always get aroused with the same things. Men tend to have different kinds of urges than women and these are the things they love the most! Kinky sex can be incredibly hot, but guys and girls don’t always get aroused with the same things. Here are 8 Kinky Things Men Love.
Most men, at least at some point in their life, have had a fixation on pornography. Some guys watch it every day. Some guys watch it all day long, unfortunately. Guys that do watch porno have their favorite videos. That can have an effect on their sexual fantasies and what they want to do in the bedroom when the opportunity arises.
That’s not to say that all of the men’s kinkiest desires originate from pornography. Whether these desires come from porn or not, they are embedded in us and we get a great amount of satisfaction from them. There are plenty of things that you don’t often see in online videos that guys like as well. Either way, here are eight kinky things that guys go crazy for.
Anal sex
We’ve already explained in detail in our article Why Do Men Like Anal Sex, but to sum it up, men want to do everything sexual at least once. They want to try it all and they want to mix it up once in a while too. Anal sex feels good. It’s different than vaginal or oral sex. There is also a psychological element of domination and sexual exploration that can excite and ultimately please a man.
t. A woman offering herself to a man, including all parts of her body, brings the man great satisfaction on more than one level.
Pleasurable anal sex requires maturity, understanding and preparation; which means lots of foreplay and having plenty of patience. Using the right sex positions can also help to make the experience a good one.
Striptease
Most girls are too shy to do the striptease, but for those who feel comfortable enough to do it, your partner will appreciate it. Along with role play and other types of theatrics, stripping can cause a bit of embarrassment at first, but if you and your partner can get past the slight awkwardness of doing it for the first time, it can be very arousing and entertaining.
Remember, a striptease is all about wanting what you can’t have. You can eventually give in and give him what he wants, of course, but not until you’ve made him insane with desire.
Here’s how to strip for your man.
Dirty talk
Talking dirty is an art form. If you say the wrong thing, it can be a turn-off, or simply cause laughter which tends to bring you both back to reality. The tone of voice is important.
If you don’t know what to say at first, let him lead the way by dropping a hint, and base the things you say on the things he said first. That’s a very safe way to ensure you don’t say something he’s not into (if you’re concerned about that). But, once you get a rhythm going with it, guys love the encouragement.
Many think that dirty talk covers only very vulgar words that you feel uncomfortable saying. It might not be so. You can just say what you like being done to you and what you like when your partner does to you.
Here is how dirty talk can really heat thing up between the sheets.
Hair pulling
There’s something about having your hair pulled during foreplay or intercourse that sends a chill down your spine. If you enjoy it, chances are he does too. Rough sex wouldn’t be complete without it.
Give your man’s hair a medium strength tug and see how he responds. If he pulls yours too, that’s a good sign that he likes it. It might be difficult to control yourself in the moment, but be careful not to pull too hard. He won’t want to lose any hair in the process.
Sitting On His Face
This is undoubtedly one of the kinky things men love you’ll enjoy most. So, go with the flow, and get ready for a mind-blowing climax. When it comes to sex, eagerness and confidence working together is the ideal.
Looking up at you like that is incredible. Watching you orgasm in this position is sooo hot!
More Oral
Other kinky things men love is oral, of course. Return the favor and gie him a blowjob that will blow his mind. A good blowjob is kind of like art. You have to love it to do it right.
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Spontaneity
Randomly hooking up is thrilling. If you can catch your partner when he least expects it with a big move, it will really turn him on. It can be at home or even out in public, as long as it’s totally random.
The best part for him will be the knowledge that you’re capable of doing something like that at any time. That’ll be a very erotic fantasy for him. He’ll look forward to the next time you do something like that. Don’t be surprised if he returns the thrill when you least expect it too.
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Sensual massage
There are many types of sensual or erotic massage techniques. The idea is that your partner plays a completely passive role while you please him in various ways. To spice it up a bit, you can use feathers, ice, heating pads, or any other kind of stimulating object. You can get plenty of ideas for how to do it with a quick Google search.
Remember, soft and sensual massage is a great foreplay for sex.
Kama Sutra
If you haven’t already explored the many sexual positions of the Kama Sutra as a couple, your man will certainly enjoy trying it. The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian Hindu text that serves as a guide for lovemaking and relationship advice. There are guide books you can buy or videos you can watch that demonstrate the different techniques and how to do them properly.
We’ve singled out 3 sex positions for you to try out...
Making a home movie
If your partner hasn’t already attempted this, he probably will at some point. Guys enjoy being the star of their own pornographic video. Going back and watching it later has a somewhat more powerful effect than online porn.
If you’re worried about him keeping it, set a time frame for him to have it. Don’t forget to make him swear never to put it online. Otherwise, those old videos could end up on a major porn website if you guys break up, so be careful!
Have you tried any of these stuff with your partner? Which one do you like the most? Tell us in the comment section down below about more kinky things men love.
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