Having sex in a special or unusual place can add a lot of excitement to the experience. Sex in public or just in a strange place is thrilling, and it’s usually something you’ll never forget. It can add a refreshing spark to any relationship.
You might not even realize that you were starting to get bored until you do something like randomly jump on your partner in a place that you wouldn’t normally do it. They might be surprised and even confused at first, but they’ll appreciate it after.
Having a random element of spontaneous sex adds sexual tension to a relationship. Sex at unusual times can really do wonders to keep a relationship fresh and interesting.
You should do this with your partner somewhat regularly in order to help maintain their interest and work your way further into their fantasies.
If you suspect that your partner might make a move at some point, not in the bedroom but you have no idea where or when it can build anticipation and keep the fire burning. Role playing and other acts outside of the norm also stimulate sexual attraction in a relationship.
Playfulness and teasing in locations outside of the bedroom is always good. Anything to build up the tension and get your partner excited, even for just a few seconds, will benefit the relationship overall.
At the very least, it will demonstrate to them that you still find them sexy and you feel the urge to randomly jump their bones the way you did when the two of you first met.
It doesn’t necessarily have to be straight up sex to have the same exciting result. Oral sex or even just heavy petting can have a similar effect to an extent. If you or your partner is too shy to actually have full on sex in any of the locations described below, try doing a bit hooking up without any pressure to take it all the way and see if you or they warm up to it.
If you like the idea of experimenting with sex in new locations, or you’ve already tried it and you’re curious about where else you can do it, this rundown of the best spots you may or may not have thought of will surprise and arouse both you and your partner.
In a car
Inside a car is not the most comfortable place to have sex, but car sex is usually random and thrilling enough to make it so worth it. The suddenness of it can be very arousing. It’s always memorable, especially the first time.
If you haven’t ever tried having sex in a car, then you definitely need to pull over somewhere real quiet without telling your partner what you’re doing and make. Your partner will love it.
Another reason why this is one of the best places to have sex is that you can take a car anywhere. You can find a romantic spot to park and have the perfect moment before making the move.
In a pool or jacuzzi
Having sex in a body of water has a whole different feel. The texture and feeling is totally different, for guys at least. I can’t attest to what it’s like for girls, but I think I can safely speak for all the men out there by saying we love it.
Foreplay underwater is different too. The feel of your partner’s body under the water adds pleasure to an already unique feeling. Jacuzzis can get a bit messy if there is splashing. Also, you are limited to how long you can do it in a hot tub or jacuzzi because of the temperature.
It’s recommended that you spend a maximum of 15 minutes in a jacuzzi or hot tub. If you stay too long it will make you dehydrated and could even make you sick.
In the shower or bath tub
The foreplay is what makes shower sex so great. Washing each other can be very arousing. Soap on the skin can add a lot of sensitivity. Although in the shower the act itself can be cumbersome without some kind of seat, the shower is always an excellent place to kick things off before drying off and heading to the bedroom.
This is definitely one of the best places to have sex in public because it’s also one of the safest as long as you keep quiet. That’s easier said than done though. With the excitement of the fact that you’re doing it in a changing room and the natural sounds of the act, it’s best to either take it really slow as to minimize noise or do it really fast and get out of there.
Public sex is best as a quickie anyway. Don’t be surprised if your man finishes as quickly as he can.
As a guy, I can tell you that being in a laundry room with a girl is kind of arousing. Maybe it’s because they’re very small rooms and you have to stand so close to each other, or maybe it’s all the underwear hanging around, but whatever it is, the laundry room is high on the list of places that we want to try having sex.
When you’re done, you can pick your clothes up off the floor and toss them straight into the washer.
If you can prevent mosquitoes from making their way into your tent, camping is a good time for romantic, pitch dark sex on a sleeping bag. Being out in the wilderness with no television or household distractions lets you focus on your partner. You’ll have plenty of time for foreplay, so take it slow and let the relaxing vibe lead the way.
In front of a mirror
Being able to see yourself in the act in real time is interesting. You’ll find that you end up watching yourself just as much if not more than your partner. It’s unusual to be able to see yourself having sex while actually doing it, so it’s fun if you haven’t done it in a while, and especially if you’ve never done it before.
At the beach
If you can ensure that sand doesn’t get into any unwanted areas, sex on the beach is great on a whim. If it were to be planned out, you could have plenty of beach towels and space to stretch out without touching the sand, but that would take away some of the gritty charm of getting down and dirty along the shore.
Too much wind can really put a damper on it though, so keep that in mind before packing your beach towels with a surprise for your partner in mind.
In the kitchen
The kitchen is a great place to have spontaneous sex. There’s something implicitly sexy about a woman cooking. The countertop serves as a good place to start. If you have whipped cream or chocolate syrup, you could have some real fun with your foreplay. If you’ve ever seen the movie 9 ½ Weeks with Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke then you know what I mean.
On a plane
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Most of all, discovering the best places to have sex is all about timing. No matter where you might be, as long as you have enough privacy to pull it off, you can have a once in a lifetime thrill by being creative and going with the flow.
When the mood strikes and the light bulb in your head lights up, don’t be afraid to make the move and make the moment memorable and pleasurable for both you and your partner.