Getting comfortable doing it when you’re new at all of that sexual stuff takes some time! That’s why it’d be smart to start off nice and easy! Going slow is the way to go, and if you’re just a beginner these are the top 7 positions you should stick too! Until you loosen up a bit at least!
These are mostly what are considered to be ‘standard’ and ‘regular’ positions. So they are definitely the ones to start off with if you’re just beginning to explore your…uh…options! They aren’t too hard on your muscles and won’t cause discomfort or strain for either of you, so, you’ll be able to work up some experience before you go on to some more challenging ones!
Considered to be the tamest of them all! Everybody knows how this one goes – the girl is on her back and the guy in on top. There are variations as for what you can do with the legs – wrap them around him, spread them wide, pull them closer to you, put them on his shoulders etc. But for starters, stick to what comes easy, as all variations make a difference in the angle and depth of penetration. Since the guy is on top, he’s pretty much in control of the speed and force of thrusting so make sure you tell him to slow down it starts feeling like too much – which can happen in the beginning.
2. Girl on Top
It’s pretty self-explanatory, this one… You’re the one on top AND the one in charge. Even though it’s most common for girls to lose their virginity in the missionary position, it’s not a bad idea to try and do it this way instead – simply because with this one you can be in control and decide how hard and fast you want to go. If you’re reluctant to get on top cause you feel like you won’t know what to do or how to move, don’t worry! It’s not expected of you to be an expert if you’re just beginning, and there’s no one right way to do it. Just do what feels right, and try and see what movements give you and him the most pleasure. This position is considered to be the one that can get most girls to orgasm, because this is where they can take care of their big O themselves!
3. Doggy Style
This is a favorite for most guys and many girls too. When you’re on your hands and knees it enables him to have access to everything and get a deeper angle of penetration. Because of this, ask him to go slow at first until you make sure it’s not causing you any pain and you’re ready to get a little raunchy!
4. Reverse Cowgirl
It’s girl on top, but, the other way around. You’re not faced towards each other so he won’t be able to get a good look at the girls, instead he’ll have a nice view of your back. Again, lots of variations are possible, and you’ll see that once you get going and get a bit more comfortable being this intimate with your partner, you’ll naturally start to switch it up and move with your instincts.
5. Standing up from Behind
You standing against the wall with him behind you is also a good position for beginners. It’s a bit out of the ordinary just cause you’re not in bed but are standing, but it’s still easy to pull off. Because he’s in the back you’ll need to arch your back and stick out your butt a little bit so he can have easier access.
6. Against the Table
Or against anything you can sit on that’ll allow him to be standing up while you’re at it. So you should find an appropriate table or something similar. You sit on the edge, wrap your legs around him and let him do the work. It won’t be hard on him either if you manage to find something the right height.
Last but not least, the ultimate oral sex position. You’re…uh…attending to his private parts while he’s attending to yours. Both of you feel pleasure at the same time. It’s easy in the sense that it’s clear what goes where but know that ‘working’ while being ‘worked on’ takes a bit of focusing, and you’ll have to agree who’s going on top! For specific positions when performing oral sex on your guy we suggest you read this awesome guide we’ve reviewed for you.
Choosing the right sex position for you can also help you achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.